Have you an experience like this after lost your dear friend?

Cookie Monster said:
LieblingDarling,

To give closure on your pain and others, you can plant a small tree or a small flowerbed and name it "Rudi's place". It can be a small cluster of flowers that Rudi liked to smell or grow. Plant that in your backyard or front yard and it is a nice memory to look at, nurture and let it grow. We do it with our loved ones that passes on. We plant flowers and trees, we've got quite a collection of those and they are beautiful. It gives us closure on our pain when we know we can see how beautiful the plants, trees and flowers grow with our love and care. Just a thought. *hugs and sending thoughts your way*
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I agree with cookie monster. we did plant a tree in honor for our grandfather when he died from lung cancer in '97 with close family members. It did help a lot.
 
We went Rudi´s funeral yesterday. We spend all the day support Tine. I can´t beleive until I saw his face ... :(

Tine told us the story how it´s happened.

Rudi become aggressive due hot weather. He got Tine anger and left for go to her mother to calm her down. Few hours later she went back to home and found him dead unexpectly in basement. :(

Tine´s son called emergency. They confirmed that it´s heart... He´s stroke due hot weather. He died 30 minutes later after Tine left. She took it very badly and never thought about this.
 
I been there before since i already lose 2 good friend of mine.. One gurl who is died by accident last Jan recently.. and another mah best friend who is deaf lady and died at hopstial by dunno what happen w/her body since been worse her health for many years since last Feb recenty which i already lose them who i really very much care of them God already t'care of them which they are not pain or suffer anymore

Hey Liebling:))) I wanna tell you i m very sorry heard abt ur friend i know how ur feel lost ur friend like mine too so i m pray for you
 
oh sorry to hear about your friend's death tradegy. I have few friends who died throughout my life, first one was my speech threapy teacher from elementary school. she was so sweet lady her name is Judy Ferguson (i think last name spell right). As you see, she always attend school everyday never missed one day from her job at the elementary school. The principal and 2 teachers were suspensing why she didnt show up at her work. At first ofc they try call her house but no response. So the principal send 2 teachers to her house to see if they can find her and see if she is allright but they cant get in the house so they went to an neighbor ask if they heard anything from her and both of teacher and neighbor went to back of the house found a dog dead and saw a door open they went in worry that nothing happen to her but unfortunely they found her dead and naked on the bed. They call the police and they investating the crime and find out that the teacher had an gun according to the police and say that she was coming out of shower and heard something she took gun out and saw the robber they fought. The robber grab her gun and shot her. Get this, it really sick when I found out, the robber rape her AFTER she died. It was big shock to everyone at school. I was in high school (10th grade i believe) when this happen. They caught the robber which turn out living across from judy's home. Odd enough, that one of my high school teacher were picked up for jury duty and never expect that she had to show up for jury duty for that robber that killed judy, she got upset they had to put trial on hold to find other jury person.

Other teacher from elementary school died from aids in same year. One of my friend who I just met recently who married to my friend who i knew when i grew up died in fire with 2 out of 4 children last feburary. I post this recently in here when that happen.
 
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