Kidnapping Experience

wow...I knew you were adopted but I never knew about kidnapping story...amazing...do you remember all those events that happened except rolling out from a moving car...not a fun experience!

I had similar experience from rolling out from a moving car!!! I was blond and idiot (yes I admit I'm a blondie) sat on my friend's hood of car, she drove like 25 mph, and braked, i flewwwwww and rolled...at high school parking lot.... what was wrong with me?!?!
 
Taylor said:
Some people do not want closure...as there is nothing to close. Some children don't consider their birth mother their mother at all, and consider their adoptive or foster parents their parents.

For me, it was a little bit of both. I was never adopted but spent my childhood in various homes and foster care.
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How do you take care of yourself now? Are you alone?
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
How do you take care of yourself now? Are you alone?
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Ummm..I'm 31 years old. I have taken care of myself for a number of years ;)
Anyhow, I didn't mean to take away from Vampy's thread...just wanted to point out that not all adoptees have the urge to seek out birth parents.
 
Well Taylor,

I would forgive my mother one day after what she did to me in the past. My mother disappeared our life in 1994. I will forgive her if she is here.

Vampy's condition, I can tell that his real mother dont have support from her family when she had Vampy aged 15.
I had the feeling the reason why his mother kipnapped him because she want to get know Vampy and tried to be good mother to him until she realized that she's not fit mother enough.
Perhap Vampy's mother can't afford to get more medicine for him anymore?
See this:
Originally Posted by VamPyroX
I vaguely remember exactly what happened. All I remember was her making a left turn and about to enter the ramp for the highway. Somehow, I turned the door handle and fell out. I rolled a few times and scraped myself a bit. She stopped, ran out, picked me up, brought me back to the car, and that was pretty much it. It wasn't serious where I was bleeding like crazy or anything.
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She would left Vampy and drive off if she doesnt love him. It sound that she loves Vampy because she stopped and picked him up.

Anyway, Vampy,
your situation got me thinking twice about your real mother. She's very young when she had you and too young to be fit mother to you which she want to be good mother to you but she can't make it, that's why she give you up for adoption. She let your loving adoptive parents take care of you and bring you up. I would contact my real mother to listen her side and forgive her when I were in your shoe.
You can image how feel your real mother is: helpless without get the support from her family when she had you.

I would of support my daughter if she had the same situation as your real mother. I dont want my daughter lost without my supportion to become bad mother.

It's sad that you and your real mother both had through out bad time. I thought it would be nice to get contact to know your real mother better. Of course your adoptive parents are still your parents.
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
How do you take care of yourself now? Are you alone?
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Well, I live at bedsitter when I was 17 years old later then appartment when I was 18 years old. I'm proud to tell you that I stand my own feet since I was 17 years old. :thumb:

You need to break away from your mother to learn to stand your own feet.
 
Liebling:-))) said:
Well, I live at bedsitter when I was 17 years old later then appartment when I was 18 years old. I'm proud to tell you that I stand my own feet since I was 17 years old. :thumb:

You need to break away from your mother to learn to stand your own feet.
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sorry for going :topic: here but i agree with lieb that miss p needs to learn to be on her own.. most of us have been on our own since we were young.. i started out during college.. some of others like lieb and taylor started out as very young like 15-17... i give them SO MUCH CREDIT.. WOW!! WTG LIEB AND TAYLOR for making it at a very young age!!! :hug:
 
Vampy,

I didn't know you're adopted too.. I'm quite surprised.. So I'm very thrilled to hear you more..
Um, Your b-mom willing give up your child and giving to Adoption parents.. Is that closure or open-adoption??

I remmy you wrote said.. "Have not seen my birth mom long time" Means currency you have not see your mom yet ? I bet it's closure Adoption meaning... "No Contact further w/your birth parents".
Do you condsier open your heart and willing meet your birth mom ?
My understanding that your mom is young and unable taking care of you because she is awakward being you're Deaf Child. Is that correct?

