Soto Zen Buddhist. If you consider yourself a noun, a thing that the world happens to, a wind-up toy so to speak that was made and will eventually break, then maybe you should be concerned (or not) about those choices. If you consider yourself a verb, an action, an identifiable pattern of behavior with no fixed identity, ever changing (rebirth)and therefore inseparable from all around you as it is right this moment as formed by past actions (karma) well then...try on the thought and see how it fits. See where it takes you. Observe your body and mind and see if you can find a permanent self. Honest inquiry both by physics and millions of people spending decades over 2500 years have come to the conclusion of impermanence.