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ever feel sad if nobody invites you to go somewhere like their friends, bowling, or whatever?

This really sucks sometimes if someone doesn't invite you... as I'm feeling blue today. Oh well, thats life.
 
Yeah I know how you feel my ex best friend asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding and then I heard from her Mother that she already got married! :eek: It was like wtf is going on.



Edit: spelling error.. Oppsie
 
OldNavyGirl said:
ever feel sad if nobody invites you to go somewhere like their friends, bowling, or whatever?

This really sucks sometimes if someone doesn't invite you... as I'm feeling blue today. Oh well, thats life.
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Yup....it happens and it sucks. If you have a car, go find something to do...usually helps me feel better when I'm blue...I go check out new places, etc.
 
Yep it happened to me too. But u know what?? I usually find something else to do better then what they were doing. LOL
 
Yep it happened to me before, and yes it really sucks big time, but then again I won't let it bother me cause I know who my friends are and who aren't....
 
Oh yeah, I know what you mean. It does suck sometimes.
 
Oh yeah, so know that feeling, it sucks.

Whenever I feel that way, I go on AllDeaf and read whatever is on here, most of the time it cheers me up cos the stuff on here is so funny
 
Yeah, it sucks... but like you said, that's life. It happens to me a lot, but I learn to deal with it and move on with other things. That's why I live in the dorms. It helps me to find other things to do when I have no car and no one invites me anywhere. ;)
 
thanks anyway everyone. i slept -- I'm still alone at home. it's not even my day today. *shrugs* I just can't believe my roomie didn't invite me to go with him - he's my ex bf and we are roommates -- still good friends but long story. but to make it short. he has been more distant even though i didn't do anything. I think i need to move back to my parents but it still will drag me down cuz my parents doesn't get along. *sighs*
 
I know how you feel OldNavyGirl :hug:


When I am on the roads traveling for work, there are times we have days off where we could do just about anything we want. I asked my roommate if she would like to go to the Mall with me the next day. She said sure! Then the next day came She went to the Mall with the other guys instead of me, didn't even bothering asking me if I wanna come either. It's not like I would go because I don't really like to hang out with those guys cuz they are perverts. Well I went with my younger sister to the laundry and do my clothes and didn't have much time to hit the Mall so we decide to go the next day. Well My roommate came back and I didn't speak to her, She asked me what was wrong? Cuz she knew I was upset with her So I told her why she said she was very sorry and gave me a hug and will never do that again. (smile). If you tell your ex/ your roommate how you feel I am sure he would have a heart to care about your feelings. Why not try that ?
 
^Angel^ said:
Yep it happened to me before, and yes it really sucks big time, but then again I won't let it bother me cause I know who my friends are and who aren't....
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thats very true.. but sometimes it is hard cuz what if you are close to that person.. but the person just happens to be "airhead" or "aloof" so any suggestions for that??
 
Raging Quiet said:
Oh yeah, so know that feeling, it sucks.

Whenever I feel that way, I go on AllDeaf and read whatever is on here, most of the time it cheers me up cos the stuff on here is so funny
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same here.. but sometimes AD is "DEAD" if ppl are busy, partying or sleeping!! LOL
 
zesty said:
same here.. but sometimes AD is "DEAD" if ppl are busy, partying or sleeping!! LOL
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whenever AD is "DEAD" then you got opportunity to lurk through thousands of old or unread threads you might find it fascinate... :whistle:
 
nozobo said:
whenever AD is "DEAD" then you got opportunity to lurk through thousands of old or unread threads you might find it fascinate... :whistle:
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thats what i have been doing... mind you!!??? :squint: :P :D
 
Interesting thread! We have similar situation!

Well, my hubby didnt invite his one of schoolmates Frank to attend his 50th birthday party at New Year Eve 2004 whom they grow up together since kindergarten due many reasons.

First of all I never like him for a long time but I has to respect my hubby´s friendship with Frank. I did told my hubby that I had the feeling that Franz is not real friend but he doesnt listen me.
We know for almost 2 years that Frank stabbed our back eg but we ignored it and thought it´s just kind of "gossip"/"misunderstand" rumor until we witnessed it ourselves at my hubby´s other childhood schoolmate Richard´s 50th birthday party in Munich last July 2004. We were on other table and watched Franz stabbed us to people where he sat on the table to share with them without notice that we WATCHED them and said NOTHING and carried on enjoy ourselves because we dont want to spoil Richard´s party.

Well after that, we realized that "gossip"/"rumor" is true so my hubby decided to not invite Frank to attend his 50th birthday party. We saw Frank again at Xmas party last 2nd week of December. We ignored his nasty remark. We thought he would come to us and have a talk to my hubby but he didnt. After Xmas party over, I suggested my hubby to write a nice letter enclosed Xmas card telling Frank how he felt and why he didnt invite Frank eg. My hubby told him that he find it´s sad what Frank did to us etc as long as he thought Frank is his friend. He is willing to have a open talk with Frank if Frank really want to. We sent a card with letter to him.

We received fax from him saying that he got our letter and throw our letter & card away to rubbish bin. I said to my hubby: It´s fine whatever he wants then leave him alone and also told my hubby that I find Frank´s behavior is very childish.

Sad situation.


Anyway, I can image when I was in Frank´s shoe. I would say something instead of playing offence, miserable, e.g. when I notice that my best friend or good friend doesnt invite us to attend their special occassion. Open talk is important to solve the problem and see each other what we made the mistake eg than play offense, sour, etc.
 
Liebling:-))) said:
Interesting thread! We have similar situation!

Well, my hubby didnt invite his one of schoolmates Frank to attend his 50th birthday party at New Year Eve 2004 whom they grow up together since kindergarten due many reasons.

First of all I never like him for a long time but I has to respect my hubby´s friendship with Frank. I did told my hubby that I had the feeling that Franz is not real friend but he doesnt listen me.
We know for almost 2 years that Frank stabbed our back eg but we ignored it and thought it´s just kind of "gossip"/"misunderstand" rumor until we witnessed it ourselves at my hubby´s other childhood schoolmate Richard´s 50th birthday party in Munich last July 2004. We were on other table and watched Franz stabbed us to people where he sat on the table to share with them without notice that we WATCHED them and said NOTHING and carried on enjoy ourselves because we dont want to spoil Richard´s party.

Well after that, we realized that "gossip"/"rumor" is true so my hubby decided to not invite Frank to attend his 50th birthday party. We saw Frank again at Xmas party last 2nd week of December. We ignored his nasty remark. We thought he would come to us and have a talk to my hubby but he didnt. After Xmas party over, I suggested my hubby to write a nice letter enclosed Xmas card telling Frank how he felt and why he didnt invite Frank eg. My hubby told him that he find it´s sad what Frank did to us etc as long as he thought Frank is his friend. He is willing to have a open talk with Frank if Frank really want to. We sent a card with letter to him.

We received fax from him saying that he got our letter and throw our letter & card away to rubbish bin. I said to my hubby: It´s fine whatever he wants then leave him alone and also told my hubby that I find Frank´s behavior is very childish.

Sad situation.


Anyway, I can image when I was in Frank´s shoe. I would say something instead of playing offence, miserable, e.g. when I notice that my best friend or good friend doesnt invite us to attend their special occassion. Open talk is important to solve the problem and see each other what we made the mistake eg than play offense, sour, etc.
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i agree with you! (sigh) this is very sad cuz they have known each other since they were kindergardens!!?? sheesh!!
 
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