My daughter is being bullied! Help!

diehardbiker65 said:
Hey, some of you think I may lose my temper around here. Really, this is my expression I have in generally and I wasn't even having temper at all. I actually ask Cheri if she notice me losing temper? She watched me on cam all the way, and she said no. So, to make it clear I wasn't. Ask yourself, did I enlarge my font, like some people do? I almost never did! Also once you chat with me on AIM or in RL, you will understand me better. :)

It does offend me when a person who never been in their shoes and preach them what they thinks so. It DOES turns me off.
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Yeah right. That's why Cheri can not see your feet stomping...
 
Hi there,

Some school bus companies have a on-board camera to watch for activity of fight, bully and etc. I used ride on chartered bus for camping.. I saw there is a on-board camera in the overhead board. My city buses and city trains have a on-board camera, I looked the black box, it's look like a digital hard drive to record video and sound.
 
Mookie said:
Yeah right. That's why Cheri can not see your feet stomping...
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:rofl: Or that Diehardbiker went in the kitchen away from the webcam and then got mad. You never know , man !!! :rofl:
 
Mookie said:
Yeah right. That's why Cheri can not see your feet stomping...
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He's not lying beside why is your full attention on him instead of helping RebelGirl with her situation? Shall we get back on topic ;)
 
Cheri said:
This is the first time I actually disagree with you, Sorry :( I don't think that would solve the problem because, nobody should be pushing anyone off the bus and letting the bully win this round. Gotta stand up and put the end to it all, so that her daughter would feel safe to ride the bus and go to school. ;)
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okay that fine..

if i have kid, i will be happy take my kid to school and make her or him happy and i dont wanna see my kid get unhappy, sad or suffer all the time.. nah.. i wanna seemy kid and wanna make my kid feel better, safe and happy..
 
TweetyBird said:
okay that fine..

if i have kid, i will be happy take my kid to school and make her or him happy and i dont wanna see my kid get unhappy, sad or suffer all the time.. nah.. i wanna seemy kid and wanna make my kid feel better, safe and happy..
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I agree with you, I am glad I took them to school myself than send them on bus. Bus is not safe anymore for kids nowdays.
 
Cheri said:
He's not lying beside why is your full attention on him instead of helping RebelGirl with her situation? Shall we get back on topic ;)
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Your boyfriend started his own public announcement... :smoking:

Yet, I already wrote my comment in this thread...
 
yeah TweetyBird :)

in future when I have my own kids and I would not put them in school bus .. I rather near school so they can walk there, drop off or pick them up.

I used to be in school bus in junior school and sometime the guy was picking on me not always but in school oh yah got bullied on me. One 4 or 5 guys was chased me want to beat me up but I saw them was chased me so I had to run and behind the teacher but the teacher was move away from me and laugh till the guy puched my tummy so hard which I couldnt breath and went to office about it and teacher still laugh geez at her .. She should stop them but didnt so I went to office and talk to the princpal (sp) and the princpal take care of it and I am not sure if princpal give him detetion which I cant remember. it was awful which he punched my tummy. right now he is adult and dont bullied again in high school.
 
Interesting thread here. Everyone have good points.

First of all I´m sorry to hear how you feel about your daughter and her friend, Rebelgirl. I will be back for my further post here to suggest you something what I know from my experience how to deal with bullies how my children were being treated by them.

I had been done the same what Codagirl´s post.




*I have to go now and let my son to use computer because he is supposing to chat with his friend at 8.15pm which it´s one minute late* My son will stay with computer until 9.00 pm then go bedtime then I´m back for my answer...* :thumb:
 
Maybe contact the principle at school and tell her/him that your daughter is being bullied at the bus stop and perhaps on the bus too.
 
TweetyBird said:
okay that fine..

if i have kid, i will be happy take my kid to school and make her or him happy and i dont wanna see my kid get unhappy, sad or suffer all the time.. nah.. i wanna seemy kid and wanna make my kid feel better, safe and happy..
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Yet the bully still goes to the same school as she does, So the problem will still be at school if not on the bus. What are you gotta do then? ;)
 
If I had my own kid, I would call the school officals about the problem and have a meeting with them because a bully is a serious problem to their own children.
Taking them to school with parents's transportation doesn't solve ALL the problems, bully is at the school bullying around your kid, still a problem.
I have been bullied so many times when I was in high school and the bully hasn't got in trouble, sometimes because he wasn't caught by the school officals.

The bullies deserve a no tolerance law. It's all about respect, not suffering thru it.
 
Rebelgirl,
Do you know what the root cause of all this is? It would seem that something else has been taking place that you weren't aware of. Are they arguing at school over something (your daughter and the bully)? Has your daughter talked to you about what may have occurred and what is taking place? Once you have that information, I would suggest contacting the school and making an attempt to make contact with the other parent. Don't come screaming up into their front yard raising holy hell, but stop in and be calm and polite. Explain that something has been going on between the girls and you would like to put an end to it. If you go in there raising hell, they will just think your a nut and that their daughter is in the right.

Again, be sure to contact the school. I don't know what the schools are like there, but perhaps an administrator or guidance counselor will have a sit down with the other girl. Not only does this put the school on notice, but it shows to her that she is being put on notice as well.
 
Number 1... Talk out Boy or Girl's parent if not working out..
next step...
Number 2... Talk out w/pricpical at the school.. sort out about bullies.. Will their eyes open wide and disagree issues "Bullies" There will come discusision child's parent..
Number 3.. If works out well or not..
Number 4... not working... call police.. file complaint report.. if Police cannot do anything.. Then call lawyer.. Lawyer will be very happy service for you.. will handed to supernoea(sp) to child's parent! *Warning*

I do following proccess proprite way...
 
Cheri said:
Yet the bully still goes to the same school as she does, So the problem will still be at school if not on the bus. What are you gotta do then? ;)
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then i will walk up to school and talk them about that... if still bully then i will talk school again and make sure set up meeting with their parents...
 
sequoias said:
If I had my own kid, I would call the school officals about the problem and have a meeting with them because a bully is a serious problem to their own children.
Taking them to school with parents's transportation doesn't solve ALL the problems, bully is at the school bullying around your kid, still a problem.
I have been bullied so many times when I was in high school and the bully hasn't got in trouble, sometimes because he wasn't caught by the school officals.

The bullies deserve a no tolerance law. It's all about respect, not suffering thru it.
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yea true i agree with u that.. that what i talk abt it...
 
HOLD YOUR HORSES!!!! I am soo behind on this.. already on page 4!!! I haven't even gotten to read after my 2nd post! Let me read all this and I'll answer some things I need to say and will speak of my opinion. Wow.. thank you for the great support but let me read all this first before i say anything! :nana:
 
TweetyBird said:
then i will walk up to school and talk them about that... if still bully then i will talk school again and make sure set up meeting with their parents...
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If it does not work with school, please attend to the PTA...
 
RebelGirl said:
HOLD YOUR HORSES!!!! I am soo behind on this.. already on page 4!!! I haven't even gotten to read after my 2nd post! Let me read all this and I'll answer some things I need to say and will speak of my opinion. Wow.. thank you for the great support but let me read all this first before i say anything! :nana:
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Please attend to the PTA. Ensure that you need to inform your daughter's school to provide you ASL interpreter in advance. Someday, some mothers and fathers would respect you if you assert for your daughter's safety against bully kids....

Yeah right back to you, :nana:
 
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