racheleggert
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When I posted "Have some probs with my b/f" on welcome back thread...
I and my family was lied by Joe 2 days ago.
When me and my sister was at Cub Food, Jessica who is deafblind like me. She walked into something that she didn't see, somehow we caught Joe laughed at her, tought it was funny and he was being jackass. She do have her guide dog at the left, that what guide dog school says that dogs need to stay on left side (maybe you notice peole with them, dog are usually at left) but the shelve of food was on the right.
I had to yell at him, told him "How will you feel if you're in Jess's shoe, and Jess laugh at you because she can't see that well?" and "If you're full blind, you bump into pillar, and I laugh, how will you feel?" then he says "I did not laugh, I covered my mouth in shock. I was about to ask her if she was OK then you spazed on me. I always cover my mouth in shock. I did not laugh at her" then he called my mom to tattle on us because we were mad at him.... what :bsflag: I even gestured to him "she can't see, hands around eye, as it like tunnel vision. We told him to stop laugh but he lied to us.. so later on at home, My mom asked us both, did Joe told you that we need get her ciggies? we said no, then My mom told us that she DID asked her to as us- so Joe didn't told us, other lie, but my mom got on my and Jess's side, so she had to confront him, made him apologize to us.
Also at the boowling, he asked Jessica stupid question about a deaf man who have one eye and one ear..
Joe: "Great games, what happened to man with one ear and eye, he looks like a veteran of war"
Jessica: "Deaf can't be in war"
Joe: "I tought maybe he lost hearing in a war maybe, do you know his name so I can say hi next time?"
Jessica: "He went to school with me" (Cooliefroggie may know who he is)
Joe: "well, it's nice to know he has friends that accept him for who he is"
Jessica even won't tell Joe who he is because we don't want Joe to come up and ask him bunches of dumb questions.
Yesterday I found out from a good friend, that knows him well... She told me that he steal money from his mom to owe her... He usually use people for money, and steal money, things.... My youngest brother have over $100 in change in his room, so we have to watch him when he is in the basement. My friend did warned me that he is a compuslive liar, and I had to watch out.. I told her she is right. I even told him he better not lie to my dad or his uncle because they both are cops. Joe have lied to my mom before too, can't remember what it was about.
I even asked her if what Joe said that she invited us to her grandparent for holidays, where her realtive gathers.. She said no, he just walk in without call.. I was so embrassed. I told her that I didn't know and I am very sorry if I came without letting her know. He usually show up at people house without calling before. Sometimes I am busy at home, don't have time for him, he show up... If he do that again, I send him home. He also wandered around in my house, so I had to tell him go sit in living room. I remembered that few months ago He decided to go to his Aunt house at late night, and she told him it is not good time to visit...
He also have poor personal hygeine.. I even can't stand his smelly breath.. I will have to talk with him about this one.. If he come here smell bad, bad breath, I will send him home to shower and changes. Even his old roommate wouldn't touch him. My brother and his friends have stopped going to McDonald's because we know he doesn't wash hands there.. if he is here, I make him do that after bathroom. My family complain about his hygeine as well.
Joe is very IMMATURE!! He doesn't know how to behave at apporiate time, laugh at inapporiate times, lie too much, lacks manners and not good common sense. He was voted "most gullible" for yearbook during our senior year. I even told him to straighten up or I leave him. I tought I was in love but now, I don't know maybe not anymore...
He also have affected my grades... I didn't study that much because he have been bugging me and distracting me, and I couldn't focus on my schoolwork- I am so pissed off... I hope I don't lost my Student Senate job. Next semester I will tell him to go home if I have homework..
I and my family was lied by Joe 2 days ago.
When me and my sister was at Cub Food, Jessica who is deafblind like me. She walked into something that she didn't see, somehow we caught Joe laughed at her, tought it was funny and he was being jackass. She do have her guide dog at the left, that what guide dog school says that dogs need to stay on left side (maybe you notice peole with them, dog are usually at left) but the shelve of food was on the right.
I had to yell at him, told him "How will you feel if you're in Jess's shoe, and Jess laugh at you because she can't see that well?" and "If you're full blind, you bump into pillar, and I laugh, how will you feel?" then he says "I did not laugh, I covered my mouth in shock. I was about to ask her if she was OK then you spazed on me. I always cover my mouth in shock. I did not laugh at her" then he called my mom to tattle on us because we were mad at him.... what :bsflag: I even gestured to him "she can't see, hands around eye, as it like tunnel vision. We told him to stop laugh but he lied to us.. so later on at home, My mom asked us both, did Joe told you that we need get her ciggies? we said no, then My mom told us that she DID asked her to as us- so Joe didn't told us, other lie, but my mom got on my and Jess's side, so she had to confront him, made him apologize to us.
Also at the boowling, he asked Jessica stupid question about a deaf man who have one eye and one ear..
Joe: "Great games, what happened to man with one ear and eye, he looks like a veteran of war"
Jessica: "Deaf can't be in war"
Joe: "I tought maybe he lost hearing in a war maybe, do you know his name so I can say hi next time?"
Jessica: "He went to school with me" (Cooliefroggie may know who he is)
Joe: "well, it's nice to know he has friends that accept him for who he is"
Jessica even won't tell Joe who he is because we don't want Joe to come up and ask him bunches of dumb questions.
Yesterday I found out from a good friend, that knows him well... She told me that he steal money from his mom to owe her... He usually use people for money, and steal money, things.... My youngest brother have over $100 in change in his room, so we have to watch him when he is in the basement. My friend did warned me that he is a compuslive liar, and I had to watch out.. I told her she is right. I even told him he better not lie to my dad or his uncle because they both are cops. Joe have lied to my mom before too, can't remember what it was about.
I even asked her if what Joe said that she invited us to her grandparent for holidays, where her realtive gathers.. She said no, he just walk in without call.. I was so embrassed. I told her that I didn't know and I am very sorry if I came without letting her know. He usually show up at people house without calling before. Sometimes I am busy at home, don't have time for him, he show up... If he do that again, I send him home. He also wandered around in my house, so I had to tell him go sit in living room. I remembered that few months ago He decided to go to his Aunt house at late night, and she told him it is not good time to visit...
He also have poor personal hygeine.. I even can't stand his smelly breath.. I will have to talk with him about this one.. If he come here smell bad, bad breath, I will send him home to shower and changes. Even his old roommate wouldn't touch him. My brother and his friends have stopped going to McDonald's because we know he doesn't wash hands there.. if he is here, I make him do that after bathroom. My family complain about his hygeine as well.
Joe is very IMMATURE!! He doesn't know how to behave at apporiate time, laugh at inapporiate times, lie too much, lacks manners and not good common sense. He was voted "most gullible" for yearbook during our senior year. I even told him to straighten up or I leave him. I tought I was in love but now, I don't know maybe not anymore...
He also have affected my grades... I didn't study that much because he have been bugging me and distracting me, and I couldn't focus on my schoolwork- I am so pissed off... I hope I don't lost my Student Senate job. Next semester I will tell him to go home if I have homework..
that way who i am winkies
on his's balls off 
damn it's not very nice laughed i m tell you one day he will feel SORRRYYY for hisself's ass (sowwies cuss)
you for standing up and supporting your sister when you found he had laughed at her. Family is a very important thing in one's life, and it's family that will always be there for you through thick and thin. You have such a beautiful family, and to have it chastised by someone who truly doesn't understand someone's disability, or even a simple accident, doesn't deserve your heart Rachel.