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I am curious if you have your cousins or sisters or brothers being act like bossy, B***h, snob, etc over you?

My 2nd sister oh yeah too bossy, snob over which turn me off and I call her shut up and pffft and *scoffs!!* lol. She is 25 yrs old and I am older than her which I am the oldest sister :).

I tried to get along with her but still didnt get along with her for long time in 25 yrs with her oh boy! lol my mom told me just ingore her and my mom said " She is fucking snob!! so just ingore her" and I was OoOoOo :shock: with laugh then said ok wow :lol: I am along with my other 2 sisters than my 2nd sister which I dunno why :lol:

I have 2 sisters which didnt fight with them nah I do love my 2 sisters and of course my 2nd sister too but blah blah lol :lol:


If you don't want to said then that is ok I just understand :)
 
Not anymore, I'm closer now with all my sisters, because after a long talk with them about how I feel and about how they feel, we worked it out beautifully and we are closer now than ever. We've decide to never judge each others just support each others whatever we do, and whatever makes us happy. ;)
 
not me
i am close to my older sister and my younger brother now

they don't live at home anymore they move out gotten married i was in both weddings
now have their own families i love my sister's husband and my brother's wife
and their children
 
Not anymore. We're adults now, and we sorta grew out of the "I hate you, I hate you, too!" mentality. However, when we were teenagers, totally different story. There was quite a few years when we absolutely couldn't stand each other, and I was the snob and she was the b*tch, or vice versa.

Time passes, though, and most of the time brothers and sisters resolve their differences.
 
I wouldn't say my sister is bossy, but she sure can be a bitch.
 
I ENVY YOU ALL, I AM AN ONLY CHILD AND WHEN I HAD MY THREE KIDS, I THOUGHT IT WAS ABNORMAL FOR THEM TO BE SQUABBLING OVER EVERYTHING. I LEARNED ALOT FROM THEM. :hyper:
 
We get along when we were young but squabbling over stupid thngs.. thats normal.. but now one of my sister .. shes a bitch.. yeah.. always cussing and yell at me and my mom.. bitching about everything.. she have bioplar disorder and shes on drugs, too.. go figures.. sigh..
 
Oh well... My three sisters and I was snob and bitch at each other but we got along fine right now. BUT, one of my sisters, she's not in my family's life anymore, I do keep in touch with her sometime. Because she have bipolar depression plus was in the jail for many reasons but right now, she is improving, have two kids but isn't married plus she have a job and have a place to live under of the roof right now, I'm proud of her but I cannot trust her. Because she put A HUGE HURT on my dad that's why my dad removed her in his life which it's very rude I ever heard what she said to my dad(she's my dad's daugther). But, that's alright since I do love her and do talk to her sometime. That's life, I love my family with my own heart. Plus I do get along fine with my two brothers, I used to be bossy on my young brother :Oops: but right now, I felt like that I'm a little sister to my brother since he's only 18 years old and 6'2" tall, yikes! :lol: I love whole of my sisters and brothers ;)
 
ohh me and my bro outgrew that stage at 12 yrs old, we fight alot when we were little, and include physical fight. but when i was 12, we outgrew it.. sometime we have our arguement but not often..
 
Wow I read whole this thread. some of them get along and some not get along but still love them :)


my 2nd sister seem almost bossy around in my family that I see that make me like said oh geez!! I dont understand why she do that so I just let her go till she get make a reazlied.

Few months ago my mom came in my home and I told her please no smoke in my house then my 2nd sister was bossy on me and I yelled at her SHUT UP!!!! then she put her face like :shock: then my mom telling me " hey ! dont do that" then when my sister leave and I told my mom I dont like that when she bossy on me and my mom said yeah I know all she is trying to make me and my sister to stop fights. But I love my sister :) she give me nice gifts from xmas and birthday yeah :)

umm I would like what is bipolar depression and bioplar disorder ?? that make me hmmm that I think that mean really very angry and throw things ? cause I see on tv that the guy was make messy in the hotel.
 
DeafMonkey said:
Wow I read whole this thread. some of them get along and some not get along but still love them :)


my 2nd sister seem almost bossy around in my family that I see that make me like said oh geez!! I dont understand why she do that so I just let her go till she get make a reazlied.

Few months ago my mom came in my home and I told her please no smoke in my house then my 2nd sister was bossy on me and I yelled at her SHUT UP!!!! then she put her face like :shock: then my mom telling me " hey ! dont do that" then when my sister leave and I told my mom I dont like that when she bossy on me and my mom said yeah I know all she is trying to make me and my sister to stop fights. But I love my sister :) she give me nice gifts from xmas and birthday yeah :)

umm I would like what is bipolar depression and bioplar disorder ?? that make me hmmm that I think that mean really very angry and throw things ? cause I see on tv that the guy was make messy in the hotel.
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bipolar disorder is a disorder that a person's mood will be up and down, it can go up to hyper and out of control or it can go down to major depression include suicide and self harm..

I know about them because i have it.. it sucks really, but i have to live with it. As long as i am medicated, i am ok, but sometime wll have strange moods even with meds..
 
Not anymore, we grew up and realize that we're sisters and nothing will changes that, now we're closer than ever and I like the way things are going with us girls...
 
darkangel8603 said:
bipolar disorder is a disorder that a person's mood will be up and down, it can go up to hyper and out of control or it can go down to major depression include suicide and self harm..

