I Feel Bad For Being Hard Of Hearing

I doubt any self respecting girls would text you based on this add.

And if you really want to go through with putting up a poster, use your love for arts and other intrests to make it an intresting add.

Make an image that will stand out and somewhere in there hint that any girls intrested in getting to know the person behind the image, can email you.

I'd even say use a new email account for it, that way at least you control who gets to know your personal info.
 
I see. Thanks for the feedback. You recommend email instead of texting?

Ok well how about this instead:

"Single male in 20s with good education, well-groomed and fit. Patient and considerate. Seeking a woman who enjoys the sense of humour. Hobbies include biking, snowboarding, skiing, art, gym, books. Never learned sign language but fortunately can speak. Also a history buff. Student at ####. Please contact ### if interested, would love to hear from you."

What do you think?
 
I'd really go for an image, or images that tell something about what you like, who you are.
An image speaks louder then a 1000 words


I wouldn't even put all the text you have in mind in there, you could just as well meet that girl of your dreams just because you see her looking at your work of art.

And maybe you'll just have some fun in creating it ;)

And yes I recommend email over texting.

AlleyCat said:
I still wouldn't respond to a poster.
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Although I agree with AlleyCat, I would not respond to a poster, but this way, at least you would be less likely to get scammers if you really want to put up a poster
 
maybe image of school i go to? I dont know, i value higher education but yeah.
 
Getting out there and meeting people. Even if it's at the laundromat, church, bingo hall, park, vintage store, lake, local diner, anyplace really. The best way to connect with somebody is finding something in common. A poster isn't going to cut it for me. No way. You can't be afraid to give somebody a chance by some common interest. I've done that. Sorry if this sounds abrupt, but girls really aren't going to go out of their way to a poster.
 
Well maybe it's not a good idea to create an ad after all. Thanks for the feedback.
 
I tried them all, doesn't work for me. So I was thinking a physical ad might do the job
 
have you tried deafmatch.com? Don't know if they're still active or not...
 
no i havent but udeaf.com was supposed to be the best one, idk it's probably dead though
 
I was thinking the same thing, why not just a dating site? They're so hit or miss sometimes though. Maybe there's new people on, never hurts to try again. And put all those details and expectations upfront on your profile.
 
I think you might have more luck with the ad approach if rather than trying to get a date, start a deaf/hh social club. Set it up to meet in a public place so people feel safe to go - like a library or bookstore. You may find others are looking for ways to meet people too. Look for trying to make friends. With friends you will probably be happier and that would make you more likely to find someone interesting in a date. It may take time for people to start coming but if you set it up with a regular meeting day and time word will get around.
 
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