Sad Announcement

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Bear

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Hi Everyone,


I have a sad announcement to make. The Ohio camping trip again this year has been called off. Please don't ask me why due to it being personal reasons. Im sorry for everyone who wanted to get together and meet. We were ALL looking forward to this and me more than anybody. But unfortunately it is necessary to cancel again this year.


I have also decided to withdraw from the deaf world here online. I am very disappointed at this year being cancelled but do understand why it was cancelled and hold no hard feelings towards the person who cancelled it. I still very much care for those that I made friends with over the years. But, I also realize it is time for me to move on with my life and start worrying about myself, and finding a job, and stop worrying about meeting others.

This comes from 2 years of cancelled trips and I am fed up with doing all the work, just to have it cancelled on me. Please everyone try to understand that I need time and I need time for myself and my family now. I cannot continue making the online world my *extended family* anymore. It is way too heartbreaking as it is.

I know it is hard to understand exactly what the hell Im talking about but I am with holding names and things out of respect. Please try to understand there are many reasons behind it. And there is alot more than just cancellations behind my decision. I will be asking Alex to remove my sn from AD. So do not email me through here.

Thanks and Have A Very Good Life!

Bear
 
WHOA!! Bear!! I must say I'm certainly shocked:dizzy: & do not want to see you go. I know I can't stop you either. But only hope ya drop an e-mail or a message on how your doing. I cannot believe what I just read:eek2: I was just getting to know you more & more & will miss you my friend. I really hope you re-consider or at least stay in touch with me & other good friends here online. I did not see this coming....Whatever your decision maybe I'll honor & respect it. Take Care Bear:(:tears:
 
:shock: Bear!!?? What the heck happened?!! I wasn't on line last nit and have no clue however-so what went on while I wasn't around. I don't want to see you go & don't want you shutting us out either. You mean so much to some of us like me. :( You were there for me a lot of times when I was feeling blue, or when I needed someone to talk to, you were always there for me. I'll miss you terribly, Bear. I hope you consider coming back to us even if not in AD, but on the internet again. You'll never be forgotten especially by me. :hug:
 
I'm very sorry what/how you had through. I know that feeling. You are not only one and first person who are very disappointed... We (each person) have the same as you but accept and move on then we know for the sure that we won't involve with this ever again.

I do not wish that you shut us for the good. You know that there're bad or good people around... If you know there're bad people then you will know that you won't involve with them ever again and find your way to enjoy yourself and meet new people.

I find sad that you leave AD but I respect your wish for this and remember that we will be there for you when you come back... :hug:
 
darn, Bear just left. I see it said n/a. Too bad he didnt give us a chance to help him out. sigh. poor Bear
 
oh man she left.. oh well... i am sowwy what happened to u... pls come back..
 
I am truly sorry about this Bear. I didnt know that you were involved in this kind of activties. I would be upet and fed up if it was cancelling on me too. I can understand that you need to do with your life. Take an easy and please do let us know how you are doing with you new life. :hug: I will miss you and your wonderful posts.
 
Ohh already She left in AD as I see her SN said n/a :eek3:. I just found out last night and it got me spechless dont know why she leaving this AD which it suprised me. I dont know what happened to her :dunno:

I wish she come back here without shutting us down :( but I understand that she had choice to quit AD :(.. Gonna miss you (Bear). I hope you going to be okay in everything with your life. :)
 
"He"? I thought he is "She". :confused:

Yes, Bear is a "she". ;)

Yea, DeafMonkey

I'm surprised to see her account been remove that quick, I thought they would give them time to re-consider. You know how members get upset and asked for their account to be removed, but then again they were in emotional state at that time when they asked for their account to be removed, I think they should give her a least time to come back when she's ready without having her account to be removed. :(
 
Oh wow, I'm just totally speechless and shocked at this moment of not knowing what to say here, I know I haven't been on line much to know what's going on but I'm just sad to know she's left just like that....Bear hon, I'm truly sorry to hear about the camping trip being cancelled I was so looking forward to it this summer, but I just wish you didn't have to leave like this through :sigh: :(
 
Oh boy... I am sure Bear must feel so frustrated at having the camping trips cancelled 2 years in a row and it let her down completely... I do hope Bear will be okay somehow and in time she will come back in here.. that I hope.. but still, sad to know the camping trip is gonna be cancelled this year...
 
*Breaking my heart goes out for you* I respect your wish...
will not forget you always...
I'll figure it out somehow where the location best camping out there...
Thanks for your time brings email me about arrangement but i can respect your wish and leaving AD.

Hopefully somehow around the drop by and say hi to me as drop in via email.
Take Care...
*hugs*
 
Y'all not ONLY cuz i just find out from last nite when i get home from work then i read i was like :jaw: I don't REALLY know what hella going on with this.. and i was speech that she is leaving ad w/out explain to us the reason why.. so i m gonna miss you lotts. but but but i will come visit see Bear someday and check on her
 
Sorry to hear that bear left AD.. but hope she will be ok.. I pray for her.. :|
 
It's sad to lose a sincere friend here :(
anyways,I hope the best for Bear :hug:
 
I am sorry you are all upset and sad since Bear left here. I don't know Bear who is. Pray for her anyway. God's hand comfortable with Bear.
 
Bear - If you are reading this, somehow, I was stunned to hear that you decided to cut everything off from the internet. I don't know what the situation is but whatever happened, I just hope that you look into your heart and to forsee that you do still have friends around here.

I do realize that you wanted to move on and to be able to focus on your life and not having to worry about meeting other people. But do know this, I am always grateful for meeting you in person and being a friend to you as much as you have to me as well.

I just hope you are doing okay and that in time it will go well for you. If you need to talk, you know where to reach me at. I know I'm almost not home at all of the time and keep missing your VP calls but do know this, you're still a friend to me. After all, you're the huggable bear, eh? :) :hug:

Please do take good care of yourself.
 
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