jillio
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My mom is a English professor and loves language. She speaks several with English and now is learning Russian by herself only because she is interested! My parents took ASL classes when I was a baby (I failed the newborn test) and for years after. I didn't speak until late even with ST so probably without ASL as a baby I would have no language at all. My mom thinks sign is a natural language - she had my sister teach her hearing kids (my neices) sign because they can learn sign before speech. My mom says she probably would learn ASL without me because it is a great language.
To me the worse time in school are when I focus too much on oral/speech. The first semester of college was horrible without interpreters (my bad decision). For many many years ST was a waste because they only teach sounds and not meaning, how to use the word etc so much. Knowing to put your tongue "here" and lips "this" etc doesn't help with math, science, or even English class. My parents changed my ST for more understanding and word use and less time per week. Then ST was much better, but I wasted so many hours on nothing to me.
I can't imagine a family not knowing ASL or a deaf/HoH kid. Probably I would flunk school and not communicate with my family. Just typing this........I can't imagine - your family not communicating? As a kid I would die because of sadness. I am lucky I guess with my parents.
JME.
Yes, you are very lucky with the parents you were given. As a result of your mother's ability to understand that language impacts all of the developmental areas, and that language is not restricted to spoken languge only, you were given the advantage of the early language exposure that allowed you to develop not just language, but the cognitive skills that are dependent upon language acquisition. Kudos to your parents, and to you, as well, for using so well the advantages they gave you!