Similar or Different to your Best Friend?

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Simple question.

Everyone here has a best friend. This friend should be with you through think and thin and all of that corny crap. Question is, are you alike or not alike to your best friend? How?

I'm definatly, 100% different from my best friend. My best friend has done drugs, I don't. I am athletic, he's soft and a pansy. He has attitude problems and is deathly spoiled, I'm not that way at all. He's cool and everything, he's done alot for me, but he is totally different from me.

How about you?
 
when me and my best friend meet 2 years ago, we were total opposits and now that we have spent so much time together, we lived together for almost a year and were working together at the same job, same shifts too! but now we live a few blocks from each other have different jobs, and we are exactly the same...lol our pasts a bit different, but our childhoods are earily the same.. we think the same, we plan to go out and when we meet up we are usualy dressed very similar, people alwasy ask if we are twins, then sisters and they are always surprised that we are not related... we dont even look the same I think... haha. but shes my best bud and we always have a blast togethe!!!!
 
me and my best friend is mostly opposite..

my best friend is a heavy hunter, etc.. i'm just starting to learn how to hunt.. he influence me to hunt so i take the chance and liked it.

I like clean job.. he likes dirty job.
he likes to live Way up north in the woods been redneck... i like to live in country farm area..

but there's also some similar interest we have... he hates cities.. as i hate cities too.
he love going atving.. i also love going atving. (2 years ago i wasn't into atving)

thats all i can think of right now
 
I don't have a bestfriend, I don't think I want one.. I have ton of close friends but haven't picked who is the best of friend to me. I had a bestfriend back in my school days for many many years actually had 2.. one is a lot like me.. we were both very athletic, liked the same type of guys, same clothes, etc.. BUT she got married at 19 and moved away and have not heard from her since. :cry: Sure do miss her and been searching for her. No Luck.
The other girl and I were totally different, different lifestyle, she was very femine, still is..was very educational, loved school... I was the opposite, love sports more than anything, very shy, I had a lot more compassion towards other people, she didn't. We worked together for years before graduating from high school. She moved to New York for college and lost that friendship with her.. she is very much into her world, much happier there so say she is a New Yorker. I'm just an ole country girl that loves the peacefulness. We still today keep in contact and tells each other all the news. But we're not "bestfriends" anymore.. she's grown up, I have too. always will love her as a great friend! So now, I rather just leave it at that and just have tons of friends that I can be most comfortable with. Maybe one day, I'll have a bestfriend again but I'm not looking!
 
I met my best friend about 24 years ago, and yes, she's my childhood best friend. We are still very much in contact and talk all the time even though we live 2200 miles apart. It is hard to say how different we are because we do like some of the same things, yet we like different things as well. So it's like 50-50 between being similar and being different. When we were growing up, we had a passion for amusement parks, so we had season passes for amusement parks and would go all the time. We would never get sick of it. We still got season pass until 2003, when I moved to Utah. I miss doing that with my best friend.

What my best friend does not share with me are the interests I have in learning foreign languages and cultures, eating a lot of ethnic foods (she's a very picky eater and will not even eat steak), etc... It was funny when she found out I was partnered with an Asian man, she was asking me if it was "any different" from being with a white man. I had to laugh my ass off about that.
 
My best friend....

I've been raised together as "Best friend" so many years until out the world.. We are still together. When we were in High school at Milton School and almost extdactly our type of clothes, nail polish, gossip juicer, loves sweet revenage for pleasure fun simlair prank and awful lot. They were call'n us "Trouble-maker girl" *scoff laughing what great memorable ever I had. (chuckles)

When Finish High school, We were spilt different direction places and kept contuine contact each together. I got kids few year later my best friend got kids too.. Always visit each together. Afterall, I made decision best interest for us(1st child and me) moved far away distance 200/km from Toronto. Of course I do miss my best friend but glad have computer right here... via contact her sometimes depend how busy we are. Last visit to see her, Whoa what happend to her.. BIG CHANGED... fuk'ed up I tries encourge her don't do.... drinking front of children, drugs and blah blah.. Turns it out, I'm very upsetting and diffculties relationship w/her... I have no choice.. took my own children away from her and sorry my own precouisly god-children (can't take them w/me) already last kissed them good bye... I rushed into the car *varrrrrrrrooooooooooooom* gone... I cried... unbelivable what happend to her.... I have no best friend since 2 years from now... Only I have left nice friends nearby my homearea and next town too.

Least, I have wonderful loving family here beside I feel alike my children are my best friend...
 
i knew my best friend since i was 2 and half. We re total different.

She love animals, i don't

She love go out all the time, i like settle in mostly

She not socialize, but i do!

The commons we both likes! we love camping and outdoors such like hiking, atvs.
 
my best friend Pancho and i are alike. we both surf, we both like the same music, we both have the same taste in clothes.

The Boss and Captain Sparrow will always ride!
 
My childhood best friend and I are very different from each other.

She's outgoing, very assertive, domineering, very social, loves to play sports, one-person job, loves to debate, fave color green, loves camping, skiing, and drinking parties with families and friends.

Me: easygoing, laid back, low-key, loves computers, work with people, hates getting into arguements, fave color blue, loves biking, bowling, and eating out with families and friends.

Current simialiries: wife, mother, daughters, SUVs, married to hearing hubby, own house, and cats.

:)
 
I have several best friends, my Deaf sisters, Kootchie and my hearing best friend Chris that I grew up with.

My Deaf sisters and I share so much but we are total opposites. One minute we can be loving, another minute we would be fist-fighting. The wonderful thing about us sisters, we are best friends and we live so far away from each other, we "must" email or AIM/MSN each other every night for a three- way chat.

I am so close with Kootchie because he's like a brother to me. I can easily confide into him and be myself around him and not worry about putting up any acts. We share a lot in common when it comes to cultures because I love experimenting with foreign foods, sitting in cafes & people - watch and drink. Kootchie has exposed me to his activities and I have truly come to appreciate it and started to expose my boyfriend to those as well.

Chris, my hearing best friend, I grew up with. We are so much like brothers and sisters because at first Chris "liked" me as a boy would like a girl. I had funny vibes from Chris because I knew he wasn't walking the str-8 path. Chris and I share the same hobbies, watching movies and we always rented VHS movies (back then!) and we'd eat popcorn a lot! Chris went to Scotland for a year and when he came back, I was the first person he ever told that he was gay. I knew instantly when he came back he had experiences in Europe.

This is how close I am with my best friends and I firmly believe best friends aren't similiar because they are individuals with similar paths and traits.
 
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