Fact or Fiction?

Today women are stronger and tougher than before and most of them are happy to end the bad relationship that involves verbal/physical abuse and be independent again.

I don't think a woman is stuck with a guy because he threatens her. She can call a cop to arrest him immediately for domestic violence and he will be doing time.

If she doesn't call 911, then why the fuck not? Because she's stupid or weak? Or because she is afraid that she will not be able to find another man who gives a great sex or has a big dick like him? I think that's possible. See what rocking robin said in #15. I also think that it's a reality but it doesn't always happen anyway. Some women stay with their abusive men who are rich, smart or something like that.
 
CrazyPaul said:
Today women are stronger and tougher than before and most of them are happy to end the bad relationship that involves verbal/physical abuse and be independent again.

I don't think a woman is stuck with a guy because he threatens her. She can call a cop to arrest him immediately for domestic violence and he will be doing time.

If she doesn't call 911, then why the fuck not? Because she's stupid or weak? Or because she is afraid that she will not be able to find another man who gives a great sex or has a big dick like him? I think that's possible. See what rocking robin said in #15. I also think that it's a reality but it doesn't always happen anyway. Some women stay with their abusive men who are rich, smart or something like that.
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Not always that way. some of ladies can get killed by spouses. =/ polices can't do anything without being proof or evidences. that s why there is an agenecy for D.V.
 
CrazyPaul said:
Today women are stronger and tougher than before and most of them are happy to end the bad relationship that involves verbal/physical abuse and be independent again.

I don't think a woman is stuck with a guy because he threatens her. She can call a cop to arrest him immediately for domestic violence and he will be doing time.

If she doesn't call 911, then why the fuck not? Because she's stupid or weak? Or because she is afraid that she will not be able to find another man who gives a great sex or has a big dick like him? I think that's possible. See what rocking robin said in #15. I also think that it's a reality but it doesn't always happen anyway. Some women stay with their abusive men who are rich, smart or something like that.
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I think you have a lot to learn about domestic violence.
 
DeafCaroline said:
It takes more than good sex or a big penis to put up with abuse. There's usually more to the story than that.
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'Course there is...Sex is just one of them. Some women will stay with/even keep dating a guy who is abusive, is an alcoholic/drug addict...whatever..just because the "sex is awesome"..... Not all women are alike...

Remmy a lady here at AD, whose husband was abusive. Still she stayed with him, and got pregnant over and over again....He was always saying he was sorry, bringing flowers, etc. ....but the sex was "great" AFTER an argument or him being abusive. Even some women will accept sex from a man who has been abusive, without it being forced upon them.....all it takes is "I'm so sorry"..."it will never happen again"....and off to bed they go!....Instead of getting out of the home or away from the man.

Sex can be a very controlling factor.
 
Frisky Feline said:
Not always that way. some of ladies can get killed by spouses. =/ polices can't do anything without being proof or evidences. that s why there is an agenecy for D.V.
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This is not 1950s. Many guys go to jail for DV even without hard evidence. At different times, two friends of mine went to jail for DV after their wives told the cops that the husbands tried to hurt them. The wives didn't need to prove it. The cops' job is to protect and serve. They mean business now, not like before. Same with our courts, they will not let abusive people get away with it.
 
i don't think it's nice to call a woman "stupid" or "weak" for staying with the abusive man. i have been through this before so i know what it feels like. abusive men use methods to psychologically manipulate women, so that she feels like there is no way out.
 
I think the sex is only the tiniest part of it. The "big dick" thing is silly. Unfortunately, I think she doesn't see that and it's the feeling of being trapped in the relationship that is the problem.
 
CrazyPaul said:
Some women don't want to leave their abusive boyfriends/husbands who have a big penis. Is that true?

I know one woman who refused to leave her boyfriend who constantly abused her. I was told by someone else that his penis was huge. No wonder why she stayed with him even after she got abused repeatedly.
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oh child.... :giggle:
 
CrazyPaul said:
This is not 1950s. Many guys go to jail for DV even without hard evidence. At different times, two friends of mine went to jail for DV after their wives told the cops that the husbands tried to hurt them. The wives didn't need to prove it. The cops' job is to protect and serve. They mean business now, not like before. Same with our courts, they will not let abusive people get away with it.
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Friends of yours...?

Hmm.... part of your personality shows by the choice of your friends...

Are you saying that they didn't deserve to go to jail? Did the wives lie?
 
Daredevel7 said:
Friends of yours...?

Hmm.... part of your personality shows by the choice of your friends...

