racheleggert
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Now I have "father" in my life....
I'm not sure if its right place for me to post, ALex or Roadrunner, if its @ wrong place, pls move it...
I have this friend, we've been friend for around 2 years already.. He used to work on Highway Patrol, actually for Minnesota State Patrol
Capitol Security / Executive Protection and he suddenly retired at end of 2003 Legislative session, and we've been in touch via e-mails, and then I had to find out from other cop that he returned last week, now as Legislative Police (now they use all retired troopers to be police the Legislature)...
anyways I met him when my governor had State of the State Address back in '03, and I decided to beat my phobia for state trooper (I had some bad experince back in '98), so I decided to talk, and then later on I come back to capitol for legislative session, we keeps on chatting, and then on last day of session, I told him "see ya next session" and he said he was retiring, I was like oh no! As we keep on chatting via e mails, and recentlly in person, and I have been figuring out who's my dad since my real father left and abadoned me, so it was my cop friend. Yesterday I decided it was time for me to admit my feeling for him that he's more like father to me than a friend, so I did. He said that he was so honored then hug me! I explained him what my real dad was like, and he was like oh really?? Yesterday when I was leaving Capitol Building, I said "dad, I have to go home and pack stuff, but will see ya soon and keep in touch e-mail". Now I am calling him "Dad".
I noticed that he worry about me if I dion't show up for session, always talk to me alll of time, we even would horseplay, tease on eachother, share food, would laugh, so many crazy stuff that my real dad wouldn't do. I feel more close to him instead of my real father. He also make me LOL lots. When I told him online last summer that I was raped, he was like WTF??? He was so mad at someone who did to me. He worry about me like if he was my father worrying about what happening to me. I have pic of him with me somewhere, will post later after I move this weekend, when I settle down.
I really hate my real dad becuse he is a deadbeat, doesn't care about my siblings and me at all, doesn't want to do anything with me at all.. He doesn't care.
I'm not sure if its right place for me to post, ALex or Roadrunner, if its @ wrong place, pls move it...
I have this friend, we've been friend for around 2 years already.. He used to work on Highway Patrol, actually for Minnesota State Patrol
Capitol Security / Executive Protection and he suddenly retired at end of 2003 Legislative session, and we've been in touch via e-mails, and then I had to find out from other cop that he returned last week, now as Legislative Police (now they use all retired troopers to be police the Legislature)...
anyways I met him when my governor had State of the State Address back in '03, and I decided to beat my phobia for state trooper (I had some bad experince back in '98), so I decided to talk, and then later on I come back to capitol for legislative session, we keeps on chatting, and then on last day of session, I told him "see ya next session" and he said he was retiring, I was like oh no! As we keep on chatting via e mails, and recentlly in person, and I have been figuring out who's my dad since my real father left and abadoned me, so it was my cop friend. Yesterday I decided it was time for me to admit my feeling for him that he's more like father to me than a friend, so I did. He said that he was so honored then hug me! I explained him what my real dad was like, and he was like oh really?? Yesterday when I was leaving Capitol Building, I said "dad, I have to go home and pack stuff, but will see ya soon and keep in touch e-mail". Now I am calling him "Dad".
I noticed that he worry about me if I dion't show up for session, always talk to me alll of time, we even would horseplay, tease on eachother, share food, would laugh, so many crazy stuff that my real dad wouldn't do. I feel more close to him instead of my real father. He also make me LOL lots. When I told him online last summer that I was raped, he was like WTF??? He was so mad at someone who did to me. He worry about me like if he was my father worrying about what happening to me. I have pic of him with me somewhere, will post later after I move this weekend, when I settle down.
I really hate my real dad becuse he is a deadbeat, doesn't care about my siblings and me at all, doesn't want to do anything with me at all.. He doesn't care.