Abuse in Gay Relationships

Well I am not putting anyone down...
I want everybody to get better and
have a sense of humor....

I want everybody to get rid of the evil past and live right and happy...
And I want everybody to be HAPPY.... so that I can be happy...

That is why I always smile.
I have Treacher Collins Syndrome and people stared at me many times...
and I would smile.. and they would smile back.
And one Asian man was having a bad day.... and he was going to
take it out on me, like, "why you show your ugly face around here?"
but he didn't, because I smile at him... and he smiled back and I made
his day... and he was calm... I think his family was giving him a hard time or something... so he went back in the cabin on the cruise.

And you know that not alllll men are bad.

Why did your stepdad beat up your mom for? Was he pissed off of something?

My dad beat up my mom, because he had bad self esteem...
He felt that he can't do anything right... and he tried
to communicate with my mom, but he doesn't know how...
and he thought his fists would talk for him. My mom
kept putting him down and called him a high school dropped out.

And when my mom married my stepdad, he was also a high school
dropped out... and my mom learned her lesson to not putting anyone down...
so she encourage him instead... and my stepdad got his GED finally...
She helped him study and things like that.

And it upset me that... she should have done the same thing
with my dad,, encourage him instead of putting him down.

God is trying to tell her something... and now she realized... :angel:
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
Well I am not putting anyone down...
I want everybody to get better and
have a sense of humor....

I want everybody to get rid of the evil past and live right and happy...
And I want everybody to be HAPPY.... so that I can be happy...

That is why I always smile.
I have Treacher Collins Syndrome and people stared at me many times...
and I would smile.. and they would smile back.
And one Asian man was having a bad day.... and he was going to
take it out on me, like, "why you show your ugly face around here?"
but he didn't, because I smile at him... and he smiled back and I made
his day... and he was calm... I think his family was giving him a hard time or something... so he went back in the cabin on the cruise.

And you know that not alllll men are bad.

Why did your stepdad beat up your mom for? Was he pissed off of something?

My dad beat up my mom, because he had bad self esteem...
He felt that he can't do anything right... and he tried
to communicate with my mom, but he doesn't know how...
and he thought his fists would talk for him. My mom
kept putting him down and called him a high school dropped out.

And when my mom married my stepdad, he was also a high school
dropped out... and my mom learned her lesson to not putting anyone down...
so she encourage him instead... and my stepdad got his GED finally...
She helped him study and things like that.

And it upset me that... she should have done the same thing
with my dad,, encourage him instead of putting him down.

God is trying to tell her something... and now she realized... :angel:
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You guys just let the strong bad people defeat you and
went on and do weak things.

Stay away from drugs and stuff.

If you wanna be high, use your natural emotion...
stay away from the negative, be strong, live
right... think positive... and ignore bad people...

That is why I surprise people when they thought
they kicked me down when I am already down...
They think I am on drugs, why I act all happy like that...
NO way I am on drugs...
I prove to them that I am a SURVIVOR....
and I am clean....


There is no point of degrading yourself and stuff...
gotta pick yourself up and start again. :fingersx:
 
See Oceanbreeze

so why am I the bad guy, I wanted to help DreamDeaf....
This is what she said...

DreamDeaf
Always Dreaming
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: America Beautiful
Posts: 2,083

Quote:
Originally Posted by Miss*Pinocchio
But why you don't like men? I don't wanna hear about you are attractive to women... I want to hear the real story of why you don't like men.

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This is where you have a problem... YOU NEED TO READ.

I have often stated over and over that I am BISEXUAL. It means I like both men and women - its just that my current and lifetime partner is a woman like me, and I'm very happy.

Let me tell you a little story...

I have had my right cheekbone shattered by a beefy fist thrown by a man, and severed a nerve in there too.

I have had a collarbone broken by a baseball bat used by a man.

I have been shot by a man.

I have been knifed by a man.

I have had money stolen from me by a man.

I have had electronic equipment owned by me pawned by a man.

I have been beaten up on Christmas Eve by a man.

And get this...all were DIFFERENT men from all walks of life. They were both white and black men of all ages.

I will be fair and be honest - I've had a couple men that were wonderful, but at the end, it was a mutal parting of the ways. We knew it wouldnt work out, and we remain friends to this day.

With women lovers, Ive never had this problem. I ve had the occassional flaming email and sometimes screaming matches, but never physically hurt by them.

