I wanna to say something....

Sweet_KJ said:
Tweety,

I'm sorry that you felt that he ruinned it, but it seems to me, that perhaps he was trying to tell you that going to Mississippi was in the plans (and perhaps your mom told your stepdad that that's what she wanted to do) and to do the cake deal a little earlier. And it was difficult for him to tell you that since you were already moody and pissed off, and "yelling" at him. That's just my opinion. I'm sorry you seem to not have a very good relationship with him.

I think the best thing to do next time something comes up, and he ask you to do something that you were planning to do is to remain calm and ask "I planned on doing that tomorrow (or whatever later time), but is there a reason for your asking?"
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no, i asked him last july 10, and he already know that i already my plans for her bday.. sup with that... and he messed up my plans.. since he say dont know , dont know what do so i went and started my own plans... til last min on july 29 to tell me like that.. come on.. not right!
 
Sweet KJ,.. you have good points but sumth'n missing one thingy..

May be Tweety's stepDad would using "advantaged" her something up to planned ahead of time... So StepDad steal Tweety's planned..

That what I thought it so... Isn't fair.

Hey Tweety, I think I suggest you don't tell your StepDad *fuk'em* as long you can steal StepDad's plan and to take your mom and to go out. How StepDad feel.. He would flip his mind... Be Equal fair how you really felt same way... You have to speak it out your own pointview btwn StepDad and you.. front of your MOM..

So Your Mom can understand how treat Daughter wants to be provide happier her own MOTHER.
Wha... Do you think ?
Just In my opition.. Cannot be my own perfect apply-word!
 
Bullym0m said:
Sweet KJ,.. you have good points but sumth'n missing one thingy..

May be Tweety's stepDad would using "advantaged" her something up to planned ahead of time... So StepDad steal Tweety's planned..

That what I thought it so... Isn't fair.

Hey Tweety, I think I suggest you don't tell your StepDad *fuk'em* as long you can steal StepDad's plan and to take your mom and to go out. How StepDad feel.. He would flip his mind... Be Equal fair how you really felt same way... You have to speak it out your own pointview btwn StepDad and you.. front of your MOM..

So Your Mom can understand how treat Daughter wants to be provide happier her own MOTHER.
Wha... Do you think ?
Just In my opition.. Cannot be my own perfect apply-word!
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yea thats true!! u are right abt that.. last night she felt bad cuz of i was plan for this til he messed up with my plan.. so next time i wont tell him sup with that.. so he will be STUCK big time anyway.. smile...
 
Alright, your stepdad was wrong in doing so, not communicating what's up. I agree.

But at the same time, just try to be calm next time, that way perhaps your stepdad would be more open to telling you what's up. No finger-pointing here.
 
Sweet_KJ said:
Alright, your stepdad was wrong in doing so, not communicating what's up. I agree.

But at the same time, just try to be calm next time, that way perhaps your stepdad would be more open to telling you what's up. No finger-pointing here.
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yea... i dont blew up on him, i just was upset thats all
 
Sorry about that Tweety....Men are Pigs! (Opps Sorry Guys) :nana:


Hope you will have a good Party for her When she arrives home maybe she will love it more that you are giving it to her... then Tell her what the (Jerk Step Daddy Did) :D
 
:roll: he shouldn't push u like that should let u do what u already planned to do and it's good u don't blow up at him but he did was wrong tho... anyways next time u wud do :bump: and he wud gulp next time u have other plans to do and he should FOLLOW what u do not do it his way :nono:
 
TweetyBird said:
yea thats true!! u are right abt that.. last night she felt bad cuz of i was plan for this til he messed up with my plan.. so next time i wont tell him sup with that.. so he will be STUCK big time anyway.. smile...
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Good then Settled as long you can own planned without nofity StepDad!
Have you chance to talk your mom 'bout situaiton prevouis what happend? Does your mom say and reacts?
 
yea i did talk my mom yesterday abt what happened... she shocked, she got pissed off and she told me that waited for him come home work, then get warm up chat with him then CUSSED OUT on him, he looked for no EXCUSE to cover up the story, my mom say HEY dont start no excuse, he GULPED big time.. so he did sowwy to me but i didnt accpet yet cuz of it hurted me so much... so give me time, cuz of he should know better that i was very sick for 3 weeks, i cant go out do anything do for my mom bday... so i only gave ordered the cake before i started.. that was so LUCKY!!!! whew... i already called Applebee's for get set table up for us and some friends but now messed up.. it hurted me so much...
 
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