Questions/Answers
Hi there, Leibling! It's awesome to have finally met you. I guess we've met before, through our postings, but finally, a person-to-person thingy!
Here's some answers for you.
1. I met my husband through a mutual friend. I was going through a very rough time in my life...so since he was a cop, our friend thought it would be a good idea for him to meet me so that maybe he could refer me over to a women's crisis center or somewhere I could seek out counseling. Of course, we never got to doing that, but we did get to talking. It was funny because he and I never really wanted anything to do with one another...and now we're married. It's a rip...really...but we were talking online for about 3 months or so before we decided to meet in person.
2. No, it wasn't love at first sight. I don't think that even exists for anyone, hahaha. Lust, maybe. I mean, I thought he was cute, and he thought I was cute too...but to me, love takes quite some time to bloom, to develop...but we did like one another and enjoy one another's company right away.
3. Did I have sex on a first date? Ummm...not with my husband, no. But I'm ashamed to admit, yes, I have done it before. I have no excuse for it other than the fact that I was going through a self-hate period and I really didn't care about what happened to myself...so sadly, I allowed whatever guy I was out with at the moment, do whatever he wanted to me...and most of the time, it was sex. I don't know...I'm just glad that part of my life is over with and in the past, where it belongs.
4. Quickie sex? I guess you kind of have to learn to like it when you have three kids, two cats, a dog, mountains of laundry, karate lessons, a night time job and plenty of additional household chores to do.
LOL! But eh, I prefer the longer version...that we can do when the kids go to bed. It's just soooo much better when you can take your time, but when you're pressed for minutes, it's always handy! Haha.
5. I guess I like when my husband takes his time with me...I like having kisses on my neck, shoulders, and just about everywhere else. I like cuddling, touching, and actually just driving each other crazy before the deed is done!
6. What's there to dislike? Umm...I guess...well, let me think for a second, here...:::thinking:::...hmmm...well, haha...this is a hard one. LOL. I guess if there's one thing I absolutely must choose...then it's blow jobs. :::ducking for cover::: I'm SORRY, guys! I know you like it, but I don't! LOL...ewww.
7. The most horrible thing I've ever seen is also an experience. I won't get into the grisly details unless you absolutely want me to, but I would have to say that it's when I was raped. It's also hard for me to hear about similar experiences, especially when a friend or someone I care about is involved. That hurts, big time, because I know exactly how they feel.
8. Most beautiful...that's easy. My son's birth. His first breath, his first cry, his pink skin, his head full of black hair, his contented sigh, and then finally, his falling asleep in his Daddy's arms.
I wish I had that on video!
9. Favorite number...don't really have one, but maybe 33. It was my high school softball jersey number.
10. No, the picture in my avatar is not my son. It is of Tom Felton, who plays Draco Malfoy in the Harry Potter movies. You can find a picture of my kids somewhere in the picture boards...
11. I have brownish/dirty blonde hair. My eyes are hazel...and my skin is olive-toned, tanned in the summer, when I am not burning into a crisp...and my nose and cheeks below my eyes are covered in freckles.
12. I would say my favorite foods would be Italian foods, Chinese foods, and just about anything fried. I have to watch it with the fries though, because I don't want to be adding on any unwanted pounds!
13. I have been to both Disney World in Orlando, Florida and Disneyland in Anaheim, California. Both places are very nice, very large, and way easy to get lost in.
I love them...it's expensive, but definitely worth a family vacation. I haven't had the money or the opportunity to take my kids there, yet...but someday I would love to.
I'm sure they would have the time of their lives.
I hope this answers your questions.
Thank you for taking the time to get to know me. I hope you'll come back and ask me more...and I hope you are happy with my answers.
Hugs,
Malfoyish