Love! Not fight!

Jiro

Jiro

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OK guys n' gals.... If you noticed - recently I haven't been participating much as usual especially in Current Events and On-Topic Debates because I think it's just getting way out of hands most of time. As of recent - some long-time AD'ers just got temporarily banned... some AD'ers were undoubtedly hurt.... threads quickly turned from constructive debate into pissing contest and shit-flinging bullshit.

I think we all should be considerate with each other and not post any more hotly debated topics for a while... hopefully a LONG while. There's a reason why it's called a hotly debated subject and I think it's best left to politicians and extremists/activists to dish it out between each other. Let them do it for us. Nothing gets resolved in here. We all simply have a different POV. Let's leave it at that.

We should engage more on General Chat and other subjects that are more spiritual-lifting for us because I know we're either dreadfully bored or horrendously stressed out in our real life. It'd make sense to congregate in AD and converse in any subjects (except heated debate) that would quickly erases away our troubles.

How about that, huh? :cool2:
 
that's why I have decided to take a break from the Deaf ed threads. I am tired of it too.

I agree with you.
 
That goes for me. I had a hotted debates with the hearing audists who are stubborn that Deaf people need to read lips and speak the voice including no ASL on AD. They will not learn from us because they think they know more about us being able to hear with CIs or hearing aids. They can train us to use voice and read lips which is really impossible for us to go through that. I get upset quite a lot back then. Yeah, we need a break from that and just take it easy and enjoy finding the right topic that will make our lives easier. :)
 
I'm not hurt, there's a point when you get sick of people using friendship as a weapon in debates, it should have been done in private message. This isn't the first time, and it won't be the last time either.

If anyone doesn't like my opinion, tough, if you want to end a friendship over it, be my guts. That's all I gonna say to the public. ;)
 
Jiro said:
OK guys n' gals.... If you noticed - recently I haven't been participating much as usual especially in Current Events and On-Topic Debates because I think it's just getting way out of hands most of time. As of recent - some long-time AD'ers just got temporarily banned... some AD'ers were undoubtedly hurt.... threads quickly turned from constructive debate into pissing contest and shit-flinging bullshit.

I think we all should be considerate with each other and not post any more hotly debated topics for a while... hopefully a LONG while. There's a reason why it's called a hotly debated subject and I think it's best left to politicians and extremists/activists to dish it out between each other. Let them do it for us. Nothing gets resolved in here. We all simply have a different POV. Let's leave it at that.

We should engage more on General Chat and other subjects that are more spiritual-lifting for us because I know we're either dreadfully bored or horrendously stressed out in our real life. It'd make sense to congregate in AD and converse in any subjects (except heated debate) that would quickly erases away our troubles.

How about that, huh? :cool2:
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:gpost: I agree
 
Jiro, I agree wholeheartedly and have been trying to stay out of it too. What you have said is a very good idea.:gpost:
 
Jiro said:
OK guys n' gals.... If you noticed - recently I haven't been participating much as usual especially in Current Events and On-Topic Debates because I think it's just getting way out of hands most of time. As of recent - some long-time AD'ers just got temporarily banned... some AD'ers were undoubtedly hurt.... threads quickly turned from constructive debate into pissing contest and shit-flinging bullshit.

I think we all should be considerate with each other and not post any more hotly debated topics for a while... hopefully a LONG while. There's a reason why it's called a hotly debated subject and I think it's best left to politicians and extremists/activists to dish it out between each other. Let them do it for us. Nothing gets resolved in here. We all simply have a different POV. Let's leave it at that.

We should engage more on General Chat and other subjects that are more spiritual-lifting for us because I know we're either dreadfully bored or horrendously stressed out in our real life. It'd make sense to congregate in AD and converse in any subjects (except heated debate) that would quickly erases away our troubles.

How about that, huh? :cool2:
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If you let them do it for you--they will decide without your input. And you might not like their decision. That is why it's best to be a part of it.

Does that make sense?
 
Cheri said:
I'm not hurt, there's a point when you get sick of people using friendship as a weapon in debates, it should have been done in private message. This isn't the first time, and it won't be the last time either.

If anyone doesn't like my opinion, tough, if you want to end a friendship over it, be my guts. That's all I gonna say to the public. ;)
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:hmm:
 
Byrdie714 said:
If you let them do it for you--they will decide without your input. And you might not like their decision. That is why it's best to be a part of it.

Does that make sense?
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that's why it's called election. and you can write letter to your congressman, councilman, senator, etc. you can donate to an organization that shares your view. no need to get into shit-flinging debate in here as if we're going to the world. :cool2:
 
Jiro said:
now now now.... LOVE! NOT FIGHT! or take it to PM :cool2:
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:giggle: I'm not gonna fight with Byrdie714, I love that guy too much even through he doesn't feel the same way about me. It's okay. ;)
 
Cheri said:
I'm not hurt, there's a point when you get sick of people using friendship as a weapon in debates, it should have been done in private message. This isn't the first time, and it won't be the last time either.

If anyone doesn't like my opinion, tough, if you want to end a friendship over it, be my guts. That's all I gonna say to the public. ;)
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Here are the multipul choice options for whatever member who wants to be Cheri's guts:
A) Stomache
B) Large Intestines
C) Small Intestines
D) Retum
E) All of thee above


go ahead pick :popcorn:







just finding humor in an innocent typo :P
 
C.C.Sinned said:
Here are the multipul choice options for whatever member who wants to be Cheri's guts:
A) Stomache
B) Large Intestines
C) Small Intestines
D) Retum
E) All of thee above


go ahead pick :popcorn:







just finding humor in an innocent typo :P
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:eek3: Nasty!
 
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