I'm Adopt too.. Happy living w/my Adoption Parent? NO... Extremelly luck you right placed w/your adoption parents... Mine wrong adoption parent.. oh well... *Doesn't want bring it back hell memories*

Btw, I'm happy reunion my birth-mom and long talk w/her.. Im very open minded and understanding why she gave me up and adoption. She gave me lot of details that her reason was too young have me being 17 yrs old and no job and no place suitable for new start up family.. She has no choice and best interest for me to placed adoption but she didn't know that My adoption was hell.. The CAS put my mom *closure Adoption* She didn't ask for closure adoption.. but too late went too quick court processing sealed! No wonder why My birth mom really heart wretching for longest years and thinking of me and hope could meet each other.. She got another 2 child now... I have 1 brother and 1 sister. My birth mom already spoke truth to my sister that said "you have another sister" My sister was excited and right away searched for me on internet within 5 minutes found me.... Contacted to Canadian Adoption Registry... then contact me... *QUICK* That how I met my birth mom and sister were reunion from Sept 2003
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I hope you (Vampy) one day you could try and chance to meet your mom.. To get know more about your birth mom.. Would be great for step at time.. no need to be rush!

G'Luck!
 
did the experience change your life in any big way, any impact whatsoever?
 
Yeah my 70 years old cousin was adopted...
and he met his mom (my Grandaunt) 40 years ago....
And they got along fine.

My GrandAunt was too young, a teenager
when she had him... and gave him up
to adoption.

My GrandAunt was a good woman, amazing strong woman...
she cooked homemade dinner for him...
She was a good cook... she lived til 80 something, died in her sleep.

And my cousin met his biological father.... but it
was short meeting.
But anyway.... my cousin arranged all of these family reunion
and put together the family tree... he did good job.
He is very very happy. :type:
 
Taylor said:
...just wanted to point out that not all adoptees have the urge to seek out birth parents.
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Im one of them too. Found my biological dad at age 32 when I wanted to know the medical information for the sake of my girls. Saw him only once as I got what I needed.
 
I dunno if you did post a pic of yourself in AD somewhere but I'm curious what you look like :o
 
nozobo said:
I dunno if you did post a pic of yourself in AD somewhere but I'm curious what you look like :o
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With a name like Vamp... :Ohno:
I think he got 2 sharp teeth, wear black clothes all the time, and
got weird looking punk hair style, a lot of tattoo, probably look like
white Dennis Rodman, huh, Am I right? :D
 
I got 2 cousins that was adopted and they were 2 yrs apart from different bio parents. My Great Aunt had a surgery on her uterus and unable to have a child of her own. So she was suggest to adopt the child. So she did adopted 2 yrs old girl then 2 yrs later adopt 2 yrs old boy. My 18 yrs old cousin boy was killed by a car on a highway near my house. I only remmy him very little. But my cousin girl, she is married and have 2 wonderful children but she is little bit crazy. She like to walk around the house in barefoot all the times.

They never seek for their boi parents but love their adopt parents. My family loves the children.

Sorry for going off topic. Let get back to Vamp's story. Yes, I would like to hear the whold story if you dont mind. :hug:
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
With a name like Vamp... :Ohno:
I think he got 2 sharp teeth, wear black clothes all the time, and
got weird looking punk hair style, a lot of tattoo, probably look like
white Dennis Rodman, huh, Am I right? :D
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oh don't be silly! :greddy:
 
gosh you guys havent seen a pix of vampy?? Hmm I can dig up my high school year book to get a pix of him. :naughty:
 
I am adopted as well!! I met my biological mom when I was 24 years old. After she learned that I am Deaf and decided not to do anything with me. :( But, I am close to my adoptive dad though.
 
Oddball said:
I am adopted as well!! I met my biological mom when I was 24 years old. After she learned that I am Deaf and decided not to do anything with me. :( But, I am close to my adoptive dad though.
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OMFG!! that's one of the MOST HEARTWRENCHING thing i have ever heard! BUT i am thrilled to hear you have a relationship with your adoptive dad!! :hug:
 
Oddball said:
I am adopted as well!! I met my biological mom when I was 24 years old. After she learned that I am Deaf and decided not to do anything with me. :( But, I am close to my adoptive dad though.
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I can relate to that, girl :( My biological father wanted nothing to do with 2 deaf babies so he ran off when I was an infant. It hurted my brother and I deeply but there are many stupid people out there. *shrugs*
 
Meg said:
I can relate to that, girl :( My biological father wanted nothing to do with 2 deaf babies so he ran off when I was an infant. It hurted my brother and I deeply but there are many stupid people out there. *shrugs*
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but you got a wonderful stepdad as result!!! :hug:
how is he by the way!??????

again, sorry for going :topic: :angel: lol
 
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