One thing you Regret

~♥~Pinky~♥~ said:
Why your mom want you to owe her on debt? Why not she give it up and forget it about owe? The important is forgive her for make mistake and forget about past.
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She isn't demanding payment. What I meant was that she's done so much for me, that I feel like I owe her everything.

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Liebling:-))) said:
True, I don't regret anything either because I want to learn improve/correct my mistakes but my issues with my mother is a different story.
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It is not a story.

It's family. The only reason why all your parents were harsh on you. YOu have to know one thing, they did it out of love.

My parents were different. They believed in me making so many mistakes, they wouldn't help me fix my mistakes, I had to see it on my own and solve it by myself. I'd say that I didn't succeed any of them, but I learned how to succeed the mistakes many years later. Guess it's the time that I regret. Tsk.
 
I don't have any major regrets, only a minor one or so. I must admit I regret for putting on weight and not finding the motivation to lose them.
 
I regert for not choose to be withdraw and completely "invisible" student within about three months (after I joined the deaf school) when I knew they wouldn't accept from who I am, I tried to make new friends and made more worthless steps to led me to the painful path I faced once... My life will get better if I did not bother to make any more new friends; my grammar may get much better, I may get fantastic grades, and an advaned talentful artist's skill I and all of those I may have right now while I completely left out and interested in my needs totally. Who knows? =/
 
Dammit. i still obession about turned it down on baseball scholarship on UC Santa Cruz. I'm so so so stupid ever i made: turned it down and went to RIT.

wasted, i know.

now, im ok and at least i play softball.

another regret is: didnt go with USA Deaf team for baseball in world. Stupid am i?
 
imdeafsowhat said:
It is not a story.

It's family. The only reason why all your parents were harsh on you. YOu have to know one thing, they did it out of love.

My parents were different. They believed in me making so many mistakes, they wouldn't help me fix my mistakes, I had to see it on my own and solve it by myself. I'd say that I didn't succeed any of them, but I learned how to succeed the mistakes many years later. Guess it's the time that I regret. Tsk.
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:confused: You assume that my parents were harsh on me out of love without ask me what and how my parents did to me? Are you saying that my parents emotionally/physically abuse and neglect me out of love? or what? I would say that harsh belong form of emotionally abuse. I would never do that to my teenagers.

Excuse me, I am mother of 2 teenagers and know what I am saying. I know what and how my parents did to me is painly wrongly. I forgave my Dad but I have no chance to forgive or try to understand why my mother did to me because she disappeared our life in 1995. I regret for not want to understand her which I should do that.
 
I made a mistake transfering to another location that promptly closed on a career path that could have lead to what used to be my dream job, voice acting for Hasbro/Paramount animations .. but I would have lost that job by now anyway since my hearing is gone. Deaf voice acting isn't a job I wanna fight for. But until I realised I'd never hear again, I regretted that mistake more than anything. It was a career choice that was disasterous. My first of many down-sizing lay-offs. Now my resume might as well say I worked for the longest-running contraband porting business in the world for 12 years earning six figures which I freely donated to a popular criminal political movement to help their initiates' funding for their firearms.
 
Oh yes, i forgot. i regret that i didnt ask Freckles out during HS.

dammit.
 
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