Shyness....

Levonian said:
Unfortunately, the stuff is fairly expensive. The best way to take it is to buy it in bulk powder form and mix it with water. So far, the cheapest price I’ve found is from Bulk Nutrition. I usually buy the 100 gram bottle for $40. They’re an excellent supplier—I’ve ordered the stuff on Sunday and had it in the mailbox Wednesday, regular USPS Priority. If you’re going to try this, I strongly suggest that you start with a quarter teaspoon and work your way up from there. Dosages above half a teaspoon will probably have undesirable side effects, so be careful. Don’t drive until you know exactly how this stuff affects you.
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Thanks for the info, Levonian.. I'll seriously think about it :)
 
ecevit said:
Thanks for the info, Levonian.. I'll seriously think about it :)
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They have a small 30 gram bottle for $16. Shipping is about $5, I think. That would be the best way to see if you like it or not. If you get the small bottle and you don’t like it, then you’re only out about $21. But most people like it. I even slip my dog some when he gets a little too spastic, and it calms him right down.
 
As for me, a long one I think!! Me ---->> :Oops: always have which is very normal.... yet still doing very well so far!

As young I was really shyness even around deaf ppl at school!! Sometimes I get wrong say things (like u guys), I get freaking blush often and sweat! It is true! lol but man I really hate that so bad! So I don't much go out with hearing except for deaf ppl mostly is what I get more comforable but I do not outgoing nor talkive either! Till when I attented at college they had speech class which was reiquired for major graduation... man, they really help me a lot!! But one was umm I forget name other class which was sort of like umm learning something to over come my fear, shyness and other...etc. That one was really help me a lot but it was just sort one. So that how I had to take speech class for very good reason cuz I need it to overcome my fear and shyness and it works!! However, I still freaking shy in the whole audenice(sp?)...forget it! :lol: If I do I get blush and sweating so bad! I don't do good that way except for small is enough for me! :lol: Me werid? lol

So u are not alone ^Angel^ right now u are still young much like I used to be! Now I am fine and happy!! That is, not in the front of the whole world! EEEEEEEK! :Ohno:

At that time I was not very good compation with hearing ppl at all....hard to communation at all but with deaf ppl sometimes not too bad....just depend of course......

But now I have new hearing friends at where I work but I do not inivate them over to my home, why is that? Cuz I still have plms with lack of communation!!!!!!!!!! Sighs so that was why!! SAme with deafies but very little that all.....I guess!!

I am not sure if u can understand what I am talking abt or meaning by that???? U see, I am trying to explain in that dang English but that was tough one! Oh well, that is me, that is who I am!

SSSSOOOOOOO u are not alone, Angel! :hug:
 
lol yea i am shy person too...i even get shy to ask questions to my step dad so i had to have my mom to ask him sometime and i am shy around my other side of family not to my mom and step dad and grammy but just depend on my step dad when it come to questions i tend to get shy and i do get shy even around my best friend lmao...but i dont show it lol and i do get shy around my crush when i see him in person OMG! lol and plus i am shy around other people too that why i dont stand out in the crowd that much and arent popular cuz of that .....sometime i can get over with my shyness but sometime i cant *shrugs, nervous laugh*
 
I'm painfully shy in real life. I'm about to see that change once I hang out with my childhood best friend again. I've already cost my friendships with few people, but hopefully it won't happen again in the future.
 
Catmandu said:
I'm painfully shy in real life. I'm about to see that change once I hang out with my childhood best friend again. I've already cost my friendships with few people, but hopefully it won't happen again in the future.
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man i dont believe that. ur too pretty to be shy.
 
AJ said:
man i dont believe that. ur too pretty to be shy.
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So youre saying that shyness pick out only ugly people? :dunno: Many beautiful people are painfully shy. It has nothing to do with looks. It makes people judge them even more harshly, thinking that they are stuckup or snobbish, never imaging that they could be shy.
 
RebelGirl : Not always. Some men like feisty/spunky girls.
 
The bookstore are selling the yellow and black books called "shyness for the dummiest" that may help u how to break ur shyness..
 
Gemtun said:
So youre saying that shyness pick out only ugly people? :dunno: Many beautiful people are painfully shy. It has nothing to do with looks. It makes people judge them even more harshly, thinking that they are stuckup or snobbish, never imaging that they could be shy.
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i was trying to pay her a compliment, {edited}.
 
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Gemtun said:
So youre saying that shyness pick out only ugly people? :dunno: Many beautiful people are painfully shy. It has nothing to do with looks. It makes people judge them even more harshly, thinking that they are stuckup or snobbish, never imaging that they could be shy.
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Exactly!
 
I'm also terribly shy. I'm reserved around hearing people because obviously I'm different and I'm shy around deaf people because my signing is not up to par despite having really good receptive skills. Consequentially, I get labeled as a snot which couldn't be any further from the truth. It would be nice if people would give others the benefit of the doubt before labeling someone just because they "look like a snob."
 
Catmandu said:
I'm painfully shy in real life. I'm about to see that change once I hang out with my childhood best friend again. I've already cost my friendships with few people, but hopefully it won't happen again in the future.
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What do you really mean by saying it cost your friendship with a few people? Is it cause of your shyness?....
 
I'm getting tired of the rudeness posts in here, if you can't say anything nice then don't even bother posting in my thread.... :squint:
 
^Angel^ said:
What do you really mean by saying it cost your friendship with a few people? Is it cause of your shyness?....
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I have failed to meet them because of my shyness and I lack confidence in myself around people as well. Fear of rejection. Fear of being judged. Fear of trusting people. I just cannot get past them and I lost some friends over it. I'm so pathetic!
 
Honestly I was very shy when i was young. I don't social much since i live in country. I have no way to courage to date any guys. But alots guy did asked me. I didn't respond to them. I was too way shy. When i was in mainstream, it gotten me opening abit and less shy. Gone to program of college, it got me much less of shy. But i'm somewhat shy in some way tho. Like CUTE guys. of course lol

My boyfriend is shy person everytime to meet new people.. Not to speak til get himself comfort zone first, likewise my parents, about 7th times finally opening up. LOL even my mom think he is so CUTE :giggle:
 
I do get shy very easy around anybody, even my friends and my own family. I sometime don't talk that much unless I feel comfortable, I would be very, very talkative. I never forget that day, when I met Sequoias first time, he was very talkative and I was very quiet because I was SHY! :giggle: And, odd thing is, if someone is being rude or whatever like that, I would stand up quickly very easy in their face and say something in their face, I do sometime that to people if I really don't like how they say or whatever like that, same like if someone push wrong button that make me mad or something like that then I would do that. Mostly of my friends and family knew that, even Sequoias noticed that and he was like geez... :dunno: I don't know why I do that. I just guess that I got it from my parents because they get stand up to another people very easy but they aren't that shy, I'm only very shy person more than all of my family, I just guess thats why I get shy very easy because of my deafness.
 
AJ, I appreciate your compliment about my appearance, but it's getting old now.

Let's talk about dealing with shyness now. :ty:
 
Catmandu said:
I have failed to meet them because of my shyness and I lack confidence in myself around people as well. Fear of rejection. Fear of being judged. Fear of trusting people. I just cannot get past them and I lost some friends over it. I'm so pathetic!
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Oh no Catmandu you're NOT pathertic at all , I'm in the same situation as you are, and I've had a hard time trusting people too but I'm slowly starting to trust some of my good friends cause I know they won't turn their back on me no matter how shy I am...I also have a fear of being judge as well too, so believe me you're not alone in this Catmandu :hug:
 
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