The 91-Year-Old Woman Selling Suicide Kits

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NEW YORK – A shadowy online company selling suicide kits recently claimed its first confirmed victim. Winston Ross talks exclusively with the entrepreneur behind it: a grieving 91-year-old woman.

The paramedics who showed up to Nick Klonoski’s house on Highland Drive four months ago discovered the 29-year-old’s lifeless body, covered up to the neck by a blanket. It was his brother Jake, detectives learned, who’d found Nick lying in his bed less than an hour beforehand, a clear plastic bag over his head, and a plastic tube running from the bag to an orange metal helium tank. Next to the tank was a white box, decorated with a butterfly, the box the plastic bag and tube had arrived in the mail in, with a book titled Final Exit inside.

“Is it the book and the kit?” asked the first police officers to arrive on the scene. The paramedics nodded knowingly. “Yep.”

These materials were assembled and sold to Klonoski last June for $60 by a company that calls itself the Gladd Group, which is not really a group at all. It’s a woman from the San Diego suburb of La Mesa, California, named Sharlotte Hydorn. She is 91 years old.

Each of the kits Hydorn assembles by hand is a simple contraption designed for a single purpose: people kill themselves with it by encasing their head in a bag of helium, which is lethal in pure form. People like Klonoski, the son of a U.S. district judge and whose funeral was attended by more than a thousand people. The Gladd Group’s estimated annual sales are $98,000. That means Sharlotte Hydorn sells more than 1,600 suicide kits every year.

“I’m too busy to cash the bloody checks,” she told The Daily Beast. “I haven’t made a deposit in three months.”

You have probably never heard of the helium-hood kit. Neither had Oregon State Sen. Floyd Prozanski, until he read a newspaper story published last month about Klonoski’s death. The horrified legislator quickly floated a bill to make it a Class C felony to sell such a kit. The first to testify at his April 11 hearing was one of Klonoski’s four brothers, Zach. Zach told the state senate judiciary panel that “my brother Nick was a beautiful person...It would be a disservice to him to remember him only for the way he died.”

Zach didn’t discuss his brother’s reasons for killing himself, but Nick’s mother, U.S. District Court Judge Ann Aiken, told police he’d been running every day and had been in an upbeat mood, despite battling a severe cold over the past several weeks. Klonoski’s brothers told the Eugene Register-Guard that he’d battled bouts of pain and fatigue for years without a diagnosis, that he was depressed about the effect that had on his life, and that he was worried he’d never regain his normal health.


“This is analogous to putting a gun-vending machine next to a depression clinic.”

Klonoski wasn’t terminally ill, so he wouldn’t have qualified for lethal prescriptions provided to eligible Oregonians under the state’s Death With Dignity Act, one of only two states that allow assisted suicide. But he was able to buy Hydorn’s kit on the Internet, to rent a helium tank from nearby Party City for $175, and do the job himself.

This, an emotional Zach testified at the hearing earlier this month, should be illegal.

“In a society where so many people suffer from depression and other mental-health disorders,” Zach said, “this company has found their niche in the market by peddling death. This is analogous to putting a gun-vending machine next to a depression clinic. The Gladd company, so named as to avoid suspicion in case family members happen to sign for or come across the package, made $60 off my brother’s death.”

Though Hydorn admits she did sell Zach’s brother his implement of death, she makes no apology for it. She has a story of her own.

It was 30 years ago, Hydorn said in an exclusive interview with The Daily Beast, that her husband, “a six-foot-four, wonderful, handsome, loving, intelligent man,” was dying of colon cancer. After several operations, the cancer had spread to his brain, and surgeons had cut a hole in his stomach, out of which came his excrement, into a bag.

“It was my duty, and I did it willingly, to empty that thing every three or four hours,” she said. “One time I ran out of bags and went all over town looking for a pharmacy that sold them. Even years after my husband died, I would wake up and say, ‘I’ve got to go get those bags.’ ”

No one should have to go through that, Hydorn said, to die a slow, painful death in a hospital bed. “Death should be with loved ones beside you, holding your hand."

Not long after her husband died, Hydorn met a man named Derek Humphry, a longtime advocate of assisted suicide and founder of the Hemlock Society, which has worked to change laws prohibiting the practice around the country. It was Humphry, in 1992, who penned Final Exit: The Practicalities of Self-Deliverance and Assisted Suicide for the Dying, which effectively serves as a manual for how to kill yourself and which Humphry told The Register-Guard sold 500,000 copies in the first six weeks.

Hydorn includes the book in the helium kits she sells. She joined the Hemlock Society (which has since merged with another group and renamed itself winstonross.wordpress.com.

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Hmmm, Im surprised the kits wasnt caught long time ago. That reminded me of that suicide booth on Futurama.
 
Sosmeone who is intent upon taking their own life will find a way to do it. Period.
 
My mother once remarked it is a shame there are no provisions for the elderly who want to be set adrift on an ice flow with a bottle of vodka. :|
 
My mother once remarked it is a shame there are no provisions for the elderly who want to be set adrift on an ice flow with a bottle of vodka. :|

Exactly why I wanted confirmation on what was believed to be a tragedy.
 
Kervorkian in drag. (I checked to see if he is still alive - he is alive at 83).

I have mixed feeling about sucides. I just can see good points on both sides.
 
If she sells a suicide kit then let her, it is not her fault they killed themselves, it is the person and only the person...thats like saying lets take away ropes, because people hang themselves..(btw helium is not painless and instant to die from, there is a lot of traumatic stages to the body.)
It is not a tragedy because someone kills themselves, nor are they mentally insane, or even depressed for that matter; dont make judgments on an act rather than the situation.
 
