threat about section 8

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Sunshine1 said:
What does David have to do with it. David and Kathy have been dating only three months, nothing serious about it. David don't live with them therefore it's NONE his business! Period! It's up to Kathy. If David don't like that idea of Kathy's son is living with her then say good bye to Kathy and stay out of their business. Period!
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Agree with you...


My lip is zip and listen because I do not want involved with his business with her! :roll:
 
Sunshine1 said:
Yes!!! Complete control freak .. geeez that scared me!!! Kathy needs to have a wake up call!!! If I were her I would call police because that's a "harrasment"!!!
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Interest....... David did dump her once, but She is still stubborn chase him! Even He did insults to her.. I am surprise that she didn't leave him. He said She want him because He is homeowner and live middle class.

She kept called his vp and e.mails. David felt building up fed up with her and threat to her about section 8 :roll:
 
jillio said:
Yep, any guy that dates a woman for 3 months and thinks he has the right to tell her how to handle her business with her children has some serious issues. Especially when he says he will try to get her in trouble if she doesn't do what he wants her to do! Kathy needs to :run: away as fast as she can from him!
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I wish that she need to run away from him.. :ugh3: She won't leave him alone! Jeez!
 
GarnetTigerMom said:
Seem like David is pretty much sound like a control freak. It's all about me! A control freak wants to be talked about - within the community, off of it via email or phone, and especially face to face. To be called names is as good as to be praised, to be ostracized as good as to be sought out - so long as the focus of the community shifts substantively from its own interests to the control freak him- or herself. And the best of all is to be argued over - to split the community into those who approve and those who disapprove of the control freak's statements, attitude, or presentation. Sound like his behavor to her. It does raise lot of red flag on him.

But, You can refuse to worsen their problem by refusing to play along. Control freaks don't realize that they can get what they need without manipulating others, and every successful manipulation strengthens the impression that other strategies are a waste of time and energy. Just say NO to a control freak.
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She refused break up with him so He have to become nasty to her! Read another posts :)
 
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Phillips said:
Sorry me make a short story.. Ok here long story...

Pretend the names.. Guy name is umm David.. His new date gal name is um Kathy.. ok


Kathy's son age about 20 or 21 doesn't working and depend on her. Kathy paid the food, cooking, bills, his cell phone and live with her apartment with section 8. David is pissed off at her son do nothing! David told Kathy that She needs kick her son out but Kathy couldn't rid of her son. David is a threat to Kathy that her son must move out or David will be calling section 8 Because Kathy don't want to break up with David.


Seem to me that Kathy is middle of between her son and date David! :roll:


I felt that David could back off and let Kathy decide?
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I did advice him... Ignore her and back off.

After Many times read e.Mails and see flashing Vp phone to ignore but after that he gives up and reply to her! Ugh.. He has little felt bad for her because she told him that she wants care of him to laundry, cooking dinner etc. but David do not want her son. :roll:
 
I told him that ... Its not good idea for him calling to Section 8 but He want to calling anyway Jeez!!!


He said.. Because Not fair to everyone who's waiting list for apartment section 8 :ugh3:

Seem to me He is confused about her too~!
 
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So Curious what happen if He is calling to Section 8 about them..


They will give warning or kick them out?
 
How does David know that Kathy's son is not included in the section 8 program? Did Kathy tell him that?

David should just mind his own business because it's her son not his, why does he care who she's living with?
 
I will tell you right now, if a man ever even attempted to come between me and my child and force me to choose my child or him, the choice would be very clear. I would kick him to the curb and tell him to be gone.

If this is what he's like at 3 months of dating, guess what he would be like when married.

But I do see a point - that the grown child does need to at least get a job and pay for their own bills such as cell phone, car payment, and gas. But if the child is mentally deficient such as Down's Syndrome or Autism (or a spectrum of it), or even mental disorders such as schizophrenia, the grown child may not be able to hold down a job. So really it needs to be a individual- based thing where individual circumstances dictate one's individual lifestyle. The boyfriend has no say in this, he's not living there, its not his problem to worry about.
 
My advice?

Phillips, just leave the whole mess alone.
 
Cheri said:
How does David know that Kathy's son is not included in the section 8 program? Did Kathy tell him that?

David should just mind his own business because it's her son not his, why does he care who she's living with?
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I have no idea because I didn't asking him a question so Just listen. :dunno2:
 
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