Hey, of course I'll keep my pants on (besides, anyone who has shot a handgun knows what hot brass feels like when it hits ya
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OK...First Lesson of using a gun.
We always keep our firearm pointed 'downrange' (so you don't accidentally shoot the lady next to you) . Don't aim your gun at your husband/man unless he is 'downrange' away from all of the other women.
When holding your gun, don't put your finger on the trigger. You keep your index finger alongside of the gun, outside of the trigger guard. This is called 'trigger indexing'. Your finger never goes on the trigger until you are ready to fire a round...again, making sure that your husband/man is downrange from you and your ready to fire, you can then place your finger on the trigger.
The only way your handgun is going to go off is if you pull the trigger...so no fingers on the trigger until you are committed to shooting (again, with your husband/man downrange)
Soon, we'll talk about breath control and sight alignment...two very important factors when dealing with your husband/man.