Coping With Change After the Death of Someone You Love

Gingerbread said:
Yep they think they know eveything.. but sadly nope.. Thank you.. It is really hard especially around Birthdays and Holidays especially Christmas.. Imagine if they had lived.. i would have 3 boys and 1 girl.. they all fight over toys.. fight over whatever stupid things.. if htey had not died.. the twins would have been 11.. and my daughter would have been 4.. sigh.. it is still so hard on me.. Always thinking of them every day.. waiting to be with them when the day I go home... I cant wait... :) for now... I am trying to fight to get custody of my son TJ back so I wont be alone again... its not fair that he have 2 kids with his wife... why he take tj away?? sigh.. :ugh3:
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Definetly, you need to fight for the permanently custody son. He is such shelfish. Your son needs you as a mother. *praying for you to get your son back*
 
Gingerbread said:
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Yep they think they know eveything.. but sadly nope.. Thank you.. It is really hard especially around Birthdays and Holidays especially Christmas.. Imagine if they had lived.. i would have 3 boys and 1 girl.. they all fight over toys.. fight over whatever stupid things.. if htey had not died.. the twins would have been 11.. and my daughter would have been 4.. sigh.. it is still so hard on me.. Always thinking of them every day.. waiting to be with them when the day I go home... I cant wait... :) for now... I am trying to fight to get custody of my son TJ back so I wont be alone again... its not fair that he have 2 kids with his wife... why he take tj away?? sigh.. :ugh3:
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:aw: my dear friend, I wish I could do something for you and your son :( but I'm here and too far away from you... I hope you could get the custody of your son in the early 2007.. Don't give up on life :hug:
 
Kalista said:
Definetly, you need to fight for the permanently custody son. He is such shelfish. Your son needs you as a mother. *praying for you to get your son back*
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Thanks..yes all kids need their momma.. he dont knwo what he is doing to TJ.. cuz of his wife always prefer her kids and pay attention to them not tj?? father is blind.. he dont know how much damage he have done to TJ.. TJ and I are very close.. we went thru alots.. sigh..

Highlands said:
:aw: my dear friend, I wish I could do something for you and your son :( but I'm here and too far away from you... I hope you could get the custody of your son in the early 2007.. Don't give up on life :hug:
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Thanks and i wont give up.. TJ is precious to me and hes my BABY! I cant wait till i get him back... :)

sorry for off topics.... back to coping about someone u dearly love and lost..

kalista i hope you like the link i posted.. let me know what u think of that.. ok.. :) :hug:
 
Gingerbread said:
I am trying to fight to get custody of my son TJ back so I wont be alone again... its not fair that he have 2 kids with his wife... why he take tj away?? sigh.. :ugh3:
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How did he get custody to begin with? Did he just took him just like that without going to court, If you don't mind me asking, if it's too personal, I understand. :hug:
 
Cheri said:
How did he get custody to begin with? Did he just took him just like that without going to court, If you don't mind me asking, if it's too personal, I understand. :hug:
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its ok.. i dont mind answering this.. well he went to court and request to have a custody of TJ.. he didnt want me and TJ to move out of county to other city in North Arkansas.. thats why he sued so TJ have to stay HERE in same county.. right now he only have Temporary custody of TJ.. its not permament yet..
 
Gingerbread said:
its ok.. i dont mind answering this.. well he went to court and request to have a custody of TJ.. he didnt want me and TJ to move out of county to other city in North Arkansas.. thats why he sued so TJ have to stay HERE in same county.. right now he only have Temporary custody of TJ.. its not permament yet..
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That's good it is temporary. At least u have a fighting chance. Good luck!
 
Gingerbread said:
its ok.. i dont mind answering this.. well he went to court and request to have a custody of TJ.. he didnt want me and TJ to move out of county to other city in North Arkansas.. thats why he sued so TJ have to stay HERE in same county.. right now he only have Temporary custody of TJ.. its not permament yet..
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Ow! that sucks that means we can't leave the state or different local of county with our children? I dunno Ohio's law on that one. I do hope you get TJ back where he belongs with his mom. Good luck Ginger! I'll keep my fingers cross for you! :hug:
 
shel90 said:
That's good it is temporary. At least u have a fighting chance. Good luck!
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Thanks.. yeah..


Cheri said:
Ow! that sucks that means we can't leave the state or different local of county with our children? I dunno Ohio's law on that one. I do hope you get TJ back where he belongs with his mom. Good luck Ginger! I'll keep my fingers cross for you! :hug:
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right.. im sure you recall that i cant take TJ out of state to my ex bf's house.. cuz of the custody case.. so i cant take tj out of state or go out of town.. but STAY here in SAME COUNTY!!! i cant even take him to my sisters house .. she live RIGHT on county line.. but i cant.. cuz i can get in trouble.. it sucks!

thanks.. i sure need it! :D :hug:
 
mostly wives have hard times to loss of their husband that not easy for wifes have mourning.

my mom have been lose of my step-dad 6 years ago and she been mourning of him lots and more everyday i told my mom you still miss him? she says yes of course! she love him lots
 
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