Pregnant at 11 years old

:crazy: That's too young to have a baby... .she should give it up for adooption.
 
Buckdodgers said:
This is a very sick thread. :mad: MODS Lock it up please!
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uh, what's sick about it? we are just talking about 12 year old girl expecting to have a baby and we didnt even say anything ugly about it. we just think she's too young to have one or something like that so perhas since you keep jumping the gun, you should lock yourself up?

Anyway, I do too believe that she is too young to have a baby at a certain age like that...I just didnt know a young girl's body is developed enough to have a baby at an age like this. However, I've heard of a 14 year old Japanese girl giving birth to twins and had to give it away for adoption.

But let's face it here, it is her baby she's carrying so she has the right to make her own decisions as it is her own flesh and blood so even though I do think she's too young for that but I wish her the best of luck and that I hope she learned her lesson that if she ever wanted another baby, she should wait 'til the time is right. she has a long way to go with school and then college. of course it would be hard for her, but would be hard enough to give up your own flesh and blood so I wouldnt want to do that if I were her thou even if I were her age too. This is what true mothers want...they want to keep their own children.
 
I think the mother should be cited for child endangerment. Pregnant AND chain smoking at 11? Where does she get the money to buy cigarettes?
 
Eve said:
This doesn't surprise me at all. It happens to 11-yr-olds all the time in the United States. In fact, as the saying goes "if they can bleed, they can breed" and many girls start their cycles at the age of 9. I believe the World Book of Guiness records has listed the youngest mother to be 9 yrs old.
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Acutally the yongest mother on record was a Peruvian girl who ws 5 years old.

http://www.snopes.com/pregnant/medina.asp
 
I seen it before since one girl that I used to go to school back in 75's I think. She was approx. 10 yrs old and she was pregnant by someone and got kicked out.
 
My aunt works in the ER, She once told me that she was taking care of a girl who was 10 years old and pregnant. It's been about 4 years ago and that the little girl was going to keep the baby.. It's happens everywhere in this world. But it's the parents fault who doesn't teach thier childrens "mortals" and have common sense. Apparently doesn't give a crap about thier childrens so it means they aren't good parents.. Childrens smoking,having sex, running the streets at 10 years old without the parents permission. My aunt who works at the ER isn't a mother figure to be honest, she has a son who is my age 21 and a daughter who is 18 years old now. When her son was 16 they always gotten into fights and she would kick him out or he would move out. But I see where he is coming from because the mother can't get sense in her head and set ground rules because his sister (daughter) is pretty much out of controll.She has been arrested too many time for hitting her mother, I mean fist fights but the mother doesn't want to press charge because she "feels bad" for her.. COME ON!! She would spend the night with me and try to get with older guys but my mother point blank told her no because it's jailbait for the person and that she doesn't want to get in the between of them two... One night we went to the mall, me and her on my 17th birthday which Im pretty sure she was 15 years old, we were shopping for my 18th birthday. She took off and left me hanging by myself so she can mess around with a guy behind the skating rink which it was across the mall. It really really ticked me off, because she went home and told her mother that she was raped which she wasn't becasue my aunt told me that they didn't find anything damaged and there wasn't any proof of it. It was bullcrap and she almost got caught by the police by lying which that was sad.. Before you know it, she was 15 years old already messing around a lot of guys and even had the nerve to go behind me and her brothers back messing around with our friends.. She took my ex boyfriend which is her brothers best friend and screwed him. She amitted it to the both of us and it made me want to barf because it was my ex that we have been together for awhile..
I just now found out from my grandmother on the phone recently that she quit high school becasue she was falling behind, retook 9th grade 3 times already, she was suppose to be in the 11 almost going in the 12... She can't control her daughter and won't, so now from what Im hearing she is taking GED classes but she won't get her GED if I know her well enough.. It told it takes a long time to learn what you have missed so it takes time. I hope she does get her GED, Me and my cousin (brother) both got our GED, He got a good job at UPS and now making some big bucks. This is everywhere in the worldwide. It doesn't matter what you do to try to help someone, it's not worthed because the person has to LEARN THE HARD WAY!
 
Wow, that's so crazy for doing that. :shock: Too young to be mother... She will be realize that she shouldn't do that for sure.
 
Steel X said:
uh, what's sick about it? we are just talking about 12 year old girl expecting to have a baby and we didnt even say anything ugly about it. we just think she's too young to have one or something like that so perhas since you keep jumping the gun, you should lock yourself up?

