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Hey. I want to reach out and help anyone in here with any issues. I would like to start a thread where anyone who has some kind of tough situations or asking for some advices. I'll be here to answer all questions since I've been through many issues of my own.

How to do it?

Start off with Dear Silent Nature, introduce yourself then state your issue and how you felt about it and what are you trying to seek from me. End with whatever you want to call yourself.

Like for example,

Dear Silent Nature,

[text]

Dazed and Confused


Thanks...I'll be here to help you out today!
 
aii guess i'm the first one to give this a try :)

Dear Silent Nature,

I'm spending the weekend at my ex-boyfriends house this weekend, and its obvious that I still have feelings for him in some way, although he doesn't. how can I have fun this weekend without making things weird between us?

Lilred
 
Dear Silent Nature....
A character here who calls himself BBNT says that he's the greatest human being in the history of the world. I disagree but how do you have a compelling discussion with the greatest human being ever?

Baffled in California
 
lilredridinhood said:
aii guess i'm the first one to give this a try :)

Dear Silent Nature,

I'm spending the weekend at my ex-boyfriends house this weekend, and its obvious that I still have feelings for him in some way, although he doesn't. how can I have fun this weekend without making things weird between us?

Lilred
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Dear Lilred,

Since you think you know that he doesn't have feelings for you, just keep that out of your mind and look in his eyes as your friend. If he has never done anything to you, then you have nothing to worry about. Relationship comes and goes, but friendship lasts forever, well at least, most of them does. It won't be weird unless you're forcing for it to be. Just lay back and let things flow. Don't worry about how he feels about you, just be very happy that he's your friend. You might would like not to try too much of passionate stuff or you might get caught up in your feelings for him. That's all I can say. Just have fun! Remember, don't think about how he feels about you...At least, he is your friend and you know that he cares about you.

Silent Nature
 
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Tousi said:
Dear Silent Nature....
A character here who calls himself BBNT says that he's the greatest human being in the history of the world. I disagree but how do you have a compelling discussion with the greatest human being ever?

Baffled in California
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Dear Baffled in California,

That character must have an extremely large amount of ego. Just let him do all the talk...but mainly, actions speak for himself. Let just him talk and one day, his action might override and takes back what he has just said, which means that he has shown some flaws in his system, proving that he's not perfect. I'm very sure that he has already done that so he has failed to qualify as the greatest human being ever. If he's not perfect, then he's not the greatest. Period.

Silent Nature
 
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silentnature said:
Dear Baffled in California,

That character must have an extremely large amount of ego. Just let him do all the talk...but mainly, actions speak for himself. Let just him talk and one day, his action might override and takes back what he has just said, which means that he has shown some flaws in his system, proving that he's not perfect. I'm very sure that he has already done that so he has failed to qualify as the greatest human being ever. If he's not perfect, then he's not the greatest. Period.

Silent Nature
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Obviously, we've never really seen any "action" from him... so I guess he's just a balloon full of hot air! ;)
 
Dear Silent Nature,

I'm poor. I don't have much. I've always dreamed of winning the lottery. How can I make this dream come true?

Bloody & Burned in New York
 
Dear SilentNature,

An AD User with the name of SilentNature is extremely annoying and I have strong suspections that he is gay. How can I find out the truth and have him not bug me anymore?

Annoyed in Texas.
 
Dear Silent of Nature,

there was a girl in the reading class and we sit next to each other in the front row, and I'm always the first to start a little conversation, and she is really quite in the class the whole time and I just get alittle tired of trying to say something else to keep our conversation going, but she never ignores me or anything...she is nice and cool and all but definetly nervous. of course, she is hearing too so how can I do something to kick the nerves off herself and just try to talk and stuff? I'm just trying to make more friends at college, you know. I've asked her one time if she liked to have some lunch with me one day and she said sure but then told me that she would be very busy at her job and with her homework and stuff...well you know, she's sorta nerd lol but I think she's really nice and all.

any suggestions?

-ran out of discussions in NC
 
VamPyroX said:
Dear Silent Nature,

I'm poor. I don't have much. I've always dreamed of winning the lottery. How can I make this dream come true?

