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Parents Coping With Kids With Autism Have More Questions Than Answers
"I think the hardest thing is feeling like I have no idea how to really reach her or communicate with her. As parents you have dreams, and you're not sure how things are going to be in the future for her.. . .The hard thing is, I have nothing to compare (Emma's life) to."
SABRA MURPHY | Emma's mother
Emma Murphy is a walking statement of affection on a recent afternoon, wearing a bright pink T-shirt that reads, "I Love Mommy." But the golden-haired girl, who will turn 4 this month, never speaks those words herself.
Emma, a pretty girl with vast blue eyes, grips a pencil in her little fist as she wanders the house where a friend of her mother's lives. Instead of using the pencil to draw, as some children her age would, Emma drums it repeatedly against her own chest.
Her left hand bears a stamp she received at her pre-school, an image of a smiling dinosaur beside the words, "Speech is fun."
The irony is that Emma, diagnosed with autism two years ago, essentially has no speech. She pays little attention either to the three other children at the house or to her mother, seated on the front porch.
"I think the hardest thing is feeling like I have no idea how to really reach her or communicate with her," says Sabra Murphy, Emma's mother. "As parents you have dreams, and you're not sure how things are going to be in the future for her. . . . The hard thing is, I have nothing to compare (Emma's life) to."
Autism, a complex and poorly understood neurological disability, impairs the ability to communicate and engage with others. The disorder typically becomes apparent during the first three years of life.
As a "spectrum disorder," autism has a wide range of symptoms and severity, but common characteristics include resistance to change, repetitive behavior, unexplained emotional displays, limited eye contact and a lack of facial expression.
A generation ago, autism was considered rare. Today, the Centers for Disease Control estimates the disorder affects as many as one in every 166 children born in America. In Florida, diagnosed cases of autism increased from 582 in the 1992-1993 school year to 5,915 in 2003-2004, according to the U.S. Department of Education.
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Parents Coping With Kids With Autism Have More Questions Than Answers
"I think the hardest thing is feeling like I have no idea how to really reach her or communicate with her. As parents you have dreams, and you're not sure how things are going to be in the future for her.. . .The hard thing is, I have nothing to compare (Emma's life) to."
SABRA MURPHY | Emma's mother
Emma Murphy is a walking statement of affection on a recent afternoon, wearing a bright pink T-shirt that reads, "I Love Mommy." But the golden-haired girl, who will turn 4 this month, never speaks those words herself.
Emma, a pretty girl with vast blue eyes, grips a pencil in her little fist as she wanders the house where a friend of her mother's lives. Instead of using the pencil to draw, as some children her age would, Emma drums it repeatedly against her own chest.
Her left hand bears a stamp she received at her pre-school, an image of a smiling dinosaur beside the words, "Speech is fun."
The irony is that Emma, diagnosed with autism two years ago, essentially has no speech. She pays little attention either to the three other children at the house or to her mother, seated on the front porch.
"I think the hardest thing is feeling like I have no idea how to really reach her or communicate with her," says Sabra Murphy, Emma's mother. "As parents you have dreams, and you're not sure how things are going to be in the future for her. . . . The hard thing is, I have nothing to compare (Emma's life) to."
Autism, a complex and poorly understood neurological disability, impairs the ability to communicate and engage with others. The disorder typically becomes apparent during the first three years of life.
As a "spectrum disorder," autism has a wide range of symptoms and severity, but common characteristics include resistance to change, repetitive behavior, unexplained emotional displays, limited eye contact and a lack of facial expression.
A generation ago, autism was considered rare. Today, the Centers for Disease Control estimates the disorder affects as many as one in every 166 children born in America. In Florida, diagnosed cases of autism increased from 582 in the 1992-1993 school year to 5,915 in 2003-2004, according to the U.S. Department of Education.
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