DoofusMama said:Heath-
See my point... you are still selfish...
"adopting child/children" from Europe.. why can you adopt child/children anywhere?
There are so MANY children need to be adopted in anywhere countries..
SilverPanda said:Back off on Heath. It is the person's choice whether they want to be with or marry someone who has no kids or who has kids. I personally do not want to marry someone who has kids with another woman because I don't want to be responsible for that child when it's own mother isn't. Sure go ahead and call me selfish but I'm thinking of what I want. If you can't respect that then I feel bad for you. I respect everyone's decisions and I don't intend to give them a hard time about it because it is THEIR life, not YOURS or MINE.
SilverPanda said:It is his preference!
I want to adopt a deaf girl from China one day in the future. That is a lot more specific, so will you insult me as being selfish?
The reason why I want to adopt a deaf girl from China is because girls are unwanted in China. I think they limit 2 children per couple and boys are more preferred so girls are usually given up or killed. In addition to being deaf, this deaf Chinese girl would have a hell of a life in China so I thought I'd like to adopt one someday.
and still not going to insult you... heheSilverPanda said:It is his preference!
I want to adopt a deaf girl from China one day in the future. That is a lot more specific, so will you insult me as being selfish?
The reason why I want to adopt a deaf girl from China is because girls are unwanted in China. I think they limit 2 children per couple and boys are more preferred so girls are usually given up or killed. In addition to being deaf, this deaf Chinese girl would have a hell of a life in China so I thought I'd like to adopt one someday.
DoofusMama said:Thank you!!
I totally understand that you dont want to be responsible for that child when it's own mother isn't..
What if you fall in love with a woman and date with her.. she was scared to tell you something that she have child.. later in few dates.. Love become so strong and have same common in each other....
she broke news that she have a child or two.. either that they have father visits or.. father dont visits..
what will you do?
that what happen to me I was single for 6 years with 4 kids.. before i met my man.. I told him right away because I dont have anything to hide and yet I love my children to death.. He said great! let see how we all go, our love became really grow.. we all together.. he knew that I still go through my 2nd ex husband's unstable visitations to 2 kids... my man still stand by his feet to support me.. but I always make sure that problems or troubles separate between them.. so my man wont have to be in "middle" or strain our relationship.. all worked well ..

Heath said:Yes you are right it is my preference also, I want to adopt someone from Europe naturally because I am an Europe American and also because almost nobody adopts from Europe and the mass tv media heavily adversites adoption from Africa. I asked a hearing black american family why don't you adopt them ? They said no, leave it to white people to adopt a black child and I thought that was really inappropriate. The another day I noticed a tv adversitment for adoption of jewish kids from Israel on Christian channel TBN .... It is either Africa or Israel or some another country but they never adversite for Europe's kids who live in poverty. Now which one is un-christian ? I ask you Doofusmama ?
Heath, can you care to explain me which Europe country who lives in poverty?DoofusMama said:Really.. alot are non-christains... BUT doesnt matter what races.. Children are humans who need love and raise by kinds of parents to adopt...
I would adopt many children who are homeless... which they are different races, or different nationally or disability or abused or whatever!!! I always have dream to have big ranch and big house with many rooms.. my arms open to homeless children come in my heart and home.. raise them to better happy life.. they deserve that..
Liebling:-))) said:Heath, can you care to explain me which Europe country who lives in poverty?
Levonian said:Mrs. Chimp and I want to adopt a herd of deaf kids. We don’t give a shit whether they’re black, white, brown, or a scrumptious paisley color with orange polka dots. All we care about is that no deaf kid has to face a frightening and bewildering world alone. So who exhibits a stronger sense of true Judeo-Christian ethic—us, or Mr. MasterRace™? But that’s a stupid question, isn’t it? Heath’s God doesn’t care about a person’s actions. All He cares about is whether or not you devote your life kissing His ass and paying Him the appropriate lip service which He so justly deserves. :roll: Hmmm….Heath’s God is a lot like Heath—He has the manners and morals of a spoiled five-year-old child. I think Robert Heinlein hit it right on the head when he said that “men rarely (if ever) manage to dream up a god superior to themselves”.
Heath said:Hi Liebling ,
In all of the European nations , some are from no parents or their families are too big and they can not afford to keep them all under one roof , there are many reasons and I would be happy to adopt a German kid from Germany or from Italy etc.
To all the anothers,
That is just my preference and as I excepted everybody is screaming racism. You would be surprised to see there are alots of kids from Europe in need of a home. I could point you to several European adoption agencies but all of you would just go crazy with big wide eyes and scream racism and act all scared and way too worked up for no necessary reason.
.. who says racism
DoofusMama said:huggs thanks.. you cracked my smile.. hehe.. wow I can picture in my head that many little deaf kids signing.. its like a football field with hands signing wave.. lol..
"polka dots" (hope its not chicken pox) lol .. naww..
Thank you for bring up.. Yes, I agreed with you about Heath or other people who are like him... :roll:
DoofusMama said:.. who says racism
DoofusMama said:.. who says racism
all i said.. all kinds of races/nationally.. even Europe is one of races/nationally...
but you pointed out that you preferred one country Europe.. Now you just said.. Germany or from Italy etc.
they are also races/nationally..
your mind is all boggled up..

Levonian said:Actually, I did. And I'll be the first to admit that it was a little out-of-line. It's just that Heath's Aryan/NeoChristian rhetoric is annoying as hell, and really inappropriate for this message board.
Heath said:I can bet you that if you adopted a kid from Europe then people would scream bloody racism so do not come to me to complain when I already know what you are gonna learn when you adopt a kid from Europe then you will see the real eye of the liberal establishment and what their whole program and agenda is really all about.
DoofusMama said:WTF!!!! you dont get damn point.. You are sure OUT OF LINE...
I said.. I WOULD adopt any kind of "races" .. you know what "races" means..
black, white, brown, purple, orange, green or a scrumptious paisley pattern with orange polka dots AND ANY COLORS..
I do not repeat to you Heath... GO on and rant.. all you want like I care..
CUZ you dont get damn point..