I just wanted to tell you about my scary experience that i experience at times. I dont know why it scares me but it does. Sometimes when i go to a huge shopping mall i see my dad who died 4 years ago, the last time i went there i saw him, he had a cigarette(he was a smoker) and i thought he was looking for me and when he got near me i had to run and move away from him because he was a totally resemblance. I have also seen a few people who look like him and it scares me because i do actually think it's him. why?
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deafteen,
This is probably happening because you're grieving for your father. This is a little different from what you've experienced, but I've had occaisions where I think I hear the voices of my mother, father, sister and best friend. Their voices sound so real, but when I hear them and respond, no one answers. That's when I know I'm missing all of them and am hearing their voices because of the grief I'm feeling. My father passed away in 1999, my sister ih 2001, my mother in 2004 and my best friend in 2005 yet I still struggle with this experience from time to time.
This is probably happening because you're grieving for your father. This is a little different from what you've experienced, but I've had occaisions where I think I hear the voices of my mother, father, sister and best friend. Their voices sound so real, but when I hear them and respond, no one answers. That's when I know I'm missing all of them and am hearing their voices because of the grief I'm feeling. My father passed away in 1999, my sister ih 2001, my mother in 2004 and my best friend in 2005 yet I still struggle with this experience from time to time.
I dont think of my father much, but i dream of him quite often, maybe up to 2 times a week maybe its my sub concious that is grieving because i have accepted he has gone and stuff. i know he is at peace and now cancer free