Kidnapping Experience

zesty said:
yikes!! how could that have happened!?!? sheesh!!
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I vaguely remember exactly what happened. All I remember was her making a left turn and about to enter the ramp for the highway. Somehow, I turned the door handle and fell out. I rolled a few times and scraped myself a bit. She stopped, ran out, picked me up, brought me back to the car, and that was pretty much it. It wasn't serious where I was bleeding like crazy or anything. ;)
 
^Angel^ said:
Ouch :Ohno: ... but I'm glad you were safe, that's all it matters ;)
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That's true. I'm alive and well... and a happy member of AllDeaf! ;)
 
zesty said:
now that you are older ... do you have the desire to look for her??

how old were you when you became deaf?? and how did her negliece (sp?) cause your deafness?? hmmm
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Well, the thought of looking for her has crossed my mind... but on the other hand, it's not anywhere on my long list of To-Do's. I was around the age of one when I became deaf. I had ear problems like most kids my age had. She took me to the doctor and the doctor gave her medication to help me get better. Instructions were for her to keep giving me medicine until she ran out. After running out, she was to bring me back to the doctor. She gave me my medication until I seemed to get better. She then stopped giving me medication and never took me back to the doctor. Since I didn't completely finish my medication, my illness rebounded worse than before. When it rebounded, my real mom was out at her neighbor's house playing cards and I was home alone. I was in pain and screaming for help because I had lose my balance and couldn't get up on my own. (This is because of the fluids in my ears. These fluids help you keep your balance. In my case, these fluids were fucked up... so I had no balance.) A neighbor heard me screaming and came to find me laying down with fluid leaking out of my ears. My real mom was reported to child services, I was taken from her, and placed in foster care. The first and only foster parents I was ever with are the same parents I have today as my adopted parents.
 
^Angel^ said:
Aww :hug: ....
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*blushing* Okay... okay... okay... enough with the "Aww..."! Hehehe!

Anyway, do you want me to give you a long detailed story of my kidnapping? I mean, very detailed? I'm talking about places we went to... where we stayed... who we met... what we did... Etc...?
 
wow, interesting... Glad you're safe and sound. And a happy camper on Alldeaf :) :hug:
 
VamPyroX said:
I vaguely remember exactly what happened. All I remember was her making a left turn and about to enter the ramp for the highway. Somehow, I turned the door handle and fell out. I rolled a few times and scraped myself a bit. She stopped, ran out, picked me up, brought me back to the car, and that was pretty much it. It wasn't serious where I was bleeding like crazy or anything. ;)
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Vamp, I don't mean to make light of your situation but I'm glad to see I wasn't the only one who tumbled out of a car LOL.
 
VamPyroX said:
*blushing* Okay... okay... okay... enough with the "Aww..."! Hehehe!

Anyway, do you want me to give you a long detailed story of my kidnapping? I mean, very detailed? I'm talking about places we went to... where we stayed... who we met... what we did... Etc...?
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nah.. cuz we got the idea.. :)

what i dont get is.. your mom didnt do a good job taking care of you, etc.. yet she kidnapped you.. what was her motive? :dizzy:
 
Taylor said:
Vamp, I don't mean to make light of your situation but I'm glad to see I wasn't the only one who tumbled out of a car LOL.
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ahhh you got tumbled out of the car too?? lol
 
Vampy, wow I am glad that you are okay and all. What happen to your real mother afterward? Sorry if I miss the explanation that you may already explained in your previous post.
 
VamPyroX said:
*blushing* Okay... okay... okay... enough with the "Aww..."! Hehehe!

Anyway, do you want me to give you a long detailed story of my kidnapping? I mean, very detailed? I'm talking about places we went to... where we stayed... who we met... what we did... Etc...?
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I'm actually interested in that if you wouldn't mind? That is if it isn't too much of a trouble. It'd be cool :)
 
wow, your story is sad and touching. Important is: you are healthy and safety.

I'm glad that your adoptive parents for love you and want to adopt you and want you being safety and happy. :angel: :kiss:
 
Why you don't wanna find your real mom? She could have you some
brothers and sisters.

She was young and stupid. But she loves you very much.

She probably didn't understand why she has to keep
giving you medication. And maybe she couldn't afford it and the medical bills.

My Grandmom left my mom and other kids home alone in the past...
it was not a big deal at the time...
Now it is against the law to do so.

Your mom did the best she could... nobody is perfect... go
see her... and telll her you forgive her and that she isn't a bad person.
 
Ooh, kidnapping ain't a nice experience. But glad it has a good ending for you.

Got a ? for you. Was your mother charged with kidnapping or anything?
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
Why you don't wanna find your real mom? She could have you some
brothers and sisters.

She was young and stupid. But she loves you very much.

She probably didn't understand why she has to keep
giving you medication. And maybe she couldn't afford it and the medical bills.

My Grandmom left my mom and other kids home alone in the past...
it was not a big deal at the time...
Now it is against the law to do so.

Your mom did the best she could... nobody is perfect... go
see her... and telll her you forgive her and that she isn't a bad person.
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Its all up to personal preference. IMO, he has no obligation to look for his birth mother. I have no urge to seek mine out. I did see her at a funeral a number of years ago but aside from that, I have no desire to have any contact with her. You will find this with many adoptees...some want to seek out birth parents and others do not. I wouldn't fault Vampy for not wanting to seek her out, especially if he was raised by wonderful adoptive parents. Those are his parents, and that is fine.
 
Taylor said:
Its all up to personal preference. IMO, he has no obligation to look for his birth mother. I have no urge to seek mine out. I did see her at a funeral a number of years ago but aside from that, I have no desire to have any contact with her. You will find this with many adoptees...some want to seek out birth parents and others do not. I wouldn't fault Vampy for not wanting to seek her out, especially if he was raised by wonderful adoptive parents. Those are his parents, and that is fine.
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But what about some closure? I thought everyone deserve a 2nd chance?
To Taylor, What did your birth mother do to you, did she give you up or was
a bad parenting???
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
But what about some closure? I thought everyone deserve a 2nd chance?
To Taylor, What did your birth mother do to you, did she give you up or was
a bad parenting???
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Some people do not want closure...as there is nothing to close. Some children don't consider their birth mother their mother at all, and consider their adoptive or foster parents their parents.

For me, it was a little bit of both. I was never adopted but spent my childhood in various homes and foster care.
 
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