Although I'm not completely fond of our current state of affairs, I have to say we are the only country that can allow you to say just about anything about any high ranking official, including the President, and you don't have to worry about oppression. What makes America so interesting is the fact that it is so diverse. If you go to any other country in the world, your'e not going to find this much diversity and culture that is flourishing at the level that it is. There's good and bad, but America guarantees freedoms for all (unless you run afoul of the law by participating in illicit activities, then you can face prosecution and possibly incarceration).
Here in America we have a strong deaf culture, but we also have a strong Polish culture, strong Italian culture, Hispanic culture, Roman Catholics, Protestants, Muslims, Hindus, Buddhists, pro-government, anti-government, Black Panthers, Neo-Nazis, Wildlife and Forest Preservation groups, Public schools, private schools, public hospitals, private hospitals, Native Americans, Europeans, Asians, South Americans, gays, straights, cowboys, ranches, suburbia, city, rural. It's all here. When you have such a large diversity, your'e going to run into problems, you can't please everyone, but the goal is to please the majority with consideration to the minority.
Yes Sweden has a good healthcare system that works for THEM, Britain has a healthcare system that works for THEM, but as a country we have to find what works for US. I can honestly say that with the current economy, the current healthcare system is not functioning the way it should. This is why we need to reform it in such a way that it can function properly during good economic times as well as bad economic times.
I personally would like to see the WPA to make a comeback to put the unemployed back to work reconstructing America and put money back in people's pockets. I want to see the SS system to not have a deficit and start functioning the way it was intended to. I personally believe if a person is able to work, then they should be working instead of collecting disability checks for small ailments that can be managed through medications and reasonable accommodations. If an employer doesn't hire you on the basis of disability then they are not someone you would want to work for anyway.
As for our troops, they get all of their medical paid for the rest of their life if they served actively and were deployed in a time of war. (IE- Iraqi war veterans), when they are medically discharged from the military, they receive all medical paid for in full by the government, the only 'gap' they have is if they incur more medical expenses than their insurance will allow (usually medications) where you have to pay out of pocket after a certain point and up to a certain amount before the government picks up the tab again. If your friend is in need of pain medications and they have been prescribed to her and she is unable to get them due to the cost, she should contact drug companies who may be able to help her with expenses.
Like mentioned before, there are good sides and bad sides to all health care systems in the world, no one governemt is 100% error proof.