My girlfriend has defined the nearly perfect relationship - read this - nearly perfect. NO relationship is ever perfect, but we have established good communication, and we do try to understand each other and each other's point of view, and if we do not understand, we are always willing to clarify what we are trying to say. We came from different walks of life, but we are making it work because we want it to work and we know it will work.

Does this answer your question, TTT?
__________________
Smiles, DD >^..^<

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See? Why DreamDeaf tell me that??? :shock:
 
Wife hit Husband

Not all women are innocent...

http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/haddon3.html

NOVEMBER 11--The wife of actor Christian Slater was arrested yesterday for domestic battery after allegedly throwing a glass at the Hollywood star, who needed nine stitches to close a gash on his noggin caused by the flying object. Ryan Slater Haddon, seen below in a police booking photo, was nabbed on the misdemeanor count following a 6 AM dispute in the couple's suite at the Hard Rock Hotel & Casino in Las Vegas, according to this police report. The 34-year-old actor was treated at Desert Springs Hospital Medical Center. His wife, a 32-year-old television producer, was booked into the Clark County Detention Center, which she departed after 12 hours, according to Kelly Bush, the couple's spokesperson. The Slaters were in Sin City to attend a Limp Bizkit concert.
 

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Miss P, I strongly recommend you to read or rather, reread javapride's post...

Also be sure to read Oceanbreeze's first post in this topic too. She nailed it beautifully about this topic.
 
Whatever.

Go ahead, call me a bigot or gay basher.

Just trying to challenge the gay people...
to make them become straight.
 
Okay, look... you repeatedly yourself that you will not go for women... focus on your feelings/emotions when you said that to us few times, try it because that's exactly what homosexuals feel. They cannot be arse to go for opposite sex. You cannot change their emotions/feelings. Not even God can.

I am not gay and I am not interested in men at all but I am not apathy person so I can relate to these people who go for 'other' people that they have the feelings for. If you cannot relate to this then it is your problem, not theirs. It is never their problem in first place anyway.

And I want you to read this again:

Fly Free said:
Domestic Violence happens in ANY type of relationship regardless if its GLBT or straight -- its also one of the incidences that are NOT reported by the victims due to fear and shame
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Notice the important word: ANY.

Thanks.
 
Magatsu said:
Okay, look... you repeatedly yourself that you will not go for women... focus on your feelings/emotions when you said that to us few times, try it because that's exactly what homosexuals feel. They cannot be arse to go for opposite sex. You cannot change their emotions/feelings. Not even God can.

And I want you to read this again:

Notice the important word: ANY.

Thanks.
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That what I am trying to say...
to DreamDeaf.

Did I say that I want women? Did I ever say that?
I just said I love men but I feel that I am too ugly and I
am insecure to be with men...

If I am a lesbian, I am tooo ugly and I am insecure to be with women.

Read my lips...

I don't want women...
I don't want women...
I don't want women...
I don't want women...
I don't want women...

I do fan·ta·size about men all the time.
I always tell myself... that I want men.
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
That what I am trying to say...
to DreamDeaf.

Did I say that I want women? Did I ever say that?
I just said I love men but I feel that I am too ugly and I
am insecure to be with men...

If I am a lesbian, I am tooo ugly and I am insecure to be with women.

Read my lips...

I don't want women...
I don't want women...
I don't want women...
I don't want women...
I don't want women...

I do fan·ta·size about men all the time.
I always tell myself... that I want men.
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I believe you misunderstand my post. I didn't say that you want to be an lesbian, I never did. I was saying that you have to be in their shoes to understand why they like the same sex (gender). I am not apathy person so I am able to be in their shoes and understand why, what and how.

Okay, I can use your words as perfect example. You said that you want men... why? Because of your feelings/emotions or your 'desire' for them, right? That is similar situation in homosexuals' case... Honestly, I have no right to define what's their feelings or emotions whatever they feel toward their lovers because I am not gay so I probably don't know what I am talking about. However I still stand corrected about 'to be in their shoes to understand their feelings/emotions' statement.

btw, Miss P.... No ma'am, I couldn't read your lip because you are typing the letters down with the keyboard, not talking with your mouth :)

Tweety, :thumb:
 
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Hey Ttt

Miss*Pinocchio said:
Whatever.

Go ahead, call me a bigot or gay basher.

Just trying to challenge the gay people...
to make them become straight.
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I am DAMN proud to be lesbian and you have no rights to try to change me into straight--- i have no feelings for men so KEEP THAT WAY--- you have your own opinions i have mine--- so you can't change my lifestyle...