Bloody & Burned in New York
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Dear Bloody & Burned in New York,

In order to make it come true, you have a better chance to dream about it. :P

Silent Nature
 
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lilredridinhood said:
Dear SilentNature,

An AD User with the name of SilentNature is extremely annoying and I have strong suspections that he is gay. How can I find out the truth and have him not bug me anymore?

Annoyed in Texas.
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Dear Annoyed in Texas,

I strongly agreed with you. I have to admit that I'm actually happy. Oh well, you caught me and my happiness. Oh I see, I guess my happiness was too much for you so maybe you shouldn't have shown me a picture of your pretty face, which had caused me to reveal my rare smile.

Silent Nature
 
Steel said:
Dear Silent of Nature,

there was a girl in the reading class and we sit next to each other in the front row, and I'm always the first to start a little conversation, and she is really quite in the class the whole time and I just get alittle tired of trying to say something else to keep our conversation going, but she never ignores me or anything...she is nice and cool and all but definetly nervous. of course, she is hearing too so how can I do something to kick the nerves off herself and just try to talk and stuff? I'm just trying to make more friends at college, you know. I've asked her one time if she liked to have some lunch with me one day and she said sure but then told me that she would be very busy at her job and with her homework and stuff...well you know, she's sorta nerd lol but I think she's really nice and all.

any suggestions?

-ran out of discussions in NC
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Dear Ran out of discussions in NC,

Keeping a discussion alive is rather difficult when one is nervous to do so. It is very common for it to happen among strangers. Of course, she showed some kind of nervousness, so just let her become comfortable and she will be more open to you. Just don't give up on her and be patient, your time will come soon for you and her. She may be busy so give her some space and she'll respect you greatly for that. Some guys are not willing to do that, so girls like to have that. Just continue being friends and talk to her often, let things flow in together smoothly. Main thing to remember is to have FUN! Don't rush into things...just have fun and that's all that matters. Best of luck for you.

Silent Nature
 
dear silent nature

I am having a hard time deciding what's best for me.. I'm working full time at wal-mart, have full time son, and i need to get a time to be able to afford to live while i take part time at wal-mart so i can become full-time student at college.. what should i do.. The thing is.. i own a house, which mortgage bills are here for me.. and if i work part-time at wal-mart i won't be able to afford the mortgage.
 
DeafSCUBA98 said:
dear silent nature

I am having a hard time deciding what's best for me.. I'm working full time at wal-mart, have full time son, and i need to get a time to be able to afford to live while i take part time at wal-mart so i can become full-time student at college.. what should i do.. The thing is.. i own a house, which mortgage bills are here for me.. and if i work part-time at wal-mart i won't be able to afford the mortgage.
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Dear DeafSCUBA98,

Yes, I agreed with you, it is a very hard decision. If I were you, I would sell the house and get some money back that you have put in that house and go live in something that is much affordable. If it's a really small house, then it's better than having nothing. It would broad your options, such as becoming full time college student which is a very good idea. It would give you much more career choices with potential to make better salary yearly. Remember, you are doing this for your son. It's for the best if he gets to be with you. Honestly, he probably missed you so much inside and wish that you were there for him. This is only my opinion...You may have a different plan in your mind...just follow what it bears in your heart. Best of luck to you.

Silent Nature
 
silentnature said:
Dear DeafSCUBA98,

Yes, I agreed with you, it is a very hard decision. If I were you, I would sell the house and get some money back that you have put in that house and go live in something that is much affordable. If it's a really small house, then it's better than having nothing. It would broad your options, such as becoming full time college student which is a very good idea. It would give you much more career choices with potential to make better salary yearly. Remember, you are doing this for your son. It's for the best if he gets to be with you. Honestly, he probably missed you so much inside and wish that you were there for him. This is only my opinion...You may have a different plan in your mind...just follow what it bears in your heart. Best of luck to you.

Silent Nature
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dude, i can't stand to lose my home :D and in fact its monthly payment is cheaper than apt rent..
 
I'm talking about much smaller size version of a house. Not an apartment! I would never go for an apartment myself, but do what you feel right in your heart. That's the best advice I can give you.
 
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Dear silentnature I'm a 25 old collage student male my friends say I need to get laied. What do you think ?
 
*speaks as Silent Nature* yes do it! dammit life is too short!



lol no offense silent nature :lol:

just goofing around
 
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