Bullies?

Yes, I have been bullied by a lot of middle school boys and during my freshman year at old high school.

The boys laughed at me, because I couldn't speak very well and they called me "crippled", since I am physically disabled.
This boy, named Eddie, he was making fun of me on AOL in 2002 and I printed all of IMs, then sent them to the dean. That was when I was on crappy dial up and I didn't know IP addresses back then.



Now, I have enough computer knowledge to report any harassment to ISP.
 
Liebling said:
It´s you who got Angel confused. It would be okay if you explain her property.
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Her property? I do not know anything about her property.
 
Thank you Liebling and FeistyChick for telling me what it means, sorry my mind is somewhere else today :lol: and yes I know what you both are talking about and Thanks for the pm too Liebling :grouphug:

Liebling hon, just ignore eternity ok? I dunno what grammer she's talking about here LOL :hug:....

Sorry for going off the topic a bit here, anyways I'm sorry to hear what most of you are going thru and had gone thru, but Liza provide an interesting link about bullies and I think it would help alot of us understand more about being bullied by others whether it may be in real life or online....

I have a question to ask all of you, what will you do if you came across to a bully online?...You don't have to answer it if you don't want to, but very curious to hear your opinions or views on this one... :fingersx:
 
Bullying can be viewed as a harmless situation at first... however that don't stay the same after a while. Bullying tend to evolve into a more brutal manner and will put more stress onto the victim.

Most people has dealt with bullies in a way or more. But many are lucky enough to get by it without any serious problems... but a lot of people also end up facing a lot of problems and the stress get worse each time a situation pop up.

I'm glad you found the site Liza provided to be quite useful and informative. We're all working together to help people deal with their problems. Bullying is not something we all want to go through with...

I know how some of you feel, and help is needed sometimes to deal with it.
 
:gpost: Banjo, everything you had stated above is so true, I've been stuck into a situation where this bully will not let go and it's been going around so long, sometimes I asked myself what did I do to this person...it's like there is no end to it even when I have waved the peace flag over and over... :(
 
^Angel^ said:
Thank you Liebling and FeistyChick for telling me what it means, sorry my mind is somewhere else today :lol: and yes I know what you both are talking about and Thanks for the pm too Liebling :grouphug:

Liebling hon, just ignore eternity ok? I dunno what grammer she's talking about here LOL :hug:....

Sorry for going off the topic a bit here, anyways I'm sorry to hear what most of you are going thru and had gone thru, but Liza provide an interesting link about bullies and I think it would help alot of us understand more about being bullied by others whether it may be in real life or online....

I have a question to ask all of you, what will you do if you came across to a bully online?...You don't have to answer it if you don't want to, but very curious to hear your opinions or views on this one... :fingersx:
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Welcome :hug:

Yeah, don't worry :hug: I love to read Eternity's :devil: posts because it's :asshole: and :zzz: .
 
Important for the parent to teach their children to not bully/judge people.

Alan, my younger son made a fun of boy who have front teeth and other fat. I told him to not do that because it's not very nice. This word is mean and rude. I teach them into right path instead of let them bully/judge other people.
 
Liebling:-))) said:
Important for the parent to teach their children to not bully/judge people.

Alan, my younger son made a fun of boy who have front teeth and other fat. I told him to not do that because it's not very nice. This word is mean and rude. I teach them into right path instead of let them bully/judge other people.
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Word! I do the same with my children too. I teach my children to respect all children/adults, and treat them equally and Nobody is different than others. Markus never gets in trouble in school, I've heard so much good things about him from teachers, how he shows so much respect along in teachers and his classmates. I am so proud that I raise a fine young gentlemen. Jordan will be starting his first year this Sept. and I hope he follows what I've said to him the same as I've told Markus. :fingersx: If I hear any bullies my boys have done to anyone in their school, I take them seriously and they know that. ;)

I've known few parents who's children have bullied in school to other children, They said "They are just children, being children." Yes, that is true but, We as a parent are responsible for our children's actions. We are their role models, we are supposed to be the ones putting our children in the right direction the right way. How can children know they are wrong to be a bully?
 
Exactly Cheri. It's important for the children to have their parent's support when they have the problem with bullies.

Yes, I was like *sigh* because there're common to being bullies at schools. I support my children is go to my children's teacher/principal. It solve quickly than I thought. Teachers educate their students to not bully to anyone which it's good. Parents, also too. It's important for the children to know that they should not judge/bully others because it's mean and rude.
 
Whoa, gals! Back into your kennels! LOL!

Eternity, since you are interested in improving others' english grammar - you probably are interested in improving yours, too. This is a good link - interactive. http://www.englishpage.com/

No need to :ty: me.

And, Liebling, it probably doesn't help much if namecalling from BOTH sides is done either. Just adds to the problem.

I think we need to learn to be more assertive, instead of being overly aggressive or too passive! Right, gals and guys?


These might help.. you'd need to google up more if you find it necessary.

Assertive Behavior with helpful hints
http://www.couns.msu.edu/self-help/sk_behav.htm

Learning to be Assertive
http://www.utexas.edu/student/cmhc/booklets/assert/assertive.html


I think books on being assertive can help like these for instance:

Asserting Yourself
by Sharon Anthony Bower, Gordon H. Bower
Amazon.com

Too Nice for Your Own Good: How to Stop Making 9 Self Sabotaging Mistakes
by Duke Robinson

The Power of Positive Confrontation: The Skills You Need to Know to Handle Conflicts at Work, at Home, and in Life
by Barbara Pachter, Susan Magee

Has this been helpful?
 
LOL Liza, Don't worry, I don't want to play the childish games with her. :dizzy:

Don't worry about eternity's posts because her behavior of post doesn't bother me really. All what I give my honest opinion to answer Bullym0m's and Angel's posts. :) It's not my problem if eternity don't like it or try anything back on me.

All what I'm interesting is to respect/share anyone's posts, not picking on people's grammars. I give eternity a simple and honest opinion about grammar in my previous post because it's true. It's me who like to open and tell you what I think. :) This is ME.
 
eternity said:
Negative. Your statement is false. :)



I wasn't sure about your comment. What is it?
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Didnt you know that mocking is one of forms of bullying? Not to mention, passive-aggressiveness too....someone making a negative statement but closing it with a smile.
 
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