Anyway, I do too believe that she is too young to have a baby at a certain age like that...I just didnt know a young girl's body is developed enough to have a baby at an age like this. However, I've heard of a 14 year old Japanese girl giving birth to twins and had to give it away for adoption.

But let's face it here, it is her baby she's carrying so she has the right to make her own decisions as it is her own flesh and blood so even though I do think she's too young for that but I wish her the best of luck and that I hope she learned her lesson that if she ever wanted another baby, she should wait 'til the time is right. she has a long way to go with school and then college. of course it would be hard for her, but would be hard enough to give up your own flesh and blood so I wouldnt want to do that if I were her thou even if I were her age too. This is what true mothers want...they want to keep their own children.
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Whats sick about it? Grown men doing 11 year olds and getting them prego? Thats very sick!!
 
Buckdodgers said:
Whats sick about it? Grown men doing 11 year olds and getting them prego? Thats very sick!!
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no u are wrong.. not a grown man.. it was only a boy who is 15 yrs old.. he is not a man YET. read carefully before you jump the gun.



know what?? long time ago.. they did this practice of courting young ladies young as 10 who bleed they will marry early and have babies. but today we frowned on that as they need to stay in school then go to college and get a good job then you can decide what you want to do with your life afterwards. the women nowadays are having babies 30-40-50 yrs old now.. unlike in the past young as 10 yrs old.. sad i know but look like its coming back .. still i dont like the idea of 11 yrs old being a momma when her future is at stake? if it happened to my daughter i would be upset of course and support her but I would adopt the baby myself so the girl can have an education at least? I wouldnt mind doing that iknowing the baby will be kept in the family. JMO :D
 
too way so young!

Early Mother stage.. ain't fun!

Keep eye your daughter and make sure educate them...

Looking at my daughter.. In my mind, Please wait til after university or college finishes.. up to her choice...

Doesn't want early stage grammy for me.. Oh dear..
 
it's sad that girls are starting to have sex real young.. they have no common sense to wait longer.. cuz it's hard to take care of kids while still in school not even in h.s at all! and once u lose your virginity I think in some cases some girls wud probably become addicted to sex and not stop til get preggie.. then they should consider birth control pills or stay away from sex til 16... cuz can't get birth control pills even at 11 cuz too young tho.. but i wish the girl the best of luck cuz she will realize what she missed out on... having a normal teenager life instead.. she have to take care of kid and can't go out all the time and be wild anymore blah.. I think it is probably brought up in some situation some girls who come from broken homes want attention and something that is their own.. I guess.. :dunno:
 
Luckysmile23 said:
no u are wrong.. not a grown man.. it was only a boy who is 15 yrs old.. he is not a man YET. read carefully before you jump the gun.
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There's still a big maturity difference between children of those ages...I have a feeling this boy exploited it.
 
RoseImmortal said:
There's still a big maturity difference between children of those ages...I have a feeling this boy exploited it.
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Not necessarily. My oldest daughter just turned 13, but has been looking like a 16-yr-old for the last couple years. People gasp when they find out how old she really is. One guy at the YMCA told me I should keep her on a leash because she looks so much older than she really is. The 15-yr-old referenced in this story may or may not have known how old this girl really was. Girls do tend to exagerate their age for attention purposes.
 
Even if she LOOKS 16, she is still only 13 and has to be treated according to THAT age, and the same for this girl. Part of the problem here was the girl acting older than her age, but the other part WAS the guy taking advantage of her.
 
Rose Immortal said:
There's still a big maturity difference between children of those ages...I have a feeling this boy exploited it.
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Oh, yes. You bet it. He must be jerk. He has no faith and no respect her because he knows the difference between right and wrong.
 
wHEN i was young- 12 yrs old.. i was told i looked like 18 yrs old.. I was like no way? one guy were chasing after me and my mom had to tell him to go away.. shes only 12! he said no way? lol.. so funny.. haha.. at the time he was 18 and had a big crush on me. heh. he said if he s not married by 30 and im sitll single .. he want us to be together.. but sadly hes dead now since 94 or 95 .. cant remmy.. due to he being drunk and play roulette games at army base.. sighs.. sure miss him and his letters.. :(
 
Thank you Rose Immortal!!!!! God, there's HUGE HUGE diference between an eleven year old and a fifteen year old!
 
Oh my god, she is very young to become a mom. My daughter is 9 years old, Can i imagine if she was pregnant at 11 years old?? It get you thinking!!!! :crazy:
 
I'm saying....what if the boy didn't realize she was that young? At 15 they still don't have driver's licenses to refer to.
 
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