_xShipwreckx_
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Alright I already created a thread about this but I didn't get too much help so I'll just copy and paste what I rote in my last thread.
_xShipwreckx_ said:I just don't want to do this anymore, I don't want to listen to him say that our relationship is more important than his hearing, I don't want him to think that going to a school for the deaf is his only option...I just wish I was smarter and could make everything better, but I'm not and I can't.
LuciaDisturbed said:Uh...ok
_xShipwreckx_ said:Yeah just ignore that, I was having a moment but I'm done now.
_xShipwreckx_ said:I talked to him about C.Is and he said it sounded risky...I just don't get him
LuciaDisturbed said:Well, ultimately, it's his decision, so...if you really love him then you'll accept it.
_xShipwreckx_ said:I know it's his decision, but the problem is he's not making any decisions he keeps putting it off and it just keeps getting worse.
ayala920 said:On a completely unrelated note, I just wanted to point out that your icon says, "If your a bird, I'm a bird," though it should be, "If you're a bird, I'm a bird."
*Grammar Police moment over*
Lillys dad said:My advice, educate yourself about all the options he has, possibly more poweful hearing aids, ASL, lipreading, C.I.. There are many options available. Educate yourself, then educate him (if he's willing) then let him chose. Either way it goes, it his hearing and his life. If he does nothing, so be it, you tried. Whatever he chooses to do, support him. Afterall, isnt that a main part of a relationship....supporting your mate, even when you don't agree with his decision?
_xShipwreckx_ said:He actually has been using ASL and lipreading for quite sometime now, and he doesn't really benifet from hearing aids, we've been talking about C.I..he's very hesitant about that subject...I really don't know why though.
_xShipwreckx_ said:He actually has been using ASL and lipreading for quite sometime now, and he doesn't really benifet from hearing aids, we've been talking about C.I..he's very hesitant about that subject...I really don't know why though.
Gemtun said:You will never understand or know why he doesnt want that or being indecisive or make such decisions because you are not in his shoes when it comes to losing his hearing. Perhaps he is already overwhelmed with the aspect of losing more hearing and he has not gotten over that yet and embrace any other options such as CI or whatnot.
He needs time to sort out his emotions etc. I would imagine it would be difficult for him to go to a school for the deaf - quite big change for him. So opting for a CI may be too much on his plate right now.
That is my guess
P.S it took me 5 years to decide to get a CI by the way. It is not an easy decision.
Gemtun said:You will never understand or know why he doesnt want that or being indecisive or make such decisions because you are not in his shoes when it comes to losing his hearing. Perhaps he is already overwhelmed with the aspect of losing more hearing and he has not gotten over that yet and embrace any other options such as CI or whatnot.
He needs time to sort out his emotions etc. I would imagine it would be difficult for him to go to a school for the deaf - quite big change for him. So opting for a CI may be too much on his plate right now.
That is my guess
P.S it took me 5 years to decide to get a CI by the way. It is not an easy decision.