I am married to a deaf guy but we both were oral til later learned ASL. We are involved in the deaf community. We both love it!!
Now I am majoring in ASL/Deaf Studies. I just so love it! It is a fascinating culture!
Really, I was raised oral then I threw tantrums, finally my parents got me a deaf teacher with asl. After that I was happy. I met a deaf oralist married a hearing woman, interest so different from us, my husband know sign language. He refused to learn sign language so he is happy with where he is at now. I am so glad u both love ASL, me too.
Interesting about ur old hearing bf, my husband was nothing like that. Many do not believed he was hearing and argued with me that he is deaf. I never forgot that day when I told them, he is not DEAF. Cuz he signed so well alike deaf person till now, he sign with one hand because of bad shoulder he suffer right now. We still communicate with each othre very well.