imdeafsowhat
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Having fears also mean you're in denial.
Frogs are the best drug ever.
Frogs are the best drug ever.
I understand. I hate being late too but it's not a fear though.
Ahh....another issue that could be related to the fear of being restrained. Being restrained means relinquishing control. Being overly concerned with promptness is also a way to remain in control. Not saying you are neurotic or anything, but just showing how all of our behaviors are interrelated.
oh maybe..... Jasmine has an insanely low blood pressure and the machine cuts off the circulation just for a several seconds... which is probably why she fainted. hhhmmmm
Liza, Im with you, I fear checking the mail- I might uncover a bill. Thats worse than any snake or spider in your bed, and happens much more frequently than that too.
LOL, I have no idea. Would anemia cause that?
I would die if I found a frog in my bed. Seriously. Heart attack.
I am always late for work.... up to 40 min and oddly - boss's not throwing a fit about it. maybe it will be one day.... My bus's always late.
there was a white rabbit in Alice in Wonderland? I don't seem to recall.....
oh maybe..... Jasmine has an insanely low blood pressure and the machine cuts off the circulation just for a several seconds... which is probably why she fainted. hhhmmmm
Wow, I will have to do that, reprogram my mind. You are right, I think that I have control issues. Only towards my own life though. I hate not having control over what happens to me. I hate being restrained, I want to be free. LOL Neurotic. Not me, but I do like being in control over my own life.
whoa wtf... that sounds.... scary... :Ohno:Yes, there was a white rabbit in Alice. He ran around saying, "I'm late, I'm late, for a very important date!"
i'm aggressive? :-o what does it mean exactly?Being consistently late is a passive aggressive tendency.
whoa wtf... that sounds.... scary... :Ohno:
i'm aggressive? :-o what does it mean exactly?
whoa wtf... that sounds.... scary... :Ohno:
i'm aggressive? :-o what does it mean exactly?
Passive agressive. In the scenario you describe, it would be showing your boss that you are in control of the situation by consistenly being up to 40 minutes late and passively demonstrated that you have "power" over another.
Jiro, passive aggressive is a covert way of expressing your anger or frustration. It's kinda dysfunctional behavior because you're not communicating or being honest about your anger or frustration.
Indeed, the white rabbit is scary!
very interesting.... "power" over him... I'm afraid to say that you are somehow correct. Wow I never thought of that. I was late for this month partially because of my insomniac problem. It usually lasts for about a couple weeks to a month. Once it's gone, I'm usually always on time.
even this doll on your bed?
that's why it's a partial reason. your description of Passive Aggressive is more accurate description of me than Liza's because i'm not angry or frustrated. I guess that's another definition of Passive Aggressiveness. Would you say "maverick" is passive aggressive too?Ahh, but you stated earlier that you were always late for work.
Is it possible that the insomnia just provided you with a convenient excuse for being late?