WOW. And you wonder why Deaf Ed is so f'd up. I kept wondering WHY there wasn't some unified movement to fix all the stuff that's wrong. Now I get it!
Keep on fighting each other. That'll get the next generation very far. Oh, and keep on being rude to hearing people - that works, too. According to some, I'm not deaf enough to be here. Yeah, well, until the Deaf community starts getting their shit together, you may find hearing people useful. Especially when we do neurolinguistic studies that back up your claims.
People like Shel are useful. Informative. Helpful. And Alex - someone who I disagree with 90 per cent of the time - doesn't push things on to people. He's thoughtful, intelligent, and sincere. Lana can be mean as hell but her contributions are meaningful. So why does every freaking thread blow up? Like pfh pointed out, we seem to share the same damned goals!
Others are not so productive. This is a hearing girl coming to the Deaf community looking for some insight so she can formulate a thesis for a research paper and look what happened!
Kinda hard to listen to anyone who has a damn stick up their ass, yeah?
You know what? Since coming here a month ago (and yeah, I was interested in doing my thesis on language acquisition and cognitive development in the deaf) I have thanked my lucky stars 10,000 times that my son wasn't born deaf. Why? Because the idea that he may grow up acting spiteful and spewing hatred all over those who didn't subscribe to his Superior Opinions on Everything Deaf Related was scary.
Seriously, Jiro? pfh? Is that what the Deaf culture is? If Deaf culture = "Hearing Sucks", then you get can bent. If Deaf culture = "Let a stranger make major decisions about your family for you or else we will label you a bad parent", then you're gonna lose some credibility. Criticizing Alex for not hanging out with enough "prominent" Deaf?
Are you serious?!