Oh, my bad... 35,000. I recently re-check the correct record...
Fidel Castro Sex 35,000 Women
no wonder, he have bad disease right now... shurg!
Personally, I ask out of curiosity after being with that person for a long time.
So sue me. I'm a curious cat.
It wouldn't affect my opinion of them.
Well.. unless it's a crazy, scary number... like well over 100!
OR...
If I get this answer:
"Honestly, I don't know. I don't remember most of them."
Personally, I ask out of curiosity after being with that person for a long time.
So sue me. I'm a curious cat.
It wouldn't affect my opinion of them.
Well.. unless it's a crazy, scary number... like well over 100!
OR...
If I get this answer:
"Honestly, I dont know. I don't remember most of them."
I don't have a definite number I did some very stupid things when I was younger, and I'm not sure how many people I have slept with. The other thing is this depends on what a person definition of sex is. if it is a penis entering a vagina... then my numbers are low, 4 or 5 I think...
Sounds about average to me, including the doing stupid things when you were younger. Heck, if we never do stupid things when we're young, when ARE we going to do them??
Some people don't know about boundaries, ya know....That isn't a question I have ever felt the need to address in a relationship, and would be insulted if the question were asked of me. Thank goodness I have always been involved with men that realized it was an innapropriate and meaningless question.
the only thing i think of is every time sex comes up all thanks to Dr.Phil, The Doctors and many many more shows is who ever you have sex with your also having sex with everyone they've had sex and everyone they've had sex with and so on and so on.
Blame Adam & Eve
lmfao what did they do :S :p
well, you are too young to learn. *pats your back*
Does anyone remember the old Mary Tyler Moore show when Mary had some sort of discussion with her boss, Lou, about "the number?" If I'm remembering right - according to Lou "the number" should be "3." More than that and you were a bad girl!
Personally, I think it's not so much the exact number that matters; it's more the context of the former relationships. Although I agree with KStiletto and TheWriteAlex that super-high numbers don't say anything good about a person.
But by a certain age, I'd also be concerned if the number were "zero." How do you get to be age 30, say, and never been in love enough to have had an intimate relationship? It's possible, of course, but I'd like to know why. If it's due to sincerely-held moral/ethical reasons, fine. If it's because the person is scared of sex and intimacy, that might be reason for concern.
my SO's experiance (in terms of #'s) was much, much lower than mine... no doubt about that. Its just that I don't like sweeping comments like that (people who have alot of sexual experiance or a high number of partners are bad people, or anything of the sort) My SO and I were on the same page about commitment what cheating means and that there are NO excuses for it. Neither of us had ever cheated on a partner before, and neither of us ever will. Also, we were both upfront about our sexual history, number of partners, and if we had been tested for STI's (we both had, everything from a standard blood panel, to AIDS testing).