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I want to know WHY people have to attack on another people in the threads?

Same like, just happened to me. And I saw some happened that someone attacked another people in their or another people's threads.

Why do it must attack and happen to another people?

Please tell me why and the truth, I would pleasure it.

Honestly, Im fed up with that happened to me and another people who got attack by someone.

Im not going to name anyone's. Just tell us why, opinion and you think the truth.
 
Honestly, it depends on the particular combination of people in each situation.

Not knowing the situations, I'm not going to make any judgments...but it does differ from instance to instance.

Any poster who uses rude language, states their opinion as facts, and so on, is inviting trouble--regardless of whether they're the original poster or not. And so is anybody who can't make the decision to walk away from a person who has done something like that is also inviting trouble.

To me it's all because people cannot tolerate the thought that other, perfectly intelligent people could possibly have arrived at an opposite opinion using all of their brains and hearts. This might imply that their own position isn't as secure as they think. OR that THEY PERSONALLY are not secure in that position even if their logic is just fine. So they react rudely to try to suppress the other opinion.

That's just what I think, anyway.
 
Many of the new attacks{not all} have been going on
for years in other forums and unfortunately they
have decided to bring this crap into alldeaf
 
Sometimes it’s to make a troll aware that their presence is not wanted. Unfortunately, this very rarely works. Instead, it usually just feeds the troll and makes him or her even more prolific. :roll:
 
Sweetheart said:
I want to know WHY people have to attack on another people in the threads?

Same like, just happened to me. And I saw some happened that someone attacked another people in their or another people's threads.

Why do it must attack and happen to another people?

Please tell me why and the truth, I would pleasure it.

Honestly, Im fed up with that happened to me and another people who got attack by someone.

Im not going to name anyone's. Just tell us why, opinion and you think the truth.
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I think there is a fine line in disagreement vs. being malicious.

You can disagree with someone but you don't have to get personal.
I think it's because they choose express themselves in that manner by being so hostile. Involving other people, and being cruel. For those that do it deliberately they do it for the sheer enjoyment of seeing someone else all upset. It makes them feel better about themselves, and by the way... don't forget all the attention it brings. (A LOT).

It takes a big person to walk away. I know it's hard. But, sometimes the only way you can stop a fight is being the ONE to let it DIE. (if they choose to carry on, you can either allow it to affect you or choose to let them reveal their idiotic behaviour ( I don't have any respect for those that do this).

Hugs to you Hun, it sucks ~ I know.
 
bbnt said:
Many of the new attacks{not all} have been going on
for years in other forums and unfortunately they
have decided to bring this crap into alldeaf
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I hope I'm not one of them...
 
I think there is a fine line in disagreement vs. being malicious
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:werd: Also, sometimes the fact of actually doing it with a certain intent to get members pitting against one another which is an act of disruption with nasty proportions/malice.... :squint:
 
It takes a big person to walk away. I know it's hard. But, sometimes the only way you can stop a fight is being the ONE to let it DIE. (if they choose to carry on, you can either allow it to affect you or choose to let them reveal their idiotic behaviour
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:werd: I agree ...
 
They are so angry or jealous so they want to attack someone to make themselves to feel better. Mostly it's angry.

For instance, my old friend doesn't like me and when she heard me saying something that she disagreed with me, it made her more angry so it caused her to attack me like verbals or arguments. It had to do nothing with me because she simply didn't like my opinion. The truth is that she is very angry with her life like her family, herself, for the way she looks like fat, not beautiful or anything like that. Jealousy can hurt yourself and being angry a lot can hurt yourself. I am just making it up a story here.

So what should you do with someone who says so awful to you? You have to let this person go because you would not want to feel angry inside of you.

So, really mostly is angry inside of you so that's why when they heard you saying "no" or "I disagree with you", it can affect this person to be more angry.

Just let them go so you will have more peace and more happy. I don't need people who were very rude, very mean to me because if they continue to be rude, they hurt my feelings. So, I stop contacting them or seeing them. That's for the best. It makes me more happy. Yes, I feel sorry for those people who are so angry. Just pray to God to take care of those people who were very rude to you or attack to you.

Hope it helps!
 
I think from time to time... there will be somebody that comes along with a very strong characater and an aggressive personality like when I first joined AllDeaf..... Remember?

I stood my ground on alots of stuff and then the webmaster Alex and the moderators realized that I had alots to offer on the table and that they have a very strong Deaf character here that calls a spade a spade and that I am not afraid to speak my mind here or anywhere, in real life for that matter.

There are some Deaf people, also hearing people who do happen to have a very strong characater and an aggressive personality. It may take awhile to get to know that person much better.
 
AJ said:
wait....i thought miss P had left AD.....
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Well apparently she hasn't. So :) let's not make ANOTHER ISSUE out
of something.

:grouphug:

:whistle: cause I can see a mile away what is cooking and it's not spam :spam:
 
Heart2Sign said:
Well apparently she hasn't. So :) let's not make ANOTHER ISSUE out
of something.

:grouphug:

:whistle: cause I can see a mile away what is cooking and it's not spam :spam:
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A great post, short 'n sweet and to the point without attacking!
:cheers: Actually, I wanted a better smilie: Like one with clapping hands. Can mods add that one?
 
I understand how you feel Sweetheart, Personal attacks happen to the same people that members have the history with, to be honest nobody likes the abuse. I've made some inappropriate posts to the same people who just won't leave me alone for years. I am trying to do better now that if I find myself being target with personal attack here at AD, I'll press the bad report button, and just have the moderator do their job in removing a personal attack posts. I might not be perfect, but I can sure make mistakes, and it had happened. sometimes when members rub me the wrong way I just snapped and get even, to be honest It makes me look bad too, because I scoop their level. But, sometimes several members can hide their true color, Of course I dislike two-face people, I would have to learn to ignored, I'm working on it. ;)
 
this is a forum, of course there will be some disagreements...

If I am going to be punish for making speech, then my right of free speech is violated.

And we all have right to act and react in a certain way.....

You can't tell us we can't be two faced or we can't do this or that.

If we let people control us, and tell us we can't get angry, and
allow people like Janet Jackson, Madonna, and freaks from Hollywood
to do whatever they wanna do such as expose themselves, ripping their bra and all in front of our kids....
And some of you guys think that is so cool, but some of us don't think so.
 
i uddy how ur feeling abt that.. they are immature, dont respect, insult and dont care how their feeling.. u know what i mean???
 
In my option.. they don't know how to accpet people's saying.. i was thinking it's really okay for disagree or agree in anything what people have to say. Mostly of them don't want to have them to disagree.. rather to put things on thier sides.

Disagree/Agree
Trust/not trust
Those are okay for all of us to accpet, we can't battle if somebody don't trust you or don't want your options.. if they willing to listen and if they want to comment or not.. it's up to them.

But they tend to put comment in wrong time.. they should have to do thru Pm which they almost didn't.. i guess they just want to see everybody to see who's a winner. which i think it's very immature.
 
sometimes we gotta teach each other that their behavior is not appropiate and don't stop being their friends just because of you disagree with their opinion. This is what life is all about... learning from each other, improving
our behavior. I want to learn how to improve my behavior... I know I can be stubborn sometimes, but I realize that I won't be able to go anywhere or get whatever I want if I don't change my behavior. :mrgreen:
 
Their choice what made caused them angrily againist your breath..

You have no rights critiizite your lifestyle their want from you..
Ridcouisly..
What attack for.. no reason.
hate their own wise breath..
Made them bash'em out til loser.

I've been seen here since lately long years and noth'n new...
So by the way That's life as forum and forum for...

*sigh*
 
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