ladysolitary85
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When your going out on a date for dinner, where do you guys stand when that bill comes your way?
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If woman asks me to pay, I'll tell her I've a car with turbocharged engine. I'll be out in a minute!! Think about that!!
The truth is, you are not going to get to the marriage phase if you are not paying the bill, it's that simple.
What really has to be learned by guys(and it took me a while to learn this) is that you don't overplay it by paying too much into something that has no future. There are a lot of women out there who just go for the free meal.
NY Woman Uses Dating Site to Get Over $1200 In Free Meals | YouBentMyWookie
So you don't pay for any meals for your girlfriend?
You know I was joking about that one, right??
I hope you don't think Red Lobster is elegant dining.I saw this on news about $1200 worth of free meals. If a guy doesn't want this to happen, why not do something else? Maybe a stroll in park or go to a museum?? Does a guy have to take a woman out on a $$$$ meal the first night out?? Trust me, if a woman is concerned, she'll tell we don't have to go out to a $$$$ restaurant. If a woman is expecting you to pay Red Lobster prices every nights, then she is not for you. She'll be happy with an IHOP dinner if she enjoys being around you.
I hope you don't think Red Lobster is elegant dining.
The one who invites, pays. If a woman can't pay for an expensive restaurant dinner, she can invite the guy over for a home-cooked meal, or a picnic in the park, or pizza.
This is just one male's perspective, but I've noticed something in regards to this aspect, and I don't mean it as an offense to any women in this thread. Observing social experiments taking place in public are one of my favorite past times to watch, anyway.
In my experiences, women who expect almost every meal to be paid by the guy regardless if it's a friend, date or whatever occasion... They always have seemed to share the same personality traits. Wanting, taking things for granted. It's sort of like noticing they expect things to be given to them.
However, on the flip side I'm sure it does not apply to all women, nor do some men care. Some people are okay with it, or it may be their incentive to feel they must pay for a woman. Different strokes for different folks, just my $. 2c.
oh give me a break.
This is just one male's perspective, but I've noticed something in regards to this aspect, and I don't mean it as an offense to any women in this thread. Observing social experiments taking place in public are one of my favorite past times to watch, anyway.
In my experiences, women who expect almost every meal to be paid by the guy regardless if it's a friend, date or whatever occasion... They always have seemed to share the same personality traits. Wanting, taking things for granted. It's sort of like noticing they expect things to be given to them.
However, on the flip side I'm sure it does not apply to all women, nor do some men care. Some people are okay with it, or it may be their incentive to feel they must pay for a woman. Different strokes for different folks, just my $. 2c.