Seriously, I do not want or expect my boys to take care of me....they are young and have their own lives. I live independently, and when the time comes, will seek assisted living, but not with family members.
One of my sisters lost her sense of smell and begged to go live with her daughter and her husband....(she felt that not being able to "smell" was too dangerous to live alone...??....say what?....All in all, it caused so much stress on her daughter, that her husband left, could not deal with it all.....They are now divorced and the daughter is very bitter at her mother....My sister was and is not an easy person to live with.