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hey look, um....i know what some of u guys are gonna say about this thread but anyway....

i really need to leave AD. its causing me a lot of problems. its causing me a lot of heart ache right now. im trying to get over Amber's death and this isn't helping me with everyone gossiping about it. when u guys just read it in the paper, im living it. and its not helping me get over it.


so.....

i would really appreciate it, if u want to continue talking to me PM me with ur sn and ill give you mine and we can hang out there.

i do like a lot of you guys i just cant "live" in this environment. and i hope some of u guys do pm me with ur sn cuz like i said...i do enjoy talking to a lot of u guys.

the 3 years were nice, but its time for me to pack up and move on from AD. thanks for the memories.
 
im really sorry i have to. like i said pm me and ill give u my sn and ill talk to u guys there. i really cant hang around here anymore.

and i know a lot of u {edited} are thinking im just doing this for sympathy..and if u think that u can go fuck off.


oh Tweety i always wanted to tell u...i love ur avatar :thumb:
 
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AJ!

You don't have to leave AD forever...you can LOA for a while and come back. I have nothing against you. You're such a nice guy! PM me if you want to chat or need vent. I can be here to listen!

:hug:

AJ said:
hey look, um....i know what some of u guys are gonna say about this thread but anyway....

i really need to leave AD. its causing me a lot of problems. its causing me a lot of heart ache right now. im trying to get over Amber's death and this isn't helping me with everyone gossiping about it. when u guys just read it in the paper, im living it. and its not helping me get over it.


so.....

i would really appreciate it, if u want to continue talking to me PM me with ur sn and ill give you mine and we can hang out there.

i do like a lot of you guys i just cant "live" in this environment. and i hope some of u guys do pm me with ur sn cuz like i said...i do enjoy talking to a lot of u guys.

the 3 years were nice, but its time for me to pack up and move on from AD. thanks for the memories.
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I am so lost and confused here, I don't know anything about people gossiping. I guess it happens when I spend less time on line lately, I missed a lot. :giggle:


Anyway, AJ

To be honest dude, Don't take anything personal to heart, Just ignored whoever are gossiping. That's the best advice I can give you at this time. ;)
 
Aww I am sure we will miss you. I know how you feel about over Amber's death.

Take it easy yourself till you feel better :) .. I hope you feel better in few days as I know it is hard :( . :sadwave:
 
Goodbye AJ , take care of yourself.. I've also come to a point where I feel tired and thinking of leaving here ... May God give you a happy life :)
 
AJ said:
im really sorry i have to. like i said pm me and ill give u my sn and ill talk to u guys there. i really cant hang around here anymore.

and i know a lot of u {edited} are thinking im just doing this for sympathy..and if u think that u can go fuck off.
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Pardon !!
 
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AJ, I can understand the confusion that is going on with a lot of grievance, my best advice is just to refrain from unnecessary communications like alldeaf, irc chat, AIM or various Internet accesses and go directly to your friends who are also her close friends. I'm sure they will need you as much as you need them without you realizing it. Just go off and talk with them, go over their house, or invite them over to your house, just talk. You will feel a lot better because people who grieve tend to find comfort with someone who have something in common. My wife went thru same thing with 8 months of stillborn (Don't anyone EVER DARE to say "oh, that's nothing, she can try again!") and it take a lot of conversation with someone in common to recover. We will understand your absence from alldeaf because this forum is not your priority and your own life is what is important to you. Just come back when you're recovered and comfortable to talk with us again. Dude, I hope you will be alright and I'm sure you will be.
 
AJ said:
hey look, um....i know what some of u guys are gonna say about this thread but anyway....

i really need to leave AD. its causing me a lot of problems. its causing me a lot of heart ache right now. im trying to get over Amber's death and this isn't helping me with everyone gossiping about it. when u guys just read it in the paper, im living it. and its not helping me get over it.


so.....

i would really appreciate it, if u want to continue talking to me PM me with ur sn and ill give you mine and we can hang out there.

i do like a lot of you guys i just cant "live" in this environment. and i hope some of u guys do pm me with ur sn cuz like i said...i do enjoy talking to a lot of u guys.

the 3 years were nice, but its time for me to pack up and move on from AD. thanks for the memories.
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AJ man go with your heart you'll be missed terriabley and i wish you would just take a loa We'll miss you too much. And most of all I'm sorry for people gossiping about amber. I know she will be missed and i agree with you it's good to get away. Take care of yourself AJ and know you'll be terriabley missed!!!!
 
Anyone who has gone through deep grief feels compassion for what AJ is going through. There are stages of grief and anger is but one of them.
It will simply take time.
http://www.cancersurvivors.org/Coping/end term/stages.htm
(I know that the link is "cancersurvivors" but it explains the stages of grief rather nicely.)
Hang in there, AJ.
 
AJ said:
im really sorry i have to. like i said pm me and ill give u my sn and ill talk to u guys there. i really cant hang around here anymore.

and i know a lot of u {edited} are thinking im just doing this for sympathy..and if u think that u can go fuck off.


oh Tweety i always wanted to tell u...i love ur avatar :thumb:
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hahah thanks for avatar! u can tell me anytime.. sure i uddy.. if u need talk me then PM me allright?
 
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sighs alright AJ

i will miss ya

i never get over with my twin cousins deaths ppl come to me and said GET OVER IT they are dead
in reality it hurts me really bad when they said it

i undy how you feel smile

amber is your friend
i lost a friend of mine almost 2 years ago i never get over her death and i IGNORED ppl
i don't need their pity to say get over it i ignored their words

you undy what i am saying AJ i am not hurting ya that way i just telling you to ignore them that all just scoffs them off
that way they will leave ya alone
 
Farewell AJ it've been nice having u around.

I hope you find time to heal and still have a chance of life over you.
 
I will miss your post, and hope everything goes well... I agree with you that we both hate gossip about decased ones. Take some time to greieving (?).. .. You can PM me whenever you feel like.
 
umm i dunno who amber is and i didnt see any gossip maybe it is too new to me but i will miss ya like everyone will too...cuz u always make a point and tend to be smart ass that crack me up in joke way and other smart ass that u are very serious and i even do agree with u with alot of ur point in here alldeaf i know i dont post that much but i do look around and see everyone's personality ah...i undy ur pain wish u a goody lucky and maybe never know u cud come back once u get heal of ur pain over amber farewell aj... :sadwave:
 
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