Saudi judge: It's OK to slap spendthrift wives

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(CNN) -- Husbands are allowed to slap their wives if they spend lavishly, a Saudi judge said recently during a seminar on domestic violence, Saudi media reported Sunday.

Arab News, a Saudi English-language daily newspaper based in Riyadh, reported that Judge Hamad Al-Razine said that "if a person gives SR 1,200 [$320] to his wife and she spends 900 riyals [$240] to purchase an abaya [the black cover that women in Saudi Arabia must wear] from a brand shop and if her husband slaps her on the face as a reaction to her action, she deserves that punishment."

Women in the audience immediately and loudly protested Al-Razine's statement, and were shocked to learn the remarks came from a judge, the newspaper reported.

Arab News reported that Al-Razine made his remark as he was attempting to explain why incidents of domestic violence had increased in Saudi Arabia. He said that women and men shared responsibility, but added that "nobody puts even a fraction of blame" on women, the newspaper said.

Al-Razine "also pointed out that women's indecent behavior and use of offensive words against their husbands were some of the reasons for domestic violence in the country," it added.

Domestic violence, which used to be a taboo subject in the conservative kingdom, has become a hot topic in recent years. Groups like the National Family Safety Program have campaigned to educate the public about the problem and help prevent domestic abuse.

Saudi women's rights activist Wajeha Al-Huwaider told CNN that Saudi women routinely face such attitudes.

"This is how men in Saudi Arabia see women," she said in a telephone interview from the Saudi city of Dahran. "It's not something they read in a book or learned from a friend. They've been raised to see women this way, that they're less than a person."

Al-Huwaider added that "I'm not surprised to see a judge or a religious man saying that - they've been raised in the same culture - a culture that tells them it's ok to raise your hand to a woman that this works."

Another Saudi judge, in the city of Onaiza, was the source of a separate recent controversy: he twice denied a request from the mother of an 8-year-old girl that the girl be granted a divorce from her 47-year-old husband.

Last month, after human-groups condemned the union, the girl was granted the divorce.

Saudi judge: It's OK to slap spendthrift wives - CNN.com
 
this is really so fucked up. justice is supposed to be blind, but come on, this is just too extreme.
 
*shrugs* welcome to the middle eastern culture.

Alot of men there dont care about anything but power, greed and control. Women are viewed as their property as they wish to do what they do to them and still get away with it.

Surely I've been slapped in the face before and I HATE IT. I definetly do NOT like being slapped in the face. It would set me off VERY quickly to do something back. That only if the person slapped me more after I gave him/her warning that I do NOT like being slapped in the face. I never slapped anyone in the face either. NEVER. So most people do not like being slapped in the face anyway.

You know the old saying: Treat others the way you want to be treated.

It is a real shame that certain people in the middle east would never learn that way.
 
*shrugs* welcome to the middle eastern culture.

Alot of men there dont care about anything but power, greed and control. Women are viewed as their property as they wish to do what they do to them and still get away with it.

Surely I've been slapped in the face before and I HATE IT. I definetly do NOT like being slapped in the face. It would set me off VERY quickly to do something back. That only if the person slapped me more after I gave him/her warning that I do NOT like being slapped in the face. I never slapped anyone in the face either. NEVER. So most people do not like being slapped in the face anyway.

You know the old saying: Treat others the way you want to be treated.

It is a real shame that certain people in the middle east would never learn that way.

Not all middle east countries are doing like that.

Saudi, Iran, Afghan, Libya and Somalia are worst when come to woman rights.
 
If husbands get to do this legally: :slap:

Then wives ought to be able to do this: :nutkick:

Seems pretty fair, don't you think?
 
If husbands get to do this legally: :slap:

Then wives ought to be able to do this: :nutkick:

Seems pretty fair, don't you think?


:rofl2:


Of course.

What about the husbands that likes to overspend? What kind of punishment do they get?


The women are fighting there, It will be a long battle.
 
If husbands get to do this legally: :slap:

Then wives ought to be able to do this: :nutkick:

Seems pretty fair, don't you think?

I love how the emotions that we are feeling can be expressed so vividly by the emoticons. :lol:

On another note, I found the part of the article about the 8 year old girl not being allowed a divorce from her 47 year old husband the most disturbing out of the entire article. The middle-east is definitely not caught up with the rest of society.
 
If husbands get to do this legally: :slap:

Then wives ought to be able to do this: :nutkick:

Seems pretty fair, don't you think?

Not in Saudi, it's very dangerous place and you could get executed by stoning or punished by flogging.
 
Probably one of other reason why US should attack them? Oh wait, that's western who want to change them.
 
What about the husbands that likes to overspend? What kind of punishment do they get?

If the men there can slap their overspending wives, I say the wives should be able to chop off their overspending husbands' hands, no more slapping.
 
If the men there can slap their overspending wives, I say the wives should be able to chop off their overspending husbands' hands, no more slapping.

You can't do it in Saudi or you will execution by stoning.
 
You can't do it in Saudi or you will execution by stoning.

Be really careful about gross generalisations, Foxrac.

There's the Sharia law and stoning you see on TV and the internet.

Women are considered as property in the Middle East and this is even harder when the Sharia law applies to discipline.
 
Be really careful about gross generalisations, Foxrac.

There's the Sharia law and stoning you see on TV and the internet.

Women are considered as property in the Middle East and this is even harder when the Sharia law applies to discipline.

What are you talking about? It sounds like no kidding.

No need explain because I already have alot of experience about middle east and sharia law.

Not all sharia law is totally tough on women, it would depends in muslim countries, such as Pakistan has sharia law but woman rights is better than Saudi and Iran is no worse than in Saudi either.
 
Not all sharia law is totally tough on women, it would depends in muslim countries, such as Pakistan has sharia law but woman rights is better than Saudi and Iran is no worse than in Saudi either.

You'd have to be kidding me.

Once you are born and raised in a Sharia-law operated country, as a female, you're better off dead as you have no rights at all.

Women constantly live in fear of the Sharia law because there is always a need for justification for every action women do. It doesn't matter what country it is, women will always be struggling for their rights and their own opinions because of the Sharia law.
 
You'd have to be kidding me.

Once you are born and raised in a Sharia-law operated country, as a female, you're better off dead as you have no rights at all.

Women constantly live in fear of the Sharia law because there is always a need for justification for every action women do. It doesn't matter what country it is, women will always be struggling for their rights and their own opinions because of the Sharia law.

No, I wasn't kidding and you need check on between Pakistan and Saudi, they are very different.

I'm not going argue with you about sharia law in muslim countries, not all sharia laws are same in all muslim countries, Saudi and Afghan are far extreme since Iran is more conservative and Pakistan is slightly conservative because hijab isn't required in Pakistan, except if you got caught by Taliban in northwest Pakistan.

Speaking of my experience, if any women whoever disagree with sharia law and some of them are left to other countries that's more open, little or no sharia laws, even if no choice then suicide is final option.
 
that is wrong and here in america we too much freedom and we can do whatever we want but in counteries you why? because their have the right to whip,beat and toture you because it is their law and if their do not follow the law,the huband have the right to kill the wife because she disobey the families.
 
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