Hi Everyone! 
I am currently attempting to learn ASL through a community college class and an online website suggested by the forum. I'm running into a few (what seems to me) very stupid questions, but I can't seem to get a straight answer from my instructor. Maybe I could ask here?
1- With fingerspelling, does it matter which hand I use, provided that the form is correct?
2-Sometimes I have encountered the same word being signed in slightly different ways - for example, I have seen the word for "deaf" signed as either a) a thumb being dragged from the ear to the mouth, or b) a pointed finger making a loop from the ear to the mouth. Are both forms acceptable? Is one form considered "ASL slang" or an "ASL dialect?"
3-My husband and I are thinking of starting a family - and discussing whether to teach our children ASL (there is a chance they will have hearing loss) Would it be better to teach the ASL first, oralism first, or both? Would teaching both be too confusing?
thanks for reading!
Laurabeth

I am currently attempting to learn ASL through a community college class and an online website suggested by the forum. I'm running into a few (what seems to me) very stupid questions, but I can't seem to get a straight answer from my instructor. Maybe I could ask here?
1- With fingerspelling, does it matter which hand I use, provided that the form is correct?
2-Sometimes I have encountered the same word being signed in slightly different ways - for example, I have seen the word for "deaf" signed as either a) a thumb being dragged from the ear to the mouth, or b) a pointed finger making a loop from the ear to the mouth. Are both forms acceptable? Is one form considered "ASL slang" or an "ASL dialect?"
3-My husband and I are thinking of starting a family - and discussing whether to teach our children ASL (there is a chance they will have hearing loss) Would it be better to teach the ASL first, oralism first, or both? Would teaching both be too confusing?
thanks for reading!
Laurabeth
But are their different "dialects" in ASL? I do see people signing slightly different ways for the same sign. It's a little confusing. How do I know which is correct?
Folks around here are more than happy to help you improve your ASL skills. We are always glad to see someone taking an interest in a beautiful language.