what wrong with filipino american who seeks white american?

matajan

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To be honest with you.

I think I remember some of you made comment about my ethncity that white girls are not looking for. I read some of your threads about type what you looking for. One person made statement that one is non white guy that she told she is not his type from one thread.

What does really type mean? Is it necessary for someone wants to choose?

It looks like any person who had own preference and must have criteria means he or she is picky or reserved person same as I do.

I was one who is picky person means any girl is hard to get me because they knew what my own preference. I am different from my brothers and each of individual always do not same way they should be. My two older female cousins are picky persons same as I do, in fact, they never have boyfriend and still single at over 25 age that I learned from them after discover about myself.

Anyways, I do not want to embrass of my family and friends if I dated someone who is uneducated and unselective person. My family is strict about choosing right person can bring into marriage and future generation family and I respect this asian culture but I already own culture when I born and raised in America means I have to be cautious about choosing right person made me comfortable. And I have never interested in dating filipina that I already told before before. I am in America means I do not need filipina, I could have on my own preference like seeking white girls here same as filipino friends at gallaudet, rit, or any colleges. Many filipino and chinese will interested in someone who is intelligent and have a degree in their country I visited before, for example, many people married doctors andbusiness people who is very smart and fiancially stable. You will realized when you visited asian country one day or some of you like two people talked about experiences with asian people who member of AD. That why I am looking for someone who is intelligent and have a degree here in America.

Again, I would feel comfortable about choosing this person is one for me. What am I looking for? A person should be well educated and already or will get a university degree and desire into career goal. Also, a person who should take responsbility of fiancially and independent living. It is possible as being wealth or working hard person came from family soould have a good background. Of course, a person is good hearted, sense of humor, caring, assertive, easy going, kind, friendly, and sweet which means bring into good relationship. This person may be adventure or networking or passion with athletes and outdoor and strong mutual interesting. Most of time that a person should be intelligent talking and better response as well as being academic person like talk lots about school like in college or ivy league but sometime can be reach any good career like business, politics, law, and science. But.depend on person who had skill with any subject like law is lots of hot topics to me when discussed together. A person really need to desire into continuing education and career successfully which means our expectation should be similar and bring into good relationship and infleunce on future generations. And a person should be passion with religion is similar to me and be good person who would be benefit into marriage and family. Lastly, I liked someone who is white and have a good family with career and education background ever would accept who I am but doesn't matter if I am filipino, only important is love do not affect on any race because it is diversity in America.

Right now, you will understand why I am really selective person then you can not judge on me. I have experience I met few girls are selective persons then I respect them what they want. Many people said about them who are students at gallaudet, guys are hard to get them but it doesn't matter to say because they have own choice. Sadly, one of them are not rich and not ivy league member nor her family, came from deaf family but she is a good person to me. I decided to move on and will find somebody when I go to ivy league school or maybe meet somebody at ivy league social party one day. I really want someone who have a money and education degree to support me plus being faith into marriage and influence on future generations, children will be liked by us if we had education and career successful. I was not surprised I met people who hadn't university degree from old schools and some of them saw me in las vegas, I was not interested in any girls who didn't have. I do not bother to contact old schoolmates because I was move on and focused on my education and career life. I knew that education and career is important to me and should have someone had both is similar to me but one of them is missing will never work out. That I learned lot from my family and friends advised me about something should be warned me to think twice before dating someone who must be right person.
 
Nothing wrong with dating of different ethnicity, Ale..er, Matajan.
 
yep, I agree with kokonut. Anyone who tells you not to date because of ethnicity is a racist. Love is color blind.
 
I married two men who were from different ethnic backgrounds than I was. At least I got to experience love which beats marrying for the wrong reasons.
 
My sister dated a guy who was of "mixed" race. My father broke her ribs. :( That experience, seeing my sister getting her ribs broken by him over skin color, had really made it difficult for me to date guys of races different than my own. Shame, too. I don't see why skin color makes a difference.
 
My sister dated a guy who was of "mixed" race. My father broke her ribs. :( That experience, seeing my sister getting her ribs broken by him over skin color, had really made it difficult for me to date guys of races different than my own. Shame, too. I don't see why skin color makes a difference.

:wtf:
 
Nothing wrong with dating of different ethnicity, Ale..er, Matajan.

Someone made comment that do you think white women wants filipino or asians?

Who blamed someone else?

Why white women refuse to date filipino or asians like me?

Why many white women prefer white men?

It is not true.

Many people blamed several selective white girls came from deaf family at gallaudet, you know why?

Because they do not want dated other races than white by their own preferences. What is about me?

I dated white girls all time in my life include relationship. I liked white girls who had open personality and had common in ours like hearted and passive.
 
Anyone who read that whole post gets a gold star.

Me? :zzz:
 
I don't think that is true anymore. People are much more open to marriage between races. But you should just marry who you want.
 
Anyone can say about picky white girls and came from deaf family at gallaudet, several of them I crushed on them before, realized they are hard people like mine...something about choosing mate based on race but asked why don't they dated any race? No one asked. Ever they NEVER dated any guys at school for the deaf and their deaf parents encouraged, know they resist any guys before, now they are still singles and some of them are members of volleyball team.
 
Anyone who read that whole post gets a gold star.

Me? :zzz:

Thank you! Have it in the mail tomorrow and I will happily display it. (But I would have thought by the time you are teaching college, gold stars would have gone by the wayside.)
 
You from indiana?

You should know about this person I crushed on her before, she is one who is selective person but really never dated at school before.

Matajan, you seriously have to stop this stalkish behavior of yours.
 
You from indiana?

You should know about this person I crushed on her before, she is one who is selective person but really never dated at school before.

I didn't read your post, so I don't know what you're talking about.
 
Anyone who read that whole post gets a gold star.

Me? :zzz:

I'll be waiting for my gold star then. :naughty:

matajan, from what I've read in your posts... You are extremely repetitive and ask the same questions constantly. You only want ONE thing... A girl from ivy league with money. Newsflash... You're not good enough for an ivy league girl. They have much higher standards and you won't meet theirs.

You want respect, right? Break away from your parents and just be yourself. You're not exactly getting a lot of respect right now from others. You'd just get golddiggers who want your family's money. Love is love, not based on money or genes. Love=happiness and being with someone you enjoy. You're being a close minded asshat right now and that's why you're single. :hmm:
 
I didn't read your post, so I don't know what you're talking about.

You can look my old post previously. I was used to crush on someone who went to isd and gallaudet before. I am not sure if you know this person before but did you went to isd? This person is actress of asl films, gerald and black sand. I mentioned about her as picky person I s same as mine choose someone who I like but some people kept telling me why I don't date different races but I have own preferences ever cannot over my boundaries or out of respect on me.
 
You can look my old post previously. I was used to crush on someone who went to isd and gallaudet before. I am not sure if you know this person before but did you went to isd? This person is actress of asl films, gerald and black sand. I mentioned about her as picky person I s same as mine choose someone who I like but some people kept telling me why I don't date different races but I have own preferences ever cannot over my boundaries or out of respect on me.

She doesn't want to be with you. Face it, buddy.
 
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