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JeepGirl :)

ach, come!!! forget about discussion for foreign language! okay :hug:
 
JeepGirl said:
lieb and sunshinelady, I apologize for going off topic.


I guess I have a story I could talk about. some of the members already know, some don't. so I can explain some.

Back in December (2007), I had an accident that was fatal. I was driving alone to drop off my daughter's clothes at her friends house. I decided that I was going to go visit a friend of mine since my husband was working night and I didn't want to stay home on a Friday night doing nothing. It was around 5:15pm, already dark, there was an suv in front of me and a truck behind me. I noticed that the suv in front swerved alittle like the driver was trying to avoid. I was so focused on why the driver swerved and all of the sudden, a lady came out of nowhere and walked right in front of me and I hit her. I slammed on my brakes and stopped. I froze for a minute and realized it was a human being that I hit. I jumped out of my jeep and ran to her to see if she was breathing. She was killed instantly. I went insane and panicked. the suv in front of me stopped and got out and comfort me. There was a bunch of them around me and I kept telling them i can't understand anybody in the dark so i called my friend to come and be with me. He came and helped me. He called my husband and my husband came. He also called for the interpreter to come as well. I honestly don't remember what was said during that time. I asked my husband what did the state trooper say about the accident. He said the lady's family was at the roadside just talking and laughing (having a conversation) and I was like.. laughing???? It was unbelievable to see they actually stood there like nothing happened. The lady's family told the State Trooper that the lady had been trying to kill herself for a long time and found a way. I said that's not funny! It pretty much screwed me up for a while. I felt for the lady no matter what the circumstances were. She died in front of me especially coming from me.

as the weeks went by, I got a report from the State saying she committed suicide and that even hurt me worse. I refused to drive, refused to be close to someone that I could lose again. It was horrible.

now today, I'm doing much better, driving again, got my jeep fixed (it was pretty banged up on the front and hood). There's not a day that goes by that I don't think about her. she's always in my mind. I get flashbacks for what happened. Its gonna stick with me for as long as I live but I learned to forgive myself.


I've mentioned some of this in the Grieving thread but its closed. So if you have read my story before, I'm sorry to repeat.
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JeepGirl,
That's okay if you did repeat.. as long you breath your chest out of emotions stage. How much you felt about her. That's okay. I assume She is forgiven you what you did hit her but she asked for it. I know not fun! I do not understand why her family stated that she seeking for committed suicide. They were laughing. That stupid! Just Human being. Not your fault.. Just happen and came so quick human in way middle nowhere on the road.

I would love to give you fully hugs.. As long you're on the way recovery which that great start..
*hugs*
 
Liebling:-))) said:
I'm glad that your mother is okay... but wow, they got a new car for your mother as a replacement... wow :eek3: How lucky your mother is...
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Thanks. Yep, she is very lucky. Right now, she is fully healthy and can walk with her own cane. But she went to hospital for fix her left ankle a little and she will be healed again within two weeks. So, she used her scoller and it's now almost passed two weeks. Well, I don't know when she will able to walk again with her cane.

That's pretty good news, still. :):)
 
GalaxyAngel said:
JeepGirl,
That's okay if you did repeat.. as long you breath your chest out of emotions stage. How much you felt about her. That's okay. I assume She is forgiven you what you did hit her but she asked for it. I know not fun! I do not understand why her family stated that she seeking for committed suicide. They were laughing. That stupid! Just Human being. Not your fault.. Just happen and came so quick human in way middle nowhere on the road.

I would love to give you fully hugs.. As long you're on the way recovery which that great start..
*hugs*
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aww hugs!

I can see you and others have had some close calls too. It is pretty scary too. got to be thankful that everyone is okay! especially your kids are safe, GA.
 
GA - your freak accident reminds me of a NEARLY freak accident about two years ago but here is the story.


