Fact or Fiction?

CrazyPaul said:
This is not 1950s. Many guys go to jail for DV even without hard evidence. At different times, two friends of mine went to jail for DV after their wives told the cops that the husbands tried to hurt them. The wives didn't need to prove it. The cops' job is to protect and serve. They mean business now, not like before. Same with our courts, they will not let abusive people get away with it.
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I left mine. And what happened? He nearly killed me. I could have gone to the cops, but one of the rapists was a cop in our small town - his frat buddy. They did this in front of my 3 year old baby. And what did the judge do? He made me go back to my ex-husband because he felt deaf mothers are not fit to raise children alone. My lawyer was so stunned that he actually quit the legal field. This may sound bizarre, but it's the truth. And unfortunately, it happens more than we care to admit.

The fear of retaliation is a legitimate one. Police departments and courts do not always protect and serve. When my oldest daughter was in kindergarten, there was a cop who came to visit the school. The kindergarten teacher said "Police officers are your friends." Then she overheard my daughter softly say, "Not when they hurt my Mommy." Now we know she does remember some of what happened. And that's the price I paid for leaving.
 
And to add...this husband never ONCE struck me or raised his voice to me during our marriage. He was passive-aggressive, which means he did a lot of "mind-fucking." But as far as physically abusing me, he didn't. His abuse was subtle enough that even I didn't realize what was happening until it later...and when I did, I did get out. And the result? Violence, which had been brewing for years, exploded. He taught Sunday School, went to church, and volunteered as a coach for kids' softball teams. He did not fit in the mold of the typical abuser.

Abuse comes in many forms and shapes.
 
As far as dicks go...vibrators come in all sorts of sizes, shapes, and control buttons. They aim to please until we're pleased. They're ready when we're ready. It's a wonder we women even go for real dicks at all. ;)
 
I hope I'm not being redundant with this, apologies if someone already shared it here.

[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2_UclJCbDa0]Deanne Bray's rude awakening - domestic violence[/ame]
 
Mod,

It is improper for kids to read this thread so will you please move it to our adult forum? Thank you very much.
 
deafbajagal said:
I left mine. And what happened? He nearly killed me. I could have gone to the cops, but one of the rapists was a cop in our small town - his frat buddy. They did this in front of my 3 year old baby. And what did the judge do? He made me go back to my ex-husband because he felt deaf mothers are not fit to raise children alone. My lawyer was so stunned that he actually quit the legal field. This may sound bizarre, but it's the truth. And unfortunately, it happens more than we care to admit.

The fear of retaliation is a legitimate one. Police departments and courts do not always protect and serve. When my oldest daughter was in kindergarten, there was a cop who came to visit the school. The kindergarten teacher said "Police officers are your friends." Then she overheard my daughter softly say, "Not when they hurt my Mommy." Now we know she does remember some of what happened. And that's the price I paid for leaving.
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Damn, law enforcements in your hometown suck. No respect for abused women. Nevertheless, I hope everything goes well for you and your kids now.
 
CrazyPaul, you know what women want. They are so proud of their dick takin' ability. I mean, it's pathetic. 8 out of 10 guys are average.

They want their vagina on fire. :lol:
 
DeafTim said:
CrazyPaul, you know what women want. They are so proud of their dick takin' ability. I mean, it's pathetic. 8 out of 10 guys are average.

They want their vagina on fire. :lol:
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Dead serious when ask...what wrong with you?????
 
deafbajagal said:
And to add...this husband never ONCE struck me or raised his voice to me during our marriage. He was passive-aggressive, which means he did a lot of "mind-fucking." But as far as physically abusing me, he didn't. His abuse was subtle enough that even I didn't realize what was happening until it later...and when I did, I did get out. And the result? Violence, which had been brewing for years, exploded. He taught Sunday School, went to church, and volunteered as a coach for kids' softball teams. He did not fit in the mold of the typical abuser.

Abuse comes in many forms and shapes.
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My ex hubby was the same as well. Mind-fucked me until I believed that everything was my fault and I became so terrified of pissing him off. I ended up constantly living in anxiety making sure I did nothing to piss him off. That is abuse.

To this day, even having a fiancee and me having my 2nd husband, he still tries to abuse me by using our daughter. About a month ago, I nearly had another one of my nervous breakdowns. I did vent about that experience here on AD. I am trying to be strong to not let him get to me but there are times when he catches me when I am feeling vulnerable and BAM...the mind-fucking goes on and on. It is sick.
 
sunny_signs said:
Dead serious when ask...what wrong with you?????
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:lol: I was being silly and I didnt start this thread. I was talkin' about penetration. Hell, a lot of women are clueless how and why dick and balls work together.
 
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