I can understand it for the elderly who are facing a terminal illness. Or even the non-elderly, in the same situation.

For a 29 year old who is not terminally ill, I think it's tragic.

A dear friend of mine committed suicide at the age of 18. He had just graduated from h.s., was valedictorian of the class, super-smart, nice guy. Everyone loved him.

His girlfriend had broken up with him a few days earlier. He left a note for his parents saying they had always taught him how to handle success, but he couldn't handle failure (meaning his girlfriend leaving him). He hung himself.

I thought that was tragic, too.
 
I can understand it for the elderly who are facing a terminal illness. Or even the non-elderly, in the same situation.

For a 29 year old who is not terminally ill, I think it's tragic.

A dear friend of mine committed suicide at the age of 18. He had just graduated from h.s., was valedictorian of the class, super-smart, nice guy. Everyone loved him.

His girlfriend had broken up with him a few days earlier. He left a note for his parents saying they had always taught him how to handle success, but he couldn't handle failure (meaning his girlfriend leaving him). He hung himself.

I thought that was tragic, too.
I agree.

Of all the suicides that I've known personally, none were elderly nor had a terminal illness. They left behind family and friends who were traumatized and deeply grieved by their actions. Suicide is a tragedy. :(
 
If she sells a suicide kit then let her, it is not her fault they killed themselves, it is the person and only the person...thats like saying lets take away ropes, because people hang themselves..(btw helium is not painless and instant to die from, there is a lot of traumatic stages to the body.)
It is not a tragedy because someone kills themselves, nor are they mentally insane, or even depressed for that matter; dont make judgments on an act rather than the situation.
That's not a logical comparison. Ropes have other purposes but if someone was mailing out pre-tied nooses to suicidal people, then I'd put that in the same category as the suicide kits.

Yes, it is a tragedy that someone feels death is the only escape from a painful situation.
 
I know a young woman who tried repeatedly to kill herself and failed. She is now doing fine and recovered from the impulse.

If something had been easily available to her that guaranteed success then, she might be dead instead of recovered and enjoying life.
 
I know a young woman who tried repeatedly to kill herself and failed. She is now doing fine and recovered from the impulse.

If something had been easily available to her that guaranteed success then, she might be dead instead of recovered and enjoying life.

well it sounds like your explaining someone who is mentally unstable, in that case i agree, however i have no idea how you fail at killing yourself...100% ways
Carbon monoxide and sleep in your car
drive into anything going over 100 mph
ammonia/bleach
any fatal poison (rid-ex,arsenic,cyanide)
high building

If you REALLY want to kill yourself, you can do it. If you fail that many times, then you are probably crying out for attention or help. Helium is 1/10000 as deadly as so many more things. I am glad to hear that she is "recovered", i dont wish death on anyone. I just dislike when people assume that because 1 person lives life and thinks its perfect does not mean another person is mentally handicapped or worse weak...
 
I can understand it for the elderly who are facing a terminal illness. Or even the non-elderly, in the same situation.

For a 29 year old who is not terminally ill, I think it's tragic.

A dear friend of mine committed suicide at the age of 18. He had just graduated from h.s., was valedictorian of the class, super-smart, nice guy. Everyone loved him.

His girlfriend had broken up with him a few days earlier. He left a note for his parents saying they had always taught him how to handle success, but he couldn't handle failure (meaning his girlfriend leaving him). He hung himself.

I thought that was tragic, too.

A death of any reason in which we perceive potential has been lost is seen as tragic.

However, the young man you refer to made the statement that he took his life because he did not have the skills to live life. Had that been recognized sooner, and measures taken to insure that he had those skills he needed, there is a good chance his suicide could have been avoided.

We don't need to wait until suicide becomes the issue to make sure that our kids are emotionally and mentally healthy. Just because it would appear so on the inside (valedictorian, etc) doesn't make it so on the inside. People need to stop looking at the outside of kids only, and take the time to talk to them and get a little deeper into what is going on with them. Before it is too late.
 
I know a young woman who tried repeatedly to kill herself and failed. She is now doing fine and recovered from the impulse.

If something had been easily available to her that guaranteed success then, she might be dead instead of recovered and enjoying life.

That happens frequently with a specific personality disorder or an uncontrolled psychotic disorder. However, these are not true suicide attempts, but rather a plea to make whatever is going on stop. Someone who is serious about suicide doesn't fail even once, let alone many times over.
 
I agree.

Of all the suicides that I've known personally, none were elderly nor had a terminal illness. They left behind family and friends who were traumatized and deeply grieved by their actions. Suicide is a tragedy. :(

How about a chronic illness? Actually, the majority of suicides are committed by those with a chronic illness during which they have lost all hope of any kind of improvement in their condition. Hopelessness is the key.
 
How about a chronic illness? Actually, the majority of suicides are committed by those with a chronic illness during which they have lost all hope of any kind of improvement in their condition. Hopelessness is the key.

Nick bought the kit last June so he had been thinking about sucide for awhile. Or he had some trouble locating some helium.

he’d battled bouts of pain and fatigue for years without a diagnosis, that he was depressed about the effect that had on his life, and that he was worried he’d never regain his normal health.
 
How about a chronic illness? Actually, the majority of suicides are committed by those with a chronic illness during which they have lost all hope of any kind of improvement in their condition. Hopelessness is the key.
The ones who I knew had no chronic illnesses.

On the other hand, I do know people with chronic and terminal illnesses, and they don't consider suicide as an option.
 
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