Are you saying that they didn't deserve to go to jail? Did the wives lie?
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No, I am not saying that. The guys admitted it to me so it was true. One of them said he just put his hands around his wife's neck so he deserved a punishment. Both of them stayed in jail for about 3-5 days and paid the court a big fine and were required to take anger management for one year. They also were put on a restraining order for some times. I know them from work.
 
CrazyPaul said:
No, I am not saying that. The guys admitted it to me so it was true. One of them said he just put his hands around his wife's neck so he deserved a punishment. Both of them stayed in jail for about 3-5 days and paid the court a big fine and were required to take anger management for one year. They also were put on a restraining order for some times. I know them from work.
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Rule #1 - when it comes to domestic violence... you should never listen to any guy's reason or explanation. they are incapable of understanding the fact that a man should never lay a hand on woman. period.
 
Jiro said:
Rule #1 - when it comes to domestic violence... you should never listen to any guy's reason or explanation. they are incapable of understanding the fact that a man should never lay a hand on woman. period.
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Oh yeah, they know that now.
 
CrazyPaul said:
Today women are stronger and tougher than before and most of them are happy to end the bad relationship that involves verbal/physical abuse and be independent again.

I don't think a woman is stuck with a guy because he threatens her. She can call a cop to arrest him immediately for domestic violence and he will be doing time.

If she doesn't call 911, then why the fuck not? Because she's stupid or weak? Or because she is afraid that she will not be able to find another man who gives a great sex or has a big dick like him? I think that's possible. See what rocking robin said in #15. I also think that it's a reality but it doesn't always happen anyway. Some women stay with their abusive men who are rich, smart or something like that.
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Are you F#%^ING KIDDING ME????????????????

You have NO IDEA what you talk about, clear. Police is joke. Man beat girlfriend/fiancé/wife and hospital say clear evidence abuse, police do NOTHING. Man go free, now angry girlfriend.

Is not stupid or weak know limitations of legal service. Know there is f#%^ nobody can actually make better, you just make best this sh!tty situation because only option. Have nothing do sex!!! Promise you! Not possible woman get 12 stitches "down there" after "sex" then say ooh I want more this. No way.

You know not what you talk about Crazy Paul. Please stop be ridiculous.
 
I have witnessed the violence relationship between my best friend and her ex boyfriend who were together for 8 years! I had to get involved with them when I lived with them. He's crazy, big time. He could have killed her too close too many times. He could hurt me too. :shock: Thank god She got out of her relationship with him after 8 yrs. I forget how did she get out of her relationship becasue we both didn't want to remember. Especially she had been through real hell but glad she found her way out. so I love her husband and they have three kids.

too complicate to explain how relationship is like. :(
 
sunny_signs said:
Are you F#%^ING KIDDING ME????????????????

You have NO IDEA what you talk about, clear. Police is joke. Man beat girlfriend/fiancé/wife and hospital say clear evidence abuse, police do NOTHING. Man go free, now angry girlfriend.
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Well, in California, the law means business and cops will do it by the book. For example, a guy pushes his wife down, no evidence, right? but a cop will arrest him for DV anyway since the wife says so. I don't know about other states.
 
CrazyPaul said:
Well, in California, the law means business and cops will do it by the book. For example, a guy pushes his wife down, no evidence, right? but a cop will arrest him for DV anyway since the wife says so. I don't know about other states.
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have you seen lots of ladies got killed by their spouses after they did report to the cops too many times. nothing work for ladies to be in a safe place.
 
CrazyPaul said:
Well, in California, the law means business and cops will do it by the book. For example, a guy pushes his wife down, no evidence, right? but a cop will arrest him for DV anyway since the wife says so. I don't know about other states.
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in case you didn't know.... just because you get arrested by police doesn't mean you will be charged. They will have to go to court and many times, the wife recanted.

the court procedure is difficult, lengthy and expensive. it's why many women gave up.
 
CrazyPaul said:
No, I am not saying that. The guys admitted it to me so it was true. One of them said he just put his hands around his wife's neck so he deserved a punishment. Both of them stayed in jail for about 3-5 days and paid the court a big fine and were required to take anger management for one year. They also were put on a restraining order for some times. I know them from work.
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Just curious... if those wives did not call the cops on your friends, would you say that those wives are stupid/weak? No reprimand for the husbands?

Why do I get the feeling that this type of conversation is likely to happen (or has already happened):

Your friend: "Sigh. I got into a fight with my wife. She got me so MAD that I had to slap her. Yea I feel kinda bad about it, but geez she just wouldn't stop pushing my buttons. She can be such a nagging bitch."
You: "Careful man. She can call the cops. Nowadays, the police will believe anything a woman says. Better be nice."
Your friend: "Yea, geez you're right. I better make sure she doesn't call any cops..."
 
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