WHY can I be perfect!?

Deafimedia... get off your horse please.. geez seems all ya do is try to butt in here and say things that does not make sense.. at least be smart and back off... simple enough...

Spicy.. I do hope ya are good for now... I'm sure ya will work on your situation and see what going on and get it all smoothed out... it will be fine in no time...
 
Deafilmedia said:
Well I am helping her to look on the brighter side. She can
go seek counseling and all of her problem will go away or solve.

There are people who are worse off than her.

Just like Oprah, she whine and whine about her weight, but
now she is thin, problem solve.


My face, it will stay with me all of my life, this problem will never never
go away.

Sxy, protection? no I don't need protection. I can stand up to myself.
Thank you, Sxy.
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Oh, stop. I have some vision problems most of my life, but do I go on and complain about it? Nothing's gonna change about it. I'm fine with what I am having.
 
Hey SIS, I hope you are okay by now and here's hugz from us (Mikel & Tiffany). Don't let things bothering you that much but gladly that you were venting your frustration and all that out on this AD forum today. Take easy will ya? Spicy And also, Flammer will take care of you once you both living together in the future. So, just be happy ok! :hug:
 
why are you bashing me for? what is wrong? what did I say that is wrong?

What?

Why can't I have an opinion?

Is this the free country?

Leave me alone. I can post anywhere I want to.
Stop telling me what to do.
 
Deafilmedia said:
why are you bashing me for? what is wrong? what did I say that is wrong?

What?

Why can't I have an opinion?

Is this the free country?

Leave me alone. I can post anywhere I want to.
Stop telling me what to do.
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Well, this is Spicy's thread. Let's respect. Ok ? You don't need to tease when she is in an emotional state.
 
spicygirl143 said:
Yes, I sometimes guts out, MOST I cant! do it.... I kept my FOUGHT! and FOUGHT and here I go I G A V E I T U P! allright!? I really dont care as if mods to see this!!! I feel that I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO D U M B! person FYI I am not that smart! Period! I am tired!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I want let it go! *crying so hard*
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I think it is good to write it all sometimes. And no apology needed - everyone gets mad sometimes and needs to express negative feelings. Sorry life is so hard now for you - hopefully it will get easier. :hug:
 
Kaitin said:
I think it is good to write it all sometimes. And no apology needed - everyone gets mad sometimes and needs to express negative feelings. Sorry life is so hard now for you - hopefully it will get easier. :hug:
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Its ok----- *sighs* my thread looks so BAD.... wow I was like wow I was very pissed..... eek! oh well... once I am calm down I will be okay.....
 
spicygirl143 said:
I am just being very sentive I am sorry.. GOSh why I said "sorry" many times I must STOP that!! I must accept that!!

I am still very emarrassing....
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I missed this post before.

I need to stop with "sorry" too. :D. No need for embarassment - everyone gets mad, blows off, has bad days sometimes.
 
Deafilmedia said:
YAY!!!!

If Spicy is happy, I am HAPPY...

I wish Alex and Mods would open up Christians' thread, hope that we all behave. And let everybody help each other and give opinion without
any arguement. :fingersx:
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I don't think it would happen anytime soon and please stick to Spicy's topic.
 
Kaitin said:
I missed this post before.

I need to stop with "sorry" too. :D. No need for embarassment - everyone gets mad, blows off, has bad days sometimes.
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Yeah, that's right - everyone has these sometimes. I do sometimes.
 
Roadrunner said:
First off Spicy, there's no reason for deleting your thread or banning you, you simply have a sensitive vent. Ok? :)

Sure, sometimes, the thoughts or what others may say or think can bring one down real quick, however, feed your mind 'good, positive things' about 'you' and you'll get through it. If there is indeed someone or others suggesting some things about you that isn't true, either disregard them or surely, they may not be worth your time being friends with. ;)

Whatever it is that making you feel miserable and angry, I do hope that you'll once again jump on clouds, feel light and happy, happy for who you are, and not discouraged on the account of what others may think or say of you...by the way, isn't it a good time now as any, to head to the beach...sit back, twirl sand between your toes, watch a sunset or sunrise, breath in rhythm to each wave coming in....very relaxing, wouldn't it?

