Someone made a huge accusation against me

katz4life said:
Never heard of Deaf Hideout...
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we closed awhile ago. facebook became such a popular fad no one posted on DH, only facebook. now many miss the privacy of DH....
 
Jiro, ever heard of Michael Bunjer? He's on Facebook....if you read his posts.........he's the champ for his notorious posting rants daily against hearing audists and speaking up of deaf politics.
 
Look, I know this is a hard time for you, but you have to think logically. When you insult people they get mad, give this some time and it will blow over. In the mean time, keep your opinion to yourself, you've said enough to your family. Your opinion is duely noted.
 
VacationGuy234 said:
Look, I know this is a hard time for you, but you have to think logically. When you insult people they get mad, give this some time and it will blow over. In the mean time, keep your opinion to yourself, you've said enough to your family. Your opinion is duely noted.
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Yeah, like it is my rights to express anything i wish to make a comment as long as it is not about her and her husband and she also has rights to make a comment as she wishes...and some of her status posts turned me off yes and I kept it to myself. And she doesn't? That's just dumb and unfair.
 
katz4life said:
Wait a minute, you may have mistaken me for someone else - different DM/DS member.

I am not Brit, F, tigress, butterflygirl whatever her username was, WildLime....
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Oh, boy.. my name is .... :shock:
 
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Oh? I thought it is just username. I just edited but how can I delete it in the quote boxes? Argh.
 
I just found that bar by me that offers free popcorn closed so no popcorn for me. Continue, please. This is fun!!!
 
Oddball said:
Oh, boy.. my name is .... :shock:
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you are having a
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edit your name out of the quote box!

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lol Katz. You're a very outspoken person. Perhaps a little too outspoken :lol:

You've realized a negative impact of your outspoken personality by posting your thought about hearing people in FB for a while. And another thing- try to not "gossip" around by mentioning a lot of names in public and what you heard. You do tend to do that a lot. It's just not a very desirable trait in personality for many people because it makes them not trust you or hang out with you. You're a cool gal but as long as you keep that in check, you're doubly cool :cool2:

BTW- perhaps I might see you at AC this weekend??? Not sure if I'm going cuz I wanna ski more lol!
 
katz4life said:
Jiro, ever heard of Michael Bunjer? He's on Facebook....if you read his posts.........he's the champ for his notorious posting rants daily against hearing audists and speaking up of deaf politics.
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Yes, many times. Problem is: He doesn't have any real-world, viable, useful solutions. In fact, his hatred makes things worse; so much so that the national leaders steer clear of him or pacify him in some way to try to make him not so large a Web presence. :lol:
 
Tousi said:
Yes, many times. Problem is: He doesn't have any real-world, viable, useful solutions. In fact, his hatred makes things worse; so much so that the national leaders steer clear of him or pacify him in some way to try to make him not so large a Web presence. :lol:
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I've seen him post on facebook. That is all I know of him.

How do they pacify him to not make him as large of a presence???
 
dereksbicycles said:
I've seen him post on facebook. That is all I know of him.

How do they pacify him to not make him as large of a presence???
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I don't know if they are succeeding but they just give him brief non-essential answers. A few outright tell him how it is and for him to tone it down. I haven't seen him for a while. I think he means well but he just doesn't have the wherewithal.....and that's all I'll say about that.
 
katz4life said:
Yeah, like it is my rights to express anything i wish to make a comment as long as it is not about her and her husband and she also has rights to make a comment as she wishes...and some of her status posts turned me off yes and I kept it to myself. And she doesn't? That's just dumb and unfair.
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Katz, you would be surprised at the level of restraint most people have in families. Most of the time, they want to kill each other.

You can be expressive and still be tactful. Take what you said and rearrange it, write it down and replace the word hearing with the word deaf. If what you have written hurts your feelings, you shouldn't be saying things in that way.

Most people put their foot in their mouths on a daily basis so if anyone can do it every other day they are ahead of the game.
 
Jiro said:
lol Katz. You're a very outspoken person. Perhaps a little too outspoken :lol:

You've realized a negative impact of your outspoken personality by posting your thought about hearing people in FB for a while. And another thing- try to not "gossip" around by mentioning a lot of names in public and what you heard. You do tend to do that a lot. It's just not a very desirable trait in personality for many people because it makes them not trust you or hang out with you. You're a cool gal but as long as you keep that in check, you're doubly cool :cool2:

BTW- perhaps I might see you at AC this weekend??? Not sure if I'm going cuz I wanna ski more lol!
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Well, whatever happened to the motto - "Be yourself" "Nobody can change you for who you are what you wished to be". Like it or not. Anyway, no I didn't think anything about AC since I don't play poker. Skiing..ahh I would love to, I hadn't skiing in ages. Inbox me about the plan.
 
Update: Yesterday, I have spoke with my mother, my two hearing best friends I told them everything about brother and sis in law what sis in law said to me from these fb statements she had made. I asked my best friend a favor for her help, i gave her the sis in law's phone number. My friend said she would do it to help me and prove it to her that she is for being for real since sis in law didn't believe that I have hearing best friend,still think I don't get along or hang out with them often. She hasn't met any of my friends. So then my friend called me back later late hours and told me what happened and what sis in law's reaction was like. My friend told me when she called her over the phone call last night for the first time and sisd in law answered, my friend introduced herself and told her I'm her friend...she first started to shortly elaborate what she has heard about nasty arguments between me and sis in law over the hearing and deaf issues on Facebook. My friend told me that sis in law's reaction seemed a kind of surprising, something like that she seemed to be half-gulped, sorta like swallowed her throat tone, she kind of mumbled, then she admitted to explain about what was going on and why she blocked me and all that. My friend told her that I tried to send her message trying to sort it out with her. That's why I was afraid to call her things would have gotten more nastier from her by thru vp relay. So...sis in law just expressed to my friend over the phone that she just felt insulted when she saw me using a term 'hearie' on Facebook posts. I was like puzzled to her reaction. I had no clue that she was offended by that term I used? (I will make a new thread after this). My friend told her that she knows me I didnt mean that and she may have misunderstood me because the common habit ways I have on Facebook or whatnot. She told my friend that i can call her anytime to solve the issue with her in a nice way. Thank goodness my partner was not mad at all, I know he does not want to be involved, it is between me and his brother and sis in law. Things seems okay for now on. Well, for now on for her and his brother's goddarn sake I will not use words hearing or hearie but there is another words I can use instead that she may cannot make an argument or rebuttal with me whenever she reads my posts or under my partner's account.
 
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