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I'm not dating anyone because I can't.... yet. How is it slow manipulation when it could be mutual instead? It's not like if we're going to be dating for three months and someone asks if we're together, I'll agree with that. I'm not trying to manipulate anyone but if she starts to think...

Makes sense :D

That makes sense but if someone were around the other person more, wouldn't it make it harder for that someone to not date the other person??? I understand about drawing the line but it just seem's like that would happen.

I am sooo lost by this one. :shock:

I guess that works. Yet hanging out with friends that I'm attracted to, wouldn't that kinda be like dating?

Trust me, I'm not trying to be desperate. I've met alot of girls that I would date on the spot but for some reason or another, I couldn't. I'm working on getting a girlfriend just about all the time. :shock:

I don't think that I would having fun with dating girls just to see where things will go. I'd rather date someone that I'll have a chance with because if I date some random girl and start to really like her and she turns me down, I won't be happy. I feel that life is a long process, it's just...

I wouldn't know if I was making her uncomfortable. It would be awkward if I were to ask her if she was feeling that way. I guess she'll maybe just try to slow things down by planning things herself to counter the plans I've made. I'm really slow at picking up hints sometimes, especially with...

It might be because you are in a bigger city and theres alot of people available to date. I just couldn't go that fast. :shock:

I woulda thought it would scare off girls as well. Yea James is a good name to have :D lol

That's really going fast. :shock:

I'm 21 going on 22 here pretty soon. I'm mostly introverted and nerdy too lol. I really like the story. You really think that she's out there studying???!!! Thats cool though, I think you gave me part of the answer to "where is she?" It's hard to find someone who is up to my expectations. I do...

It sounds that way but I doubt it'll happen. I'll be waiting around forever for a girl to ask me. I like the walking idea too. A friend and I did that and it was nice to just talk. Plus it was at an old elementary school that I went to, so I got to explain to her what everything was like when I...

Thanks Sally. I usually don't talk to girls and ask if they would like to do things. This actually was the first time for me asking a girl that I didn't really know if she wanted to do something. It might be a long time before I even ask a girl that I'm attracted to, to do something. People...

Sally I'm not really attracted to anyone now. I did ask a girl if she wanted to hang out sometime but we didn't hang out at all. A friend of mine told me to remind her but I'm sure if she really wanted to then we would have. I also didn't want to seem like I'm trying to force the matter either.

I have four, one in the Army, one in WI for ROTC/nursing, two brothers- one at grad school, the other is going soon. None of them are around me to where I can drive and visit them. I usually hang out with the two brothers and play videogames, watch tv, or just talk. The first two are out of my...

Thats really good!!!! :D

Well I'm wrong then. I just figured that, that would be a better way to go. I really wish there was a manual on dating because this is really confusing. It seems like the new boyfriend/girlfriend would replace the good friend automatically. I have had it happen where I was good friends with...

English then I'm told French and American Sign Language when I was smaller. I've got other languages....

Wow theres good advice from everyone, thanks :D I honestly thought that people would date after being friends. I mean, how is it that alot of people can be good friends but not move up into being a couple. It's like a promotion, instead the company hires the new guy/girl to be the boss that...