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Well I see a few post about single people but it goes back to 2007! So if this is ok with the moderates to repost a new one. If so I'll start out with mine



Hi my name is Christopher and I'm looking to find a girl that Is wanting a long term relationship! I'm single myself and was in a 7 yr relationship with a hearing girl but she loss her battle to cancer. It's been a long hard year dealing with the lost of my best friend, my partner, my dream girl, and the most honest and loving girl I've ever met to date. So I've been pretty lonely because I feel guilty moving on even though she would want me too. I know this I must of did something right for us to last that long.

I'd like to meet new friends and possibly a girl I can treat like a princess. I really don't go for the looks since its what's on the inside that really counts. But I do prefer girls that take care of themselves. I live in Saginaw Michigan and am currently still in school to get my bd in computer science programming. I love hanging out with friends and doing things in spur of the moment. I'm considered hard of hearing and were hearing aids. My hearing is moderate or per se boarder lined. I also love animals I have two dogs. I love spending my nights cuddling with my girl and talking about whatever it may be. I don't just try to pick girls up for a piece of ass I respect myself to much to just sleep around this goes for girls as well I respect you too much.

I'm not the best in looks but I will say this I have a big heart and I'm willing to listen and treat you with a great amount of respect. I'm looking for a deaf, hard of hearing,or a hearing female. If anything I said interests you please private message me. I'm going to post a picture but beware lol don't need to scare the girls away. Thanks for reading hope to meet some new girls and guys as friends.


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I'll keep bumping this up for you so that everyone has a chance to read your message.

I'd like to make a suggestion. You're a good-looking guy, so why don't you put a picture of yourself smiling? You look SO serious in the one you posted.
 
Hey Mimsy thanks for the advice and the sweet comment Ill make sure to post a picture of me smiling to show the world I still have all my teeth and they are pearly white lol. I completely agree with you Mimsy too serious here. Its just really hard to start wanting to date I was not single for almost 8 years. I got comfortable so this dating is new for me. Also Mimsy I do want to say thanks for compliment it feels good coming from a beautiful women I know whoever swept you off your feet is a pretty damn lucky guy because your beautiful. Also just from the few post I've read from you says allot about you. You seem to be a genuine person and has a big heart and cares for others. Again thanks if you ever want to just talk or whatever hit me up ok. Thanks
 
Lol I'm sorry if I offended anyone and Mimsy I was probably out of line. Come on guys and gals who's single here? Damn I'm jealous everyone is taken :(
 
Hockeydude77 said:
Lol I'm sorry if I offended anyone and Mimsy I was probably out of line. Come on guys and gals who's single here? Damn I'm jealous everyone is taken :(
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You weren't out of line. I shouldn't have posted on this thread because, even though I'm single, I'm not ready for a boyfriend right now. But I hope lots of singles post so that some good match-making can happen!
 
Hockeydude77 said:
Lol I'm sorry if I offended anyone and Mimsy I was probably out of line. Come on guys and gals who's single here? Damn I'm jealous everyone is taken :(
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No of course not you weren't out of line. Also you didn't offend anyone. I can see you are trying your best to consider of 'looking for someone who is available'. Must remember that, not every women who is available is actually available.

So, if you read my threads about my feelings against women. You may feel a same about this. I have learnt a lot so greatly over past few weeks about relationships/marriages/sex and that. I never felt so confident in my life until this stage.

So, what I have learnt so far:
1. Looking for someone for a date or relationship does not solve your problem. It worsen your emotions because your thinking is well too ahead of this person you dating. It never leads to successful commodity. So, in this point. Relationship is natural phenomena like weather patterns.
2. Wanting a relationship is desperation action. You need confidence of your attitude before relationship begins. Wanting means you are worrying about it, usually scare other people away.
3. Matter of fact it does seem not a big deal for having a relationship/marriage and sex in our life but it is a big deal when comes to generations. This is old fashioned way of lifestyle. Remember, when you are not thinking about old fashioned ways you are likely to face consequences of poor relationship status in the future.
4. About 47% of Australians are married. It seems rather high long time ago, recently declined. The societal change has influenced this number reduction because lot of people are not taking this deal of committed relationship.

Hope you understand this. I am in similar situation as you as well. I am not looking. I wanted to learn things before it happen. Remember, it happens when you are not expecting. Just be out there in the world. There are hundreds of million of people out there in the US! It not hard as you think! Being out there helps your opportunity.

TIP: Never ever go to clubs, casinos, brothels and some sort of parties. It not as good what you think. I rather do travelling, helping communities, environmental awareness lifestyle/sustainability, play sports, go to fitness classes and that. That is better way to meet special.
 
Thanks

mattyinAus thank you and yes I do understand exactly what you mean. What I'm going to do is repost my sort of ad. I'm going to be more confident in what I say. Thanks for the tip.
 
Huskerman22 said:
how to post pic?
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Hey the best way to post a picture is by getting a photobucket acct and upload pictures then in the forum you want to post a image click on photo option and copy the IMG URL and paste it and it should now viewable on the post you just made. Good luck.
 
Mimsy said:
You weren't out of line. I shouldn't have posted on this thread because, even though I'm single, I'm not ready for a boyfriend right now. But I hope lots of singles post so that some good match-making can happen!
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Hey Mimsy no problem and you can post on anything it's ok I still think your a beautiful women and hope things work out for you. I know your not ready for a boyfriend but how about being friends? Maybe I'll win you over, lol I'm kidding I can be a great friend lol! Mimsy if you don't mind me asking what is your status on the hearing thing? Hope to hear from ya if you prefer a private message that's fine too ok thanks

Christopher R
 
I agree with Mimsy!! Dude you had me all scared and cringing scrolling down to where your pic was :D You're a nice looking guy! And you sound very sweet, I'm very sorry for your loss and wish you the best. So post a pic smiling, big big like in my avatar, okay not that big I'm being silly there :giggle:
 
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