CrazyPaul
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Pretty sad that people would go that low!! When I sell bikes, I have no clue on whether they are gay, bi, lesbian, or straight. I do not ask. It is not my business.
When I go to restaurant, I don't ask their sexual orientation.
I don't think so. What the couple said in the note, they meant it so they were not looking for an excuse since they said that he did an excellent job but they refused to leave a tip because he's gay. Obviously they are anti-gay supporters. In other words, if the waiter was not gay, they'd leave a tip.Ridiculous. I think they just looked for an excuse not to tip.
I doubt that they asked if he is gay. Maybe they could tell by his appearance, behavior and/or the sound of his voice.Pretty sad that people would go that low!! When I sell bikes, I have no clue on whether they are gay, bi, lesbian, or straight. I do not ask. It is not my business.
When I go to restaurant, I don't ask their sexual orientation.
I doubt that they asked if he is gay. Maybe they could tell by his appearance, behavior and/or the sound of his voice.
I doubt that they asked if he is gay. Maybe they could tell by his appearance, behavior and/or the sound of his voice.
You are off point. I replied to Derek who talked about asking for their sexual orientation. Customers don't ask employees, "Are you gay?" or vice versa. That's ridiculous. So I pointed out that how the couple who refused to leave a tip knew that he's gay. I was talking about that couple, not you.By the same token, I don't go into restaurants to get on a first name basis with the waitstaff just so I can determine whether or not there's something about them that says, "Do not tip".
I doubt that they asked if he is gay. Maybe they could tell by his appearance, behavior and/or the sound of his voice.
I know that some gay men don't look gay. My point is that if the gay waiter doesn't look gay, the couple would leave a tip. In other words, some gay men are easily identified. I used to have many gay friends in the East. Derek talked about asking for their sexual orientation so he might think that the couple asked for his sexual orientation.I wouldn't say they could tell (if that's what happened). I would say they guessed. I don't think you can really tell for sure, no matter how flaming/effeminate/etc a person might seem.
I know some very gay-seeming straight men.
How would any customer know someone was gay without directly asking, or having the server announce "I am gay?" Or did the customer know the server personally?You are off point. I replied to Derek who talked about asking for their sexual orientation. Customers don't ask employees, "Are you gay?" or vice versa. That's ridiculous. So I pointed out that how the couple who refused to leave a tip knew that he's gay. I was talking about that couple, not you.
Some gay men look straight, and some straight men look gay. Therefore, no one can know about a stranger's sex life from a brief look during restaurant service, unless it says, "I am Gay" on the name tag.I know that some gay men don't look gay.
If the couple did that it would be totally weird and inappropriate. The server would not be required to answer such a rude question.My point is that if the gay waiter doesn't look gay, the couple would leave a tip. In other words, some gay men are easily identified. I used to have many gay friends in the East. Derek talked about asking for their sexual orientation so he might think that the couple asked for his sexual orientation.
I know that some gay men don't look gay. My point is that if the gay waiter doesn't look gay, the couple would leave a tip. In other words, some gay men are easily identified. I used to have many gay friends in the East. Derek talked about asking for their sexual orientation so he might think that the couple asked for his sexual orientation.
Oh yes, he's gay. That's what the article is all about. What's more, he hasn't denied it. The couple is an ANTI-GAY supporter evidently.Some men do appear feminine but it not mean they're gay. The waiter may had been gay or not. The only thing I am concerned about when eating out that the service and food is good. I feel bad for the guy, he did a good job and got slapped in the face instead.
That's why I'm saying this story is fishy. If the couple truly had a strong conviction about this they would make their stand and accept the consequences. Obviously, that wasn't the case.The big question is how the hell did the anti-gay couple know that the waiter is gay?
Reba, if the couple asks for another waiter who is not gay, they would be asked to leave the premise. They knew it so that's why they didn't. Instead, they didn't leave a tip.
For example, if you hate black people, your waiter is black, so you ask for another waiter, what happens after that?