It was one morning in 2006, My friend from uni was picking me up to drive us to uni, up north (There is about 3 campuses) -- my friend was driving on the highway up north in my capital city. There was a white van in front of us, the van has a roof rack with metal stuff on top. The freak moment was, when my friend was about to change lane, which he did, and we saw the white van which was in front of us, a 1 meter long metal rod came flying off from the roof rack of the white van < -- do you know what would happen if we stick to the same road? Either one of us would be instantly killed if it struck into the front windscreen. My friend pulled over because it got him scared.
 
horselover61 said:
I dont mind anyone post in a different langauge cuz I do enjoy and try to learn their language and culture.

My cousin used to married a man from Germany and now divorced. She have been living there for over 8 yrs. So my deceased uncle love to visit Germany. I have learn about 4 or 5 words of german and it was fun. I want to learn more. During my uncle's funeral, my cousin sing a song in german word and it was so beautiful. I may not understand the word but it was like transtulated into english in my heart. It was so beautiful to remmy him that he went to Germany knowing that he is a big fan of Germany.
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GalaxyAngel´s post.
foreign Languages isn't related this thread.. If anyone want foreign languages.. create new thread.. why not?
Sharing everyone enjoy speak foreign languages would be fun..

Related this topic about unbelievable... So talk about tragics accident or others..
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awwww cute... :hug::D

Enjoy...

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@ Puyo - wow, what your roommate did is unbelievable!!!!!!!!! :eek3:

@ JeepGirl - Apology acceptance. :)

Your story got me goose bump and can image how you feel. :hug: I know it got you nightmare when you see a lady front of you. Yes, I agree that it´s not funny. I cannot beleive that they laughed? I thought they would feel BAD and try to save her from kill herself... but they doesn´t... *shake my head*

Did your or family of lady´s insurance cover the cost of your damage Jeep?

@ Jake, wow... it´s goose bump...
 
Liebling:-))) said:
@ Puyo - wow, what your roommate did is unbelievable!!!!!!!!! :eek3:

@ JeepGirl - Apology acceptance. :)

Your story got me goose bump and can image how you feel. :hug: I know it got you nightmare when you see a lady front of you. Yes, I agree that it´s not funny. I cannot beleive that they laughed? I thought they would feel BAD and try to save her from kill herself... but they doesn´t... *shake my head*

Did your or family of lady´s insurance cover the cost of your damage Jeep?

@ Jake, wow... it´s goose bump...
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my insurance paid for it, i had a full coverage on it. I had nightmares for a while but now its blocked I think. I think about her everyday when I'm alone and thinking so maybe that's why I can't dream about her. The family are all in a mental state where they can't take care of themselves. Its sad. I used to live in that community and so I got words from church, neighbors, and my work. I just feel so bad. Regardless they are poor and mentally distraught with their lives, I'm not going to sue or hurt them more. I've suffered enough and its time for me to move on and find peace.
 
authentic said:
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My Russian friend is here... I asked him to translate for me what you wrote... Now I know what you wrote... :giggle:

I know what you wrote under your avator... Deaf Agent CIA... :whistle:
 
Sunshinelady said:
*freu freu freu* Liebling, Du hast wirklich eine schweinglueck! :hug:
Ich ueberrasche mich, dass Du mit deinem Sohn zur Fitnessstudio gehst. Das finde ich ja toll. Meistens den Sohn will nicht mit der Mama zur Fitnessstudio gehen. hehe!!!

Aber andersmal Du passt auf gut auf, sonst Ich mache mir grosse Sorge um Dich. :)
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For some reason reading that makes me want to reach out and slap someone.
Es lebe Deutschland!
 
In an on-topic post; I had a very bad day at work and I was backing out of the parking space only to back straight into a little green geo metro car that I never saw. This was in my new truck. I felt awful as the driver was still in it! I got out and I was more concerned about the driver than her car and she was more concerned about her car than herself. We got out looked at the damage and she was like - Go home babe, you look like you've had a shitty day. Go home and forget about it.

I was like OMG, but I was nervous the next few days though as I did not want it to come back and haunt me. But all was well so now Im like wow, that lady was WAY nice!

I left a small dent and scratch in her vehicle and there was no damage to mine.
 
I have wtinessed two minor accidents in front of me, few weeks ago. Idoits.
 
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