I know about them because i have it.. it sucks really, but i have to live with it. As long as i am medicated, i am ok, but sometime wll have strange moods even with meds..
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yes, i have bipolar disorder too. to clarify some more, here's what the NIMH has to say about bipolar disorder....

What Are the Symptoms of Bipolar Disorder?

Bipolar disorder causes dramatic mood swings—from overly "high" and/or irritable to sad and hopeless, and then back again, often with periods of normal mood in between. Severe changes in energy and behavior go along with these changes in mood. The periods of highs and lows are called episodes of mania and depression.

Signs and symptoms of mania (or a manic episode) include:
Increased energy, activity, and restlessness
Excessively "high," overly good, euphoric mood
Extreme irritability
Racing thoughts and talking very fast, jumping from one idea to another
Distractibility, can't concentrate well
Little sleep needed
Unrealistic beliefs in one's abilities and powers
Poor judgment
Spending sprees
A lasting period of behavior that is different from usual
Increased sexual drive
Abuse of drugs, particularly cocaine, alcohol, and sleeping medications
Provocative, intrusive, or aggressive behavior
Denial that anything is wrong

A manic episode is diagnosed if elevated mood occurs with three or more of the other symptoms most of the day, nearly every day, for 1 week or longer. If the mood is irritable, four additional symptoms must be present.

Signs and symptoms of depression (or a depressive episode) include:
Lasting sad, anxious, or empty mood
Feelings of hopelessness or pessimism
Feelings of guilt, worthlessness, or helplessness
Loss of interest or pleasure in activities once enjoyed, including sex
Decreased energy, a feeling of fatigue or of being "slowed down"
Difficulty concentrating, remembering, making decisions
Restlessness or irritability
Sleeping too much, or can't sleep
Change in appetite and/or unintended weight loss or gain
Chronic pain or other persistent bodily symptoms that are not caused by physical illness or injury
Thoughts of death or suicide, or suicide attempts

A depressive episode is diagnosed if five or more of these symptoms last most of the day, nearly every day, for a period of 2 weeks or longer.

and deafmonkey, to answer your question, my brother and i get along quite well. we're quite close, but not THAT close, since he lives in florida so we rarely talk :(. have you tried talking to your siblings? sometimes it's easier to write them a letter. they should realize that families are PRECIOUS.
 
suicide girl.. u have bipolar? how long ago have u been diagnosed? do u take meds for it?
 
darkangel8603 said:
suicide girl.. u have bipolar? how long ago have u been diagnosed? do u take meds for it?
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yes i do :). i was diagnosed last july, but i suspect i've had it since i was a child, because i remember experiencing horrible bouts of unbearable guilt and sadness. i used to take ablilfy and zoloft for my illness, but i stopped immediately when i found out that i was pregnant.

i don't want to hjiack deafmonkey's thread, so if you've got any more questions or want to talk, feel free to pm me :)
 
You bet!

I have a sister who is probably the worse bitch I've ever had to put up with in my life!

She constantly degrades me with my deafness. When I'm eating, she complains that I eat too loud. Even with other people sitting around, she goes... "Gosh! You eat too loud! Shut up!" The others look at her weird and say, "Umm... he's eating just fine. I don't hear him making noises." Whenever I'm standing around, she will tell me to get out of her way. Whenever my deaf friends visit, she goes something like... "Hey, your duh deaf friends are here!" If I miss what she says, she goes... "Jeez... you retard!" and walks away. :roll:
 
VamPyroX said:
You bet!

I have a sister who is probably the worse bitch I've ever had to put up with in my life!

She constantly degrades me with my deafness. When I'm eating, she complains that I eat too loud. Even with other people sitting around, she goes... "Gosh! You eat too loud! Shut up!" The others look at her weird and say, "Umm... he's eating just fine. I don't hear him making noises." Whenever I'm standing around, she will tell me to get out of her way. Whenever my deaf friends visit, she goes something like... "Hey, your duh deaf friends are here!" If I miss what she says, she goes... "Jeez... you retard!" and walks away. :roll:
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ohhh same like my sister said that to me when I am eating and she telling me to said " close your mouth!!! that sound like cow!" then I said ok happy now I close ?? when I was teenger arghh :lol: and also when I have bad cold that cant breath when I close my mouth to chew it so I have to open mouth to keep breath out and she telling me " mouth your mouth!!" I told her shut up!! I cant breath that my nose was block when I had bad cold" then she got shut up :lol:
 
VamPyroX said:
You bet!

I have a sister who is probably the worse bitch I've ever had to put up with in my life!

She constantly degrades me with my deafness. When I'm eating, she complains that I eat too loud. Even with other people sitting around, she goes... "Gosh! You eat too loud! Shut up!" The others look at her weird and say, "Umm... he's eating just fine. I don't hear him making noises." Whenever I'm standing around, she will tell me to get out of her way. Whenever my deaf friends visit, she goes something like... "Hey, your duh deaf friends are here!" If I miss what she says, she goes... "Jeez... you retard!" and walks away. :roll:
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i have to ask you something- did you parents devote more attention to you because of your deafness? if so, it's possible that your sister resents you for that. otherwise, she sounds like she's ashamed of your deafness.
 
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