In the meantime, do hang in there and hopefully things will indeed get much better for you real soon! :)




~RR
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Listen to Roadrunner and that is a good advise to think happy thoughts and try to think positive thoughts, too. I noticed that there is several threads in the past few weeks ago about bashing or talking behind someone's back about whining or complaining. They were not a nice comments to talk about some member's problem. I can understand your frustration and angry about what is happening to you when someone make the comments about you. Just ignore and keep on doing what you want to say on the forum. You have a right to vent your anger. Right now you need to cool off and just think postitive thoughts and try to take Roadrunner's advise like taking in going to the beach or just breath in and exhale out several times to make you feel better and just let it go at that. You should not worry about what other people think of you. :gossip:> That is what they are doing in the old forums and they are just human people who are not thinking right. So forgive them for what they are doing. :wave:
 
Bebonang said:
Listen to Roadrunner and that is a good advise to think happy thoughts and try to think positive thoughts, too. I noticed that there is several threads in the past few weeks ago about bashing or talking behind someone's back about whining or complaining. They were not a nice comments to talk about some member's problem. I can understand your frustration and angry about what is happening to you when someone make the comments about you. Just ignore and keep on doing what you want to say on the forum. You have a right to vent your anger. Right now you need to cool off and just think postitive thoughts and try to take Roadrunner's advise like taking in going to the beach or just breath in and exhale out several times to make you feel better and just let it go at that. You should not worry about what other people think of you. :gossip:> That is what they are doing in the old forums and they are just human people who are not thinking right. So forgive them for what they are doing. :wave:
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Yes, I hear ya.... I do listen to RR what he has to explain, yes, he was right....I am looking forwarding to the exciting time next week... I didnt want to ruin the surprise. :) I am going to be postive everything will be okay.......

Ya know what? I wish I have a car to driving to beach its very close to my home it probably around 20-30 mins away it nice at Bodega Bay its northern. :) I used to ride with my close friend to the beach almost all the times was fun..... uh actually I missed that! hee hee. :hug:
 
jclarke said:
I don't think it would happen anytime soon and please stick to Spicy's topic.
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Hey Jclarke, thank you... I am very much appericated.... I had a bad day all week last week and few days, but hey I am OKAY ... in real life I dont do like that..... smile.... When I read all of my um thread and I said to myself... oh no I made it wrose so I need to calm down think twice before I do that on here.... I didnt want to look so bad ya know? :) I do love my friends, my fiancee.. EVERYBODY! hee hee.

Again thank you for trying to help out here. :hug:
 
First of all is Good Venting :thumb::hug:

I am glad that you feel much better after scream out of your chest... Did you know it's good health for you to do that...? If yes, then please don't feel embarrassed... You are not the only one...

You should feel good yourself and think *F@@K ignorants* and know your fiancee love you as the same as you love her which is mainly matter...

You can vent often whatever you like... We are here for you...
 
WhiteWolves64 said:
Hey SIS, I hope you are okay by now and here's hugz from us (Mikel & Tiffany). Don't let things bothering you that much but gladly that you were venting your frustration and all that out on this AD forum today. Take easy will ya? Spicy And also, Flammer will take care of you once you both living together in the future. So, just be happy ok! :hug:
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Hey hey Bro & Sis. Wow I didnt realized that IS YOU both I was like :jaw: that is you?????? *gasp* oh dear why am I doing that? Oh well that is how I am REAL feeling I assume.. but! I need to be very careful it can be RUIN ya know? :) Anyway I am much appericated that..... Wow everyone is my good people to help eachothers that what we need!
 
Liebling:-))) said:
First of all is Good Venting :thumb::hug:

I am glad that you feel much better after scream out of your chest... Did you know it's good health for you to do that...? If yes, then please don't feel embarrassed... You are not the only one...

You should feel good yourself and think *F@@K ignorants* and know your fiancee love you as the same as you love her which is mainly matter...

You can vent often whatever you like... We are here for you...
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:giggle: I know! but I looked at my thread what I wrote I went like oh ....... that was bad..... I guess that that I am so honest! No BS.... haha.

Yes, my fiancee does love me so do I! :) and love my friends like you!! ;)
 
Cheri said:
Aw Spicy-chicken-wings :hug:

I have no idea what's going on, but all I can give you right now is my support, comfort and hugs. You know sometimes bad things can happened to good people, those who are mostly honest. It's an emotional agenda. Each human being have independent moral choice, we have the ability to choose to let those who do harm effects us, or ignored those who've done harm.

Supposedly someone asked you a question and that person want a honest answer, You have a choice to answer that question and you also have a choice not to. If you chosen to answer the question honestly, that person cannot be mad about your answer, because that person wants a honest answer, You gave your answer the best way you know how in honestly.

I wouldn't worried too much about what other people thinks,.. If you are proud of who you are, that should be the most important. ;)

Whatever you did, don't matter to me. I got a mind of my own, so for what I know about you, I think you're an awesome and honest person. I rather to have a honest friend than a person that lies. ;)
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Hey Cherisexywings! LMAO so sorry! I love to give you a hard time. Anyway---- Yes, look I just need a "scream out" I am doing better than yesterday morning... Thank you. Sweetie. :)
 
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