TOUGH, LIVE WITH IT that you are living in straight AND GLBT world!!! Not just straight

*RME* have a good day!!!! :bye:
 
Magatsu said:
I believe you misunderstand my post. I didn't say that you want to be an lesbian, I never did. I was saying that you have to be in their shoes to understand why they like the same sex (gender). I am not apathy person so I am able to be in their shoes and understand why, what and how.

Okay, I can use your words as perfect example. You said that you want men... why? Because of your feelings/emotions or your 'desire' for them, right? That is similar situation in homosexuals' case... Honestly, I have no right to define what's their feelings or emotions whatever they feel toward their lovers because I am not gay so I probably don't know what I am talking about. However I still stand corrected about 'to be in their shoes to understand their feelings/emotions' statement.

btw, Miss P.... No ma'am, I couldn't read your lip because you are typing the letters down with the keyboard, not talking with your mouth :)

Tweety, :thumb:
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They don't want to face reality. Emotion and feelings are not reality.
You can turn your emotion and feelings off and on.
I do not be with men because of emotion and feelings...
I be with men because I need a penis.... That what my vagina is for.

I am not gonna lay down with a woman and use dildo or sex toy...

I don't want to be with a BUTCH lesbian, pretending to be a man and using
a sex toy that look like a penis... when I can get a real man out there.

This is not what my thread is about... My thread is about
the abuse in Gay relationships, but you guys keep turning and make
an issue about me.

I don't want to talk about me. I want to tell you the reality of
gay relationship.

MODS will you tell them to stop going off topics, and let talk about the
abuse. They don't want me to talk about abuse, because they want
to think their gay lifestyle is pure and perfect.... And think
all gay people are happy and living a good life.
But really some of them are living a lie.

It is not about me, I just trying to educate about Gay culture.
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
They don't want to face reality. Emotion and feelings are not reality.
You can turn your emotion and feelings off and on.
I do not be with men because of emotion and feelings...
I be with men because I need a penis.... That what my vagina is for.

I am not gonna lay down with a woman and use dildo or sex toy...

I don't want to be with a BUTCH lesbian, pretending to be a man and using
a sex toy that look like a penis... when I can get a real man out there.

This is not what my thread is about... My thread is about
the abuse in Gay relationships, but you guys keep turning and make
an issue about me.

I don't want to talk about me. I want to tell you the reality of
gay relationship.

MODS will you tell them to stop going off topics, and let talk about the
abuse. They don't want me to talk about abuse, because they want
to think their gay lifestyle is pure and perfect.... And think
all gay people are happy and living a good life.
But really some of them are living a lie.

It is not about me, I just trying to educate about Gay culture.
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i noticed that u always tell MODS to close this thread or tell them to tell ad to back off.. then WHY are u put post here first place?!!!! so people has a right to discuss here PERIOD! STOP BEING A WHINE!!! u have to learn!!!!!
 
martyr

MissP,

You see one thing and one thing only. You assert that gays and lesbians "became that way" through abuse. And, you're wrong. Some people have experienced abuse and they might prefer being with someone of the same gender, because it feels safer to them. But, that's not true of all gays and lesbians.

A person is not gay or lesbian because they choose to be. They are gay or lesbian simply because they are. It's the way they were born. Period. Exclamation point. THE END.

It's not up to you change anybody, Ms P. Stop trying to before you piss us all off!

:pissed:
 
Well stop with all of this gay agenda...

stop pushing for gay marriage and

put gay issue on children's cartoon....

And leave us alone. We don't

want to know about gay culture

anyway. If gay people want me

to leave them alone, then leave us alone.

Then we all can live together in peace.
 
i feel sorry for you TTT cuz you ONLY SEE BLACK AND WHITE.. sheesh!! :ugh:

EDIT: i suggest you to change your avatar line.. cuz you are NOT HONEST AT ALL ESPECIALLY WITH YOURSELF.. and you are NOT EVEN TRYING TO CHANGE EITHER!! SHEESH!!
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
Well stop with all of this gay agenda...

stop pushing for gay marriage and

put gay issue on children's cartoon....

And leave us alone. We don't

want to know about gay culture

anyway. If gay people want me

to leave them alone, then leave us alone.

Then we all can live together in peace.
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They are leaving you alone, Ms P. No one is pushing their agenda on you. You are choosing to make it your business. If it offends you, you don't have to look at it. If you find this offensive, stop looking!